One of my close friends, N has recently been in hospital as she was suicidal, she checked herself out but she wasn't ready for it. I was considering moving in with her to take care of her but we don't think she needs that much intervention yet.
She has dependency issues, self sabotage, negative self-talk and she is not looking after herself in any way (food, money, exercise, taking pills on time etc etc).
Another friend, Nic and I are thinking that N needs to tell us how to support her. But she won't tell us if we just ask. So Nic & I are going to sit down with N and tell her about Nic's sister who has very similar issues to N (we're not making it up, it's coincidental). We're hoping that this way, N will tell us how to best support her and get her back on track.
If you have bipolar or experience with it, do you think this is a good idea? Also, what do you think are key ways we can establish routine in N's life? All your advice is SO much appreciated.
Thanks!
2007-03-27
21:30:30
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Snow White
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