On the first date, I usually find out what the guy is all about.
1. Does he drink (excessively), do drugs, smoke?
2. Does he have a string of women, been Unfaithful?
3. Is he abusive, violent, controlling, or manipulative/mental?
4. Does he place family first and foremost?
5. What is his childhood background and family relationship like?
If he answers "yes" to any of the 3 above, I run as fast as I can.
If he isn't into those things, then Questions 4 and 5 come into play, and if he is kind hearted, simple, and good, which is a rare find these days, then yes there are more dates to come.
Girls, I hope this doesn't sound critical or demeaning but is this the way you make judgments on a man during the first date?
I do it in a polite jokingly way when I get to know him. It is not all in seriousness.
Example: I'll say I drink Vodka on the rocks, and he'll start ordering for me and him and then it turns into 4 drinks for him. That is my warning to leave pronto.
2006-09-01
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