I love my husband dearly but wish he would quit smoking. I know I can't make him quit, and I do good not to bother him about it constently, I just drop a few hints now and then. He gets mad at me if I won't buy cigarettes for him. I can't help it, I want him to quit so I feel bad if I do buy them. Is that so wrong of me? My grandfather died of lung cancer due to smoking most of his life. I don't want to see my husband die from it too. I love him too much. I tease him and tell him if he loves me and the kids he would quit. He teases back and says if I love him, I would pick some up when I'm at the store. His father smokes too and he's developing a really nasty cough from it. Does he not see how bad it is? He says he doesnt care, it helps him relieve stress. How can I convince him there are better things out there for that? I mean, I'm right here...the kids are here...isn't that strong enough motive? And the smell! Makes the kids stink when he holds them. Its horrible! What can I say?
2007-01-14
07:08:55
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Koozie
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