well again im back again i wanna have a kid so bad but the thing is im only 13 and really am jus havin those moments as well as my ex wanted us to do it but unfortunatly i didnt should i have them or no explain y plz
2006-12-19 10:50:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Humans brains are wired to become attached to baby faces and to think they're cute....but at 13 you need to find a hobby!
Here's a suggestion talk to someone young who HAS a baby and see what they would have done differently 9 times out of 10 they say they wish they would have waited...
Besides you're not even old enough to get a job I'm not too thrilled knowing that this is where part of my paycheck goes every two weeks to some young kid who decided he had nothing better to do than have a kid he couldn't take care of...
Find something better to do you're way to young in EVERY aspect especially if you have to ask for opinions it means you're not ready and I'm gonna take a shot in the dark and say she isnt either...ask your parents what they think! Good luck!!
2006-12-19 11:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by whitney h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO No NOO..you have NO idea right now what the consequences of that would be for you. Your only 13, you literally have your whole life ahead of you! You've not even had the chance to date and get out there to really find out what it is you want in a girl, now think if you did this now and later in high school or college, if you even were able to go to college, what would happen when you met the girl you really wanted to have children with and spend the rest of your life with your true love, and you already had a baby with someone else, just because. That would be VERY tough. After you have sex with someone your whole relationship changes, imagine what it would be like to add a baby in that mixture. You can't even support your self right now, no matter how much you think you could, you don't realize how much you depend on your parents. You don't need to add a child to that, or to the girls life, just wait. Good things come of waiting, believe me I have been there. Just Wait!
2006-12-19 20:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. enjoy bein' a kid because you can't go back. do not "do it". you're going to have all these responsibilities that you can't handle. i think you should list all the things you have to do for a baby from the time you wake up to the time you go to sleep. it'll change your mind. then, put what you would be doing instead if you didn't have a baby. i didn't want a baby, but my science teacher really put my head forward with not having a baby.
2006-12-20 15:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't even need to think about having a baby until you can financially and emotionally support one. Enjoy being young! You have plenty of time to have a family.
2006-12-19 18:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by blessedtexasmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really can't take care of a baby at 13. The law might take it away at 13 anyways.
2006-12-19 18:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thirteen. Are you crazy. No you definatly shouldnt have had sex with your ex.
Your too young.
trust me you really dont want a kid.
my neighbor had a kid when she was fourteen.
and her boyfriend left her.
and she had to drop out of highschool.
babys and teenagers do not mix.
2006-12-20 20:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
rofl you are 13 and want a kid. ha ha haahhahahahahhahathat has got to be the funniest thing ever, have you no sense at all? name one good reason
2006-12-19 21:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by smokingstonersweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is just too young, you will not be able to support it, and you will just be giving the baby a bad life, or at least not a healthy one
2006-12-19 20:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Love you baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude! You need to check your priorities! Would you cut out th want to have a kid thing! Look enjoy your youth while you have it! DO NOT try anything crazy PLEASE WE BEG OF YOU!!!
2006-12-19 21:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still a kid yourself sorry.
2006-12-19 21:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋