2006-12-19 07:41:00 · 42 answers · asked by LAK74 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if your son disagrees then don't.
2006-12-19 07:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dirty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Don't talk to her about it. Leave the innocent girl alone right now. She is going threw difficult times. Her and your son need to figure out what to do TOGETHER. And without help from parents on what to do with the baby. She should not get an abortion. If they tell you they don't want to keep the baby instead of talking about abortion, talk about adoption. Other couples who CAN NOT have babies will want to take the baby in.
2006-12-19 09:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel that you should bring the question up to the young lady. If she hasn't said anything about it then just let her and your son make the decisions besides they are the ones that made the child. Just think about your son.....Would you have aborted him? that is a question you should ask yourself. that innocent child does not deserve to be killed for the parents being irresponsible. Let this be a lesson to both your son and his girlfriend. I just hope you see that the child gets taking care of GRANDMA. congratulations
2006-12-21 11:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by MonsieB. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why you would do that!! Is she preg? And even if she was its not really your place to talk to her about it. She does have parents I would assume that should talk to her about it. If you have a close relationship with your son in which in turn the two of them talk to you frequently..and they come to you about it then sure go ahead by all means. But I would suggest staying away from that type of convo only cuz if they aren't having sex then you're giving them the idea that you don't trust them and what not when they may not be doing anything wrong!
2006-12-19 07:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by MLP 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you have a close relationship with her and she respects you, then you can try. But if she is pregnant, that is not something that you should talk to her about at all. That is her and your son's business because they created the child together. I don't think you happened to the be in the bed with them, while they were procreating... Like I said, it depends on the situation. If you happen to talk about it with her, give her some space to breathe and think for herself.
2006-12-21 01:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming she's pregnant. If no one has talked to her about it, it's probably a good idea - she's too young to realize how this will affect her life. But if she's heard all her options and made up her mind, then don't bother her further. Your son will just have to spend the next 18 years paying child support - maybe you should have talked to him about condoms.
2006-12-19 11:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by eri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off I am totally against abortion. If your son and his girl friend are old and mature enough to have sex, (with out protection) then they are old and mature enough to take up the responsability of taking care of what comes out.
2006-12-19 10:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pro-choice then I would say you are given the option to talk to her about it. As soon as she begins to get angry about it let it go though. She may be thinking about it right now except she may feel she is in the wrong for thinking it. By talking to her about it you show that she is not abnormal. Good luck.
2006-12-19 07:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by dgriffith868 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything to her, she has enough to think about w/out you putting more thoughts into her head. Abortion is killing an innocent life, if anything suggest adoption.
2006-12-19 11:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by luvmyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi:
Maybe if you just present yourself as being available if she wants to talk. Put yourself in her shoes - if she really seems to not have someone to talk to about that issue, then it might be a good idea to just be as tactful as possible and let her know that you are a friend she can confide in. Hope this helps.
2006-12-19 07:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by artistpw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Its not up to you or your son. Talking to her about it could push her away from you and your son. Just supoprt her and your son with whatever decision they make. If they choose to keep the baby then be the best grandma/grandpa you can be.
2006-12-19 07:44:27 · answer #11 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋