I put a post to someones question about regretting abortions a few days ago. Well today I get this awful email from this woman saying I should regret not holding my son as he died. First off I think this is a personal choice, and I made the one that was right for me. Second, how could someone hold a baby so tiny (he was 16 weeks gestation) and see his heartbeating and watch him die, knowing there was nothing you could do for him? I guess I'm not that strong. But I couldn't believe the audacity of her telling me I have a lot to regret because I ended his life and never even held him. I was dying!! I would never have made that choice otherwise. I'm sorry, but I just can't believe that woman. If you were in the position of, if you didnt' deliver you would die, no matter what your baby was going to die, and you had three small daughters at home, what would you have done? I don't regret my decision, I regret no having any other choice. I'm so upset!
2006-11-01
07:25:56
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justwondering
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