I am 29wks pregnant and i am so happy about this baby.
My baby comes first , but i haven't lost sight of the fact that i am still a person. Sometimes i think my fiance has.
He is so ecstatic about this child, he has wanted one for so long however, along the way, i sometimes think he forgets i am an actual "person" and not JUST the person carrying our child. EVERYTHING is about baby - which is all fine and good except he forgets ME in the equation. I feel like nothing more than a glorified baby-carrier at times. It's like, i cease to be me - especially since i'm showing so much and baby is so active. Everything is focussed on the baby - right down to the sex - its always about how this could be affecting baby and is baby ok with it etc - i want to scream sometimes! I love this baby too but I AM STILL A PERSON WHO EXISTS FOR MORE PURPOSES THAN TO CARRY THIS CHILD!
Can ANYONE relate? We've always had such a wonderful relationship, what can i do to make him see i'm still "me"?
2007-01-30
09:12:48
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Smiley One
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