My 20 weeks scan is next week and I really want to find out the sex. Its not so as I can but pink/blue clothes etc, but because Im not really bonding with this baby as of yet due to having a difficult pregnancy, and I feel that if I knew the sex and could stop calling it "it", it would help me bond, which I am desperate to do. However, my partner doesn't want to know the sex and his family keep making comments about "doing it the old fashioned way" and "shouldn't be finding out the sex" etc. I may be oversensitive but its beginnig to upset me and I feel like im doing something wrong and being ganged up on. I feel like, although it is both our baby, i am the one carrying it, suffering badly for it and I should be able to know if i want, without being accused of being selfish! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
2006-12-27
06:34:01
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Serry's mum
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