A good friend of mine has this other friend (who I don't know), she is seriously mentally ill (hearing voices, violent, deceptive, not eating at all, physically & mentally in a really terrible state). But she won't admit anything is wrong with her. Her erratic behaviour, lying, deception, violence, severe mood changes etc etc are putting a massive strain on my friend who is nearly at breaking point. He can't sleep & is really screwed up over this. He asks me for advice but I don't know what to tell him. He hates this girl for her manipulativeness, she tries deliberately to hurt him, make him jealous, etc, pushes him away and begs him to come back, threatens suicide, makes up stories about trying to kill herself, sometimes tries if for real, tells him it is his fault etc But he is in love with her at the same time and can't just walk away. I hate seeing him like this. How can I help him? Any advice very much appreciated.
2006-11-21
07:18:44
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