she is totally freaking out. we told my mom and she took us to the dr. and found out she is. know this was 9 months ago when our parents send us to boarding school. know she is due in 3 days what should we do???????!!!!!!
2007-01-30 09:56:31 · 23 answers · asked by cindy c 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
shes due in 3 days?what did you wait so long for?of course you should tell her parents!they could probably help!how did you get by without them finding out for this long?
2007-01-30 10:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes your parents can be the best support even when you think they won't be. maybe for a little bit they would have a hard time but they will very soon accept her and the baby. I would encourage you from the bottom of my heart if her parents care about her and love her at least call the mom and tell her so she can be with her when delivering the baby. The delivery room is a scary place even for an adult and it is very comforting knowing that your mom is right there. Nobody else can really take her place and your friend will probalby be mad at you for a while but then a true friend always does what is best for her friend even when it hurts right that second. Be a real friend. They are going to find out anyways. Try to give the mom the courtsey of knowing so she can be with her daughter.
Love in christ!!!
2007-01-30 10:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by highlight0405 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man.--you and your mom have got to make sure that this girl has her baby in a hospital - - - and not something criminal-like. I mean this could be bad! Tell your mom about this possible scenario! Another thing - who is going to pay the bill (at the hospital?). And then who will take care of the baby, and buy clothing, diapers, baby food, trips to the doctor, immunizations, sickness issues during the coming months/years, on and on? There's GOT to be AN ADULT involved in this. And you know this don't you? Since you and your mom know what's going on, you are somewhat (if not fully) responsible. Now thr Doctor - he is legally responsible (under law) - quick!..remind him of this. He may lose his license. He may get sued.
It's not looking good. Get going on this, pronto!! Please.
2007-01-30 10:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this world coming to?????
Babies having babies!!!!
My dear... you have to tell her parents!! If she doesn't... it could be bad. Who is going to take care of this baby when it comes into this world?! She is WAY TOO YOUNG!!!
She isn't even old enough to take care of herself! How is she going to be able to buy pampers, formula, clothes, take the baby to the doctor if and when it gets sick?!
Sweetheart... even though she is your best friend... you NEED TO ACT LIKE HER BEST FRIEND!!! If she isn't going to stand up and tell her parents... you need to!!!
It may hurt the both of you, but you need to do it or convince her to. There is no other way.
I think that it would be the best for all of you that knows!!!
I'm not trying to hurt you... But if your mother took her... She should of been the ADULT in the situation and said something!!! A LONG TIME AGO!!!!
What if your mother got into trouble for taking a minor that she had no legal gaurdianship over to the doctor? I don't know if she can get into trouble for it... but what if she could?
Did any of you think about that? NO!!
All I can say is to tell her parents or make her tell them. It would be best for all!! Especially the unborn baby.
Did she even think of that? That baby will be the one to suffer if she doesn't do something.
Good luck my dear. I hope that you do what's right and your friend could quit being selfish and think of that baby if not for herself and family!!
2007-01-30 10:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥~Momma In Love~♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just tell some 13 yo girl that you are an O.B.G.Y.N. (baby doctor) and for her not to worry, that you see these things all the time? What kind of game are YOU playing? Don't ask stupid questions and if you are only 11, don't be telling other members that you are a doctor! Shame on you!
2007-01-30 10:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Goddess 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER PARENTS becuse this would help her in the long run. I mean they will come forward to take care of the baby while she go to school.... I think both of you should confront the parents at once and you can give her motavation to speak out.
2007-01-30 10:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by MSS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I cant believe that her parents didnt know what was going on...Her parents need to know b/c what is going to happen when she has the baby the hospital is going to ask where they are anyways and also if she hasnt been to a docter the entire time she needs to have things checked out to make sure everything is ok
2007-01-30 10:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Strawberries 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hardly think that if your mother took someone elses child to a doctor she would find out the child was pregnant and in the event that it was true i am sure she would have told your friend's parents or in any case she will deliver in a few days and her parents will know then
2007-01-30 10:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by k s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should pay better attention in your English and Grammar classes. Your friend should keep her legs closed for the rest of her life. She is obviously an idiot and should not be allowed to reproduce.
You're 11 years old for god sake! You should be playing with Barbie's not having sex!
2007-01-30 10:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by dovey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off this is highly implausible but you can't do much but tell her parents....my question is why is an 11 year having sex and you would have to give the baby up for adoption or have the grandparent raise the baby.....these questions are just nuts b/c you kids think this stuff is funny and its not
2007-01-30 10:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋