i have an awful life and it just keeps getting worse help!?

Question

I am a 10 year old girl who goes to a VERY prestigous school (i am not doing very well in the grades department, i suck at math). I am in 5th grade (middle school) and right when i got into middle school everything seemes to be going wrong. My freind asked my former boyfreind (who i dated for a day) why we went out in the first place (i told her NOT to EVER bring him up again) and he said cuse i liked him. NOT TRUE! he is new this year and he told me he liked me and so I decided 2 be nice and tell him i liked him to, witch i absolutely DO NOT! and so she just told me this yesterday. AND also to top it off, i was really heartset on getting a dog and my parents said i could have one if the allergie doctor said its okay for my brother to have one. So, he went this morning to the doctor to get tested for the allergie and he has one so now i cant have any pets ever cuse he's allergic
to cats, too. I hate my horrible, horrible, horrible life!
help me out please.

well, my bro is important, but right now i need something, someone who will always be loyal to me
and that would be a dog
i love my brother 2 tho
i just dont luv his allergy!

can u guys stoop talking about dying ppl!
god i am 10 i dont ned that heavy stuff
i said help me not be mean 2 me
and yes the ppl in our school grow up very fast
so stop saying im 2 yung, ok?
thank you

you guys are hurting my feelings
stop calling me a whiny brat
i kno ppl have ALOT worse than me but that doesent mean i cant be going thru a rough time
so stop!

u guys i live in fricking chicago ok!
i see panhandlers all the time
i see 13 yr olds with aids
i see evrything goin on
just beacause i am not one of those ppl doesnt mean i cant have problems ok?
i mean, 10 yr olds dont have very serious problems, but i do have a problem on my hands
i mean, me and my freind arent even speaking 2 eachother
and she is (was) my best freind
so please please please stop ridiculing
its kinda cruel

I KNOW PPL HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME OKAY!
GOD
DO YOU GUYS THINK ITS FUN TO PICK ON 10 YR OLDS?
CUSE THAT IS SICK!!
I ASKED FOR HELP NOT RIDICULE!

everybody when i did the title i was sad and mad
i should have done "problem, help!"
i was overreacting
im sorry
just please stop ridiculing me

tennis, i am the yungest
hes 14 and im 10

Answer 1

Sweetie, I remember being ten. Your problems are legit, okay?

You're not an adult. You're not even a teen, yet. Of course, you're not going to have the same problems as someone older than you.

At your age, it's okay to be upset about the little injustices in life. I know that they don't SEEM very little, but you're going to have bigger problems when you get a little older.

The best friend thing will come and go. You and her may not be on speaking terms right now, but think about how much this argument is worth. Is it REALLY worth shutting out your best friend over a guy you didn't like in the first place?

The dog thing sucks. I'll agree with you there. Shoot, I'm an adult, and I can't have a cat because my husband is allergic. Think of it this way. I'm married for the rest of my life.

... You can eventually get a place of your own.

I'm not going to tell you that it's not that bad, because when I was ten, things like this were horrible. It will get better, though. Promise.

Answer 2

Okay, I know others have told you not to worry about boys. And you probably think, yeah, riiiiight. Let me tell you this, I was 15 when I met my first husband and although it eventually ended in divorce, we did have some good times. BUT, I should never have gotten married in the first place. So, forget the boy, concentrate on growing and finding yourself and learning. Do all the fun stuff that kids should be doing but don't.

Second, while it is dissappointing to find out that you can't get a pet, there are other alternatives. Fish...now there's a pet that I have never heard of anyone being allergic to while the fish is alive. And they are easy to take care of. Also, there are hamsters and birds. There are many other animals that you can keep as a pet.

I know things seem bleak right now, but chin up. Count your blessings, and go study!! Your grades will improve when you stop making all these outside distractions a priority.

Good luck!!

Answer 3

Okay well first of you say your life is so bad and awful? I think not! I know you told people to stop saying all this stuff but I need to say it anyways to get it out there. Ok so you think your life is bad? Well let me firstly tell you well my brother died not even a year ago and that is way worse what you are saying. Also I have another brother that has been having drug problems and stealing problems and you think it's bad not getting a dog? Wow! Walk a day in my shoes and then tell me if your life is tawful! I grew up quite fast and I've learned a lot and it's not to get mad at these stupid things. So don't try to tell me your life is awful!!!

Also my aunt is allergic to dogs and cats and almost everything but if you get a dog that has hair not fur usually people with allergies can have them. Ex./ Poodles,Bichons,Yorkies. There are other bigger dogs too that are good for people with allergies. Just reasearch it and remember your life isn't awful!

Answer 4

I'm not going to say that your problems aren't signifigant because they are to you, and the other people who are comparing your problems to other peoples problems are jerks. But I think that instead of thinking about all the bad things in life you should try to think about the good stuff, like the fact that you have a friend that looks out for you or the fact that you have a younger brother I would do almost anything to not be the youngest. Also... maybe you should get a different kind of pet... something that your brother isn't allergic to. I really hope things brighten up for you and one day you will see that as bad as it seems your world will always get better. Hope I've helped, Good luck.

God bless.

Answer 5

Ask your parents for a tutor to help with your grades, I'm sure they dont want to waste money sending you to that very prestigious school just to fail.
Dont worry about boys, you are only 10, concentrate on your school.
As for your brother, how does he feel that he will never be able to have a pet? Get a goldfish!
Im sorry you feel like your life is so horrible but I think you are a selfish little girl, who really needs to take a look at the rest of the world, so many other children are worse off then you. But they make the most of their lives. Think for a moment about children that might not make it to Christmas this year because of illness. I know of a 16 year old boy who has battle cancer for the last 12 months he is being buried today, I bet his brother and sister would have loved that he just had allergies.

Answer 6

Dogs are not the only pets in the world. You could try something like a hampster or ferret or bird and keep it in your room, as long as theyare in your room I do not see why they would hurt your brother..When it comes to a dog or a cat I can see not being able to have one, you can not keep them locked up in a room all day.

Your life is not horrible, you want to know someone who has a horrible life?? My best friend just hit 19 and has no job and is pregnant with twins, once her babies are born she has to be out of her aunts house and god knows where she is going to go and the dad wants nothing to do with her and on top of this she has a mother who is disabled that she has to take care of because her older brother and sister who are 29 and 32 are selfish, the 29 year old sister cares about herself and the 32 year old brother is to buisy being a slave for a girl who is young enough to be his daughter which were I live it is against the law for him to be with her.

There are a lot of kids who are going threw worse stuff then you and kids whoare going threw the same thing as you, it is not the end of the world.

Answer 7

Okay first of all you sound like you need a counsellar or to talk to your Mommy.. You're 10, you just can't have a boyfriend,, Think about what's really important... I'm kid of confused because there;'s so many I liked him.. Sorry I couldn't be of more service... I hope you get what you want... Please don't hate your life.. I feel for you.. When I was 10 my Dad left, and my Mom and my sister had a heck of a time.. My Dad sent my Mom to court because he said she was an unfit mother, but mostly because he wanted part of the house and to prove that she was crsazyt which is not true. He wanted to seperate my sister and me. It was hell for 3 years and I'm still going thru some of my junk from back then.. But life goes on and now I'm doing really well. I have great friends and I love my Mom and Dad and sister.. Just breathe and keep going there's nothing else to so. What I always like to think of is there's always someone else worse of in the world.
good luck! And keep going, cuz you have a great life probably you're just focusing on the negative.

Good-luck!
Karina

Answer 8

OMG! Stop whining! Youre in 5th grade for Gods sake. Youre a 10 years old! Boyfriends? How can u say you suck at 5th grade math? You need some help? 20 divided by 4 is 5! Now go make an A! How would you like to be homeless on the streets? Oh sister it could be way worse!

Answer 9

Aww stop being so hard on her!!! Are you trying to push her into further depression. Don't write an Answer unless it's constructive.


Anyway, why don't you get a toy dog or cat and maybe that will curb your need for an animal. ...Is your brother allergic to rabbits or bunnies?

When I was younger I use to get depressed a lot too. I was very popular, but that didn't matter. Depression knows no face. Things that helped me was reading books, writing poetry and short stories about my life....listening to music....playing a sport....joining clubs....become more active.

Everyone cannot be the best at everything (regarding math), but why don't you find a friend or buddy that is good and will be willing to help you.

Answer 10

ok...yes you are a little young. and everyone has a bad day. but take a sec and be happy for what you DO have. dont focus on the negatives it will just put you down. since you said you see teens with aids be happy that you dont have those sort of problems. remember friends come and go. you have plenty of time to think about that. but dont stop focusing on your grades. I'm in high school and i suck at math too. at 10 math was easy for me but its different for everyone. as far as pets go your brother cant be allergic 2 everything. get a gerbil or a turtle. how about fish? i have a chinchilla. there sorta expensive though....i hope i helped a little