My friend says she is pregnant and I am not shocked. She has slept with so many guy's it is not funny. She is only 15 and a bad influnce on me and I hate it. Before I meet her I never thought about half the stuff I do now. And I told her if she is pregnant I have to end my friendship with her. Now she is acting the same way and tells me she is sick. So I want to know what I should do and she says she is two months pregnant what are the signs?
2007-01-30 08:35:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
this is what you should do bluff and end your friendship with her just to see what she would do and let me know what happen and ill give you another answer when she makes a move hit me up on my email
2007-01-30 08:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by darnell f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad Influence or not, you shouldn't quit being friends with her just because she is pregnant. A good friend would tell her mom. She really does need to see a doctor. If she is pregnant, she really will be needing a friend and you should be there for her. She could have a major self confidence problem and that could be the cause of her sleeping around. Try to tell her mom and maybe she can set up some counseling for her. Don't dis her right now, she will probably need you most. You can choose to back off a little and gradually stop hanging out with her as much, but you really should try to be there for her now. First thing is to definitely tell her parents. She really needs some help before she catches something worse than a baby.
2007-01-30 16:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by kris10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone has the same pregnancy signs. If she really is pregnant she will start showing in the next month or two. The only way to know for sure, is have her take a pregnancy test and show you the results. I don't blame you for ending your friendship with her. It seems as though she lies to you a lot. And if she is pregnant I feel sorry for that baby.
2007-01-30 16:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off thats not being a really good person or friend, you dont throw a friend away over something like that. You cant blame her for the things you do or think of, thats all in your control. Of cource the first sign in most women is a missed period but its not uncommon to have regular bleeding while pregnant.Sore or swollen breasts, feeling sick or throwing up, being tired all the time.....the signs are different in every women, what you need to do is be a real friend and help her get to a doctor asap.
2007-01-30 16:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by BaBy KiSsEs!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her mother ASAP. She will be mad if you tell but it is better for her if you do. If she is pregnant she needs to see a doctor. I know someone who thought they were pregnant at 15 and didn't tell anyone. She waited a few months and she was getting bigger. She finally got very sick at went to the hospital and found that instead of being pregnant it was cancer growing inside her. Her eggs were underdeveloped. I don't know all of the details of why that caused her cancer but she almost died and went through months of treatments. If she had told her mother right away she wouldn't have been so sick. They would have caught earlier.
The point is she needs to get checked out and girls need to stop having sex so young. You are not ready for the responsibilities that go along with sex at that age. I don't care what the boy says, if he loves you he will respect you.
good luck with your friend. please tell someone who can help her.
2007-01-30 16:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our lives are like trees each step we take and choice we make leads us to a different branch. Maybe your friend needs your better influence, don't blame any changes you make on her b/c the only person that can change you is you. If you are a strong person then you will stay true to your values and make the right choice. Your friend is very young to be pregnant and now more then ever she will need a true friend. Stay strong for her and show her what is right. I'm sure she is afraid of a what is happening to her and more afraid of losing you if she changed her story so quick. After all she did trust you with her secret. Please keep in mind that if she misses her period she does need to go to a doctor to protect herself and the baby. Good luck.
2007-01-30 16:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Palokina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel that she is a bad influnce on you then you shouldn't hangout with her...I used to get into alot of trouble with people that were no good for me, But then i started to think about it and i didn't want to be around people who would bring me down.
I'm 15 weeks pregnant and my friend told me about a site called www.babycenter.com they will tell you anything you need to know. Hope everything gets better for you
2007-01-30 16:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't end your friendship with her because she's pregnant. She could really use your help. Think about the baby. Her breasts are probably bigger and she might be eating weird stuff. Naseau is common... But a lot of people aren't. Does the dad know? The two of you should be there for her.
2007-01-30 16:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you'd be able to tell she was pregnant until she was about 4-5 months and started showing. You're not much of a friend though... if I were her i'd have told you to bugger off a long time ago. Nobody threatens me and tells me they wont be my friend anymore IF anything. I have more respect for myself then that.
2007-01-30 16:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Gig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, you should stop dissing your "friend" so much, you dont really sound like one. I know it can be frustrating when a friend gets on your nerves, but you should blame her for your actions. Why dont you just cut the friendship lose and you wont have to bother with the problem.
In regards to signs, it literally can be different for anyone. Some women can show morning sickness and some dont. And some dont even show that they are prengnat until 7 months. So good luck.
2007-01-30 16:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Hmm 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋