I’m also very sensitive to noise. I eat sensibly, I’m not overweight, I take exercise and don’t drink too much. I think this is coming because I think I’m a failure. I’m doing a very average job with an average salary. I’ve tried to get better jobs but I don’t even get considered for them. I have a unfulfilling relationship with someone who I like but don’t love. I feel like everything I try and do goes wrong. I’m trying to get up the courage to visit a doctor but I hate everything medical. Has anyone had similar symptoms and been diagnosed? Could it be a physiological problem?
2007-03-27 23:39:32 · 6 answers · asked by neoscribbler 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
research ''Borderline Personality Disorder'' - thats what it sounds like u have, to me...check your symptoms and decide for yourself...
2007-03-28 01:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by shoebettysue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is stress. OR an impending nervous breakdown. I used to think I was just an asshole at home but I realized I placed myself in a lot of stress because of the relationship I was in, and at school and my dumb business that I liked doing despite the fact people kept ripping me off left and right (before).
Anyway enough about me lets talk about you.
Stressors can be divided into three broad categories:
* Frustrations – Frustrations are obstacles that prevent you from meeting your needs or achieving personal goals. They can be external—such as discrimination, an unsatisfying job, divorce, or the death of a loved one—or internal. Examples of internal frustrations include physical handicaps, the lack of a desired ability or trait, and other real or perceived personal limitations.
* Conflicts – Stressors involving two or more incompatible needs or goals are known as conflicts. For example, a working mother might feel torn over a job offer that would advance her career, but take time away from her family. Sometimes the conflict involves a choice between two desirable options, such as deciding between two acceptance offers from equally appealing colleges. At other times, the decision involves disagreeable alternatives.
* Pressures – Stress can stem from the expectations of others or the demands you place on yourself. You may feel pressure to get good grades in order to please your parents or get into a good school. Or you may feel pressure to excel at work, make a difference in your community, or be the perfect mother.
nervous breakdown:
Problems with relationships, work, money, or any other number of things can leave a person feeling overwhelmingly anxious, depressed and stressed. When the anxiety, depression and stress get too big, the person may have a nervous breakdown. Although there is no such thing in medical terms, a nervous breakdown is applied to someone who is incapable of functioning in everyday life and unable to cope with daily challenges.
Everyone's experience of breaking down is individual. In a physical sense, an inability to sleep, loss of appetite and lethargy can leave people feeling exhausted. This can result in feeling very emotionally unstable and drained; there may be a loss of confidence and self-esteem, which contribute to the possible underlying issues of anxiety and depression.
2007-03-27 23:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by bipolarbear 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think I am the same way a lot of the time, but I have to change my thinking and believe it or not I listen to positive things and it does help. I began listening to Joel Osteen on Sirius XM and it's not just because he is a Christian, but he deposits positive messages in your mind and spirit. I started listening and now I can't stop. It's like my daily fix to keep myself on a positive note. He is so optimistic it's almost impossible to be depressed. He also gives examples of how he was impatient or frustrated etc... and what he had to do to overcome those situations/thoughts. You have to change your thinking that is key.
2015-04-07 10:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by mysoncarl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little depressed, as for an average job with average pay - your should be grateful you have a job and get paid. Stop putting yourself down. Get rid of relationship you do not want. Go to doctor and ask for advise, could be mild depression.
2007-03-27 23:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Redhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Traditional Chinese Medicine, you could be heaty. Drink ice lemon tea, lime juice or lemonade more often. Try it.
2007-03-28 00:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need sex or are bi-polar
2007-03-27 23:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋