Adolescent - December 2006

tonight i left my b/f after 2 yrs I was very close with his daughter.I loved her like she was mine.Her mom is a crackhead left her as a baby, came in & out of thier livesgrowing up,now she is 14&the son is 17 was raised by her father who really has no clue on raising kids he calls her names when he is mad Kinda a hothead &doesn't have the pacients it takes to raise kids.I have been telling him for a year he needs to get help for his daughter before she gets worse she was sneeking out caught drinking found wiskey in her room always make excuses for it & he would believe her.She can minulipate him like no other now a year later she is having sex with a 22 yr old, found out she has did coke, hot tub parties with boys & girls, failed a drug test, but convinced her dad she was just in the room while they were smoking it & her believed her. I am worried to death about her I love her, I believe if you show love 2 a child you will get results, he believes in police & yelling,Help!

2006-12-19 14:41:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

him ive just turned 17, ive picked up a terrible habit....thumbsucking..... i did it at first at a party for a bet a few months ago.....but when i got home i realised how much i enjoiyed it....it mad me feel so comfortable.....so now ive been regularly doin it and i cant stop it.....i enjoiy but i know its wrong and im worried if get cught doin it.....wat shuld i do to stop thi s habit???

SUM1 PLS HELP

2006-12-19 14:12:25 · 6 answers · asked by jj m 1

2006-12-19 13:42:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay this guy i like said i was pretty but he likes another girl that DOSENT LIKE HIM he KNOWS I LIKE HIM and he dosent really know me nor do i really know him.
okay im a cheerleader and i have this basketball game on friday and i want to ask him if he likes me.

GUYS IF YOU WERE HIM WOULD YOU ATLEAST CONSIDER LIKING ME?

2006-12-19 12:53:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I know, his names Brad, and the other day, today I mean.. He asked me to marry him, I hardly knew him, and it was so weird!!! Should I take this as he thought I was ugly or should I be flattered??? I'm not sure what to think? Ofcourse I said 'NO', I mean I'm 13 and so was he.. I felt really weird about it.. What do you think possesed him to ask me this?? Was it a dare or a joke or was it his way of saying he likes me but getting around it by saying 'will you marry me?'

2006-12-19 12:43:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all,in my opinion there is nothing wrong with it. It is way of Dancing!
Second of all, Even if freak dancing is like sex with your clothes on, It is better than with them off, so yall trippin?

2006-12-19 12:41:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a concern... Im 15 and my boy-friends 19 and i completely understand there is a sort of big age diffrence. but hes not like everyone else. He respects me in every way and sense of the word! Hes the person that knows me the best and i know he's not looking for sex. I know im only 15 but i think for my age im a pretty mature intelligent young lady who knows whats best. i know hes not taking advantage of me in any way! we've been together for almost 5 months now and just incase no, we havent had sex! 15 might sound a little young but can i get some opinions on this???

2006-12-19 12:16:34 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

does anyone? it's by marques houston and i dont like the song. i like the VIDEO. does anyone else? it's called naked.

2006-12-19 11:36:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 16yr old girl and he's a 18yr old guy... He has a car so going somewhere isnt out of the question... We hang out a fair bit, but usually neither of us can decide what to do and we end up just fooling around... Neither of us have a lot of money (he's a university student and I just quit my job)...

Any fun ideas?

2006-12-19 11:31:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

her parents said they'd pay for the surgery.
now my opinion is noses with bumps and bigger ones give character n can be hot. shes gorgeous.
but under these circumstances, as horrible as she feels would any plastic surgeon perform surgery on a 14 yr old if they were really mature?

2006-12-19 11:25:08 · 6 answers · asked by jessica 1

know how she should discipline her.

In the past she would withhold her Christmas gifts, but she doesn't want to go that route. Because now my sister has been doing very well.

My sister use to be a C and D student, but now she is almost on the honor roll. Her attitude has changed as well. She hasn't gotten into any trouble until now.

My mom wants to give Christmas presents to my sister and punish her in another way, but doesn't know how. Any suggestions?

(My sister and her friend are 17 and 16 and were trying to shoplift thong underwear)

2006-12-19 11:02:49 · 16 answers · asked by JadedEzzence 1

I am a single parent and pay $1200/month for rent. I am a nurse. I am having a lot of trouble paying my bills and keeping up with all the other things (such as food and entertainment). My sister has asked me to move in with her until I can catch up on bills, but my 14 year old son is dead set against it. Is there any way to persuade him to change his mind? I know that moving is hard, but I have no family near me (besides him) and he is stuck at home while I work as many hours as possible to make ends meet. Any suggestions?

2006-12-19 11:01:43 · 18 answers · asked by stuartsmom1 1

well again im back again i wanna have a kid so bad but the thing is im only 13 and really am jus havin those moments as well as my ex wanted us to do it but unfortunatly i didnt should i have them or no explain y plz

2006-12-19 10:50:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

both of my older sisters are 34as or something around there and i think im a 32a and im 14. will mine get any bigger at all cuz i feel really uncomfortable becuz there are girls in my grade that are soooooooooooo much bigger then me and get all of the guys. i barely have boyfreidns i think cuz of it.

2006-12-19 10:37:28 · 8 answers · asked by sup yo 5

okay i wanna be a father im 13 but i jus have those times i wanna be a father. do u think i should go 4 it or not? plz explain y u say so

2006-12-19 10:22:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 10 year old girl who goes to a VERY prestigous school (i am not doing very well in the grades department, i suck at math). I am in 5th grade (middle school) and right when i got into middle school everything seemes to be going wrong. My freind asked my former boyfreind (who i dated for a day) why we went out in the first place (i told her NOT to EVER bring him up again) and he said cuse i liked him. NOT TRUE! he is new this year and he told me he liked me and so I decided 2 be nice and tell him i liked him to, witch i absolutely DO NOT! and so she just told me this yesterday. AND also to top it off, i was really heartset on getting a dog and my parents said i could have one if the allergie doctor said its okay for my brother to have one. So, he went this morning to the doctor to get tested for the allergie and he has one so now i cant have any pets ever cuse he's allergic
to cats, too. I hate my horrible, horrible, horrible life!
help me out please.

2006-12-19 10:03:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

also is it normal for a 12 year old to get bon3rs and things??

2006-12-19 09:23:25 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time on saturday and sunday we used a condom but only half way through the intercourse.. he said he didnt *** before. I had my period 17 days before that and it has been 5 days since then and I am bloated and have gas??!? Is this what is supposed to happen if your pregnant???
HELP!

2006-12-19 09:08:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 12 year old, bright, talented, really smart (she was skipped) 12 year old cousin, who has recently been like a daughter to me. I've noticed she doesn't really act like a typical 12 year old girl. She dresses very tom boyish, and hates 'pretty' things. As of recently, I tried to convince her to go shopping and let me buy her an outfit. She of course threw a fit, saying she didn't want anything too girlie. Is there a way I can convince her to compromise? I understand that one day, Tom Boy will be here style, but she can make that decision when she is 18 (lol). For now, I'd like her to incorporate girlie things. Is this wrong of me? Please help.

2006-12-19 09:01:14 · 30 answers · asked by daviesgravy 1

here it is shes 5 feet or 5'1 and she weighs 140 pounds-138 yet shes a good runner and she doesnt have that big of a belly she does but not that big... because i dont know shes feeling bad about it you know so like im not sure either so if she is ill give her advice and if she isnt ill show her this question to make her feel better that shes not that fat

2006-12-19 08:41:33 · 15 answers · asked by unsure 2

My daughter ha sasked me what a vibrator is she is 11 what can i say how shall i explain?

2006-12-19 07:46:34 · 21 answers · asked by lil titch 1

2006-12-19 07:41:00 · 42 answers · asked by LAK74 1

I was just wondering since I have seen so many teenagers smoking on my way from school that couldnt have been older than 14. How is it possible to get them other than from older siblings and parents?

2006-12-19 07:32:37 · 39 answers · asked by cul8rhote 3

I'm attracted to them, and have no idea why. I would like to know why we love them so much. The milk doesn't even taste that good.

2006-12-19 07:25:48 · 18 answers · asked by George 3

she lives wityh her father in clacton and he,s agreed.. i really need to find the right way of changing her mind.

2006-12-19 07:01:49 · 97 answers · asked by ELLIE 1

2006-12-19 06:56:06 · 25 answers · asked by Michelle j 1

ok i am getting no answers!!! i think i am bi..is this wrong??

how can i tell my mom and dad and family?? AND MY BF!!

2006-12-19 06:46:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is an honor student -ALWAYS studying; has no friends, no hobbies other than playing piano and riding his bike. He seems depressed to me, rarely smiles and talks even less,nothing seems to impress or excite him. He is quite antisocial. This is my brothers son. What gift do you get someone like this???

2006-12-19 06:35:08 · 10 answers · asked by Pandora 3

Would you make her get married? What would you do to her boyfriend if he was only 16?

2006-12-19 06:31:33 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

In Britain only

2006-12-19 05:46:56 · 55 answers · asked by wendy 1