My bf is friends with an older,married woman,nearly twice his age,with kids.Theyve known each other for 8 years,and have been 'dating' the entire time including being physical and telling each other they loved each other.When i started dating him it wasnt serious, but he decided that he wanted to start growing up and living in reality- so he stopped seeing all other women, dating only me.But he still is friends with this women.he tells me they had this long talk and decided that he was never going to be able to have a real relationship with someone if they were like the way they were.but i know he still loves her,cant just turn it off, even if he has stopped acting like it. he hasnt denied this.they still hang out occassionally,but he refuses to introduce us because they both dont want to feel it would be stupid and pointless.i love this man with all my heart, but cant imagine marrying someone who loves another woman too. how would you feel about this, am i overreacting?
2006-08-26
14:37:48
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