okay i wanna be a father im 13 but i jus have those times i wanna be a father. do u think i should go 4 it or not? plz explain y u say so
2006-12-19 10:22:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Please tell me you're joking?!?! How will you provide for this child? Obviously you don't have a good job and are either just finishing elementary school or just starting high school. Give your head a shake. When you're married and have a good job to provide for your family, then you can have a child.
2006-12-19 10:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by kksundin 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hold up Kiddo!
Being a father is a lot of resposibility! Not just having one. You must know how to take care of your child, take care of the mother and so on. Plus your body is not ready to take on the stress headon .
In conclusion, you should not go for it, at leat not until you're about 20! Don't risk it kid. Live out your teenage years first!
2006-12-19 13:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet you my two yr old nephew could even answer that of course not ur 13 wait ur still in school im 23 and i dont have kids wait till your older focus on your school not having kids!! thats kind of sick too wh do you want to be a father u probabaly cant even support yourself how can u support a baby! ever of the thing 4 evry action theres a consequnce
2006-12-19 11:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kristyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok lets think it through........ your 13 if you get a kid you will have to support tthem, you will most likely have to drop out of school to supposr your kid, and that menas you wouldn't go to collage which means you wont have a descent job. Also, it means you will be dissapintinhg your family! If you raely want to feel like a father get your parents to agree to adopt an child taht would stay at the centeer. So you would bring teh kid toys etc abd get to spend time with them. I hope i have conviced you and before you do anything you regret talk to someone please. Lastley you want to have a kis with someone your truley in love with. Having a kid with someone you truley care about is what you will look forward to everyday!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 10:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course not you noob. What are you goin to support a family off of your allowance? I think not. Once you commit to having a kid it's your problem until he/she turns 18. Your not even 18 or even really that close. It's nice that you want to have a family but hold off for a couple of years, at least until your 18 when you can get a job and actually provide for your child.
2006-12-19 10:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you aren't emotionally or physically ready to be a father. you're probably in the 7th grade, so do you really want to give up your life this early? think about the consequences you would face: chances of finishing HS are one in a million,no college,trouble finding a decent job,parents,finding a decent house, raising the child in general, and so on and so on. you shouldn't be sexually active at you age anyways. you should wait until you are MARRIED before you start thinking of a family. the best thing you should do right now is concentrate on finishing HS and maybe going to college. talk to a counselor and your parents. do you honestly want to give up your childhood and adolescent years so soon? think about it sweetheart
2006-12-19 10:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by blondcmc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Come live me for a week. (I have a 9 year old and a 19mo) It will be great birth control. Its great that you want to be a dad - when your older. Right now you cant even support the baby. Best to wait honey.
2006-12-19 10:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r way too young!! i say u should be married before u have children that way there r 2 ppl to raise the baby and also u kinda need a job to support the baby
2006-12-19 13:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no mate, you may want it, but your still a kid yourself.
you have your whole life to have kids, if you do it now, you will never have the fun that comes with being a single, free adult.
wait, enjoy your youth, when your a crumpy old man of about 30! then have kids
2006-12-19 11:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take care of something get a puppy, goldfish or gerbil. You can't provide for a child. How unfair would that be to him/her?
2006-12-19 10:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋