Mental Health - October 2006

i live in a flat in england on benefits dealing with my mental health which is not easy..far from it...i try to take one day at a time..but dammit thats hard, i dont want this, to be here, now, my ambitions are, to travel, to stand on my own two feet in the world, deal with reality, with life, live in nice surroundings, near the coast, have a nice job, to emmegrate, i dont want to be in the uk, i dont i dont, to have someone to love me, a partner...but how can i ever achieve all this wen im so far apart from it now?

2006-10-07 00:42:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

however shes not been online for days and days and days, and it just says by her name shes invisible....im upset as.i thought i was beggining to get friendly with her to

2006-10-07 00:25:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

About once a month my daughter wets her pants when she is laughing with her friends. She is a popular girl with nice friends but I am know they are goint to start teasing her. This happened again last night at a school dance. I have talked with her but it keeps happening. I want to show her that everyone can see that she has wet herself but I feel like that would just cause her more shame. But she won't stop and I don't know what to do.

2006-10-07 00:24:16 · 9 answers · asked by paint 2

serouisly, i am really gonna end up killing someone one day and i can't stop arguing with my mam. everyday is hell for me! how can i stop being so stressed out? no nasty people please, i know i'm crazy asking all these questions but i need help!

2006-10-07 00:21:59 · 35 answers · asked by stupid 1

i no some one that uses my words as there own. my beliefs and problems are all of a sudden there beliefs and problems. i find this extreamly disturbing. has anyone had this happen to them - what do u suggest i do?

2006-10-06 23:54:54 · 8 answers · asked by antibim 2

2006-10-06 23:24:39 · 2 answers · asked by malmondick 1

2006-10-06 23:13:14 · 11 answers · asked by overseas and broke 2

I hide my grades from my parents even though they are As and Bs. I hide where I'm going even if it's somewhere I'm supposed to go. I hide the little things and the big things. I don't want anyone to know who I am, even my family. Is there a reason I do this that might make it normal? Do a lot of other people do it? Why do I feel so guilty about everything I do? I am already seeing a counselor, but I have the same problem with him.

2006-10-06 23:03:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have meet someone on this site who clearly has problems, i would love to help him in the way i was helped.

2006-10-06 22:48:26 · 8 answers · asked by Duncan S 1

2006-10-06 22:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats wrong in their brain?

2006-10-06 22:15:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-06 22:01:28 · 13 answers · asked by money maker 1

How do you get him to understand that you are happy with what you have but wanting more out of life does not mean that you don't love him or are not satisfied with him. Is it wrong to want to have a nest egg, or to have a nice xmas or money for emergencies? What can you say to make him understand without him thinking everything is not his fault but he can't spend money like he does on little things that add up to big things?

2006-10-06 22:00:58 · 5 answers · asked by donna r 3

I have put up with this problem for 22 years, i love him, and support him, but.....we have gone through everthing, detox, inpatient, doctors, phycs you name it and medications. He always falls back to drinking even if only for one day, does anyone else know what i'm talking about, if so what do you do? especially when you love the guy but you just want to throw up your hands and say forget this? help.....

2006-10-06 21:48:56 · 10 answers · asked by donna r 3

I suffer from panic attacks & am on medication but the medication am taking feels like I have no emotions at all, theres been situations I know I should cry but cant! and my sex drive has come to a halt. I dont get any feeling, Its scaring me Iv tried to stop my medication but when I do i go cold turky its so depressing & irritating, I was just wondering if anyone knows anoyone has similar problems taking effexor?

2006-10-06 21:06:52 · 7 answers · asked by Shakira j 2

I am going through Hell right now... I am facing 3 years in jail fer datign a girl 3 years younger than me, and she's jest under the legal age... in 2 months, she'll be 18, and her dad is pressing charges... It is all up to the county attorney whether charges are pressed or not.. I cut fer 6 years, and I quite before Christmas of 05, and today I cut fer the first time since then... I thought I was over it, but I ran out of meds, and now all this is happening, and to add to it, my mum went to the hospital today bc she is stressing out about my situation which caused ulcers in her abdomen, and they are talking about surgery, and if I go to jail, I wont be there fer her... To add to all of this, I jest got my accociates degree in Adolescent Psychology, and if these charges are pressed, I will more than likely have to register as a sex offender which will screw up my entire life!!! Making my whole life pointless! So whats the point in continuing on??? Can anyone tell me?

2006-10-06 21:00:12 · 12 answers · asked by Nick R 1

i have been having sex with my babies daddies brother's babies momma. have been for a grip and those stupid ***** dont even know. but see one day i was drunk and crying out side because i of my babies daddy and this light shined. see. it touched me so good, like my babies daddy use to do. before he started ****'n some other *****. thats a different jerry springer moment. but it felt so good, better then my babies daddy ever did. and it was my babies daddy's brother's babies momma. she lifted me up and took me home. after the time i spent doing my business in the bathroom. she was there. laying on the bed saying i want you. so pissed off at my babies daddy that i would get back him. by sleeping with his brother's babbies momma but they walk in as we we're getting busy and just stood there. smiling as if nothing was wrong. i cheated and still havent gotten pay back on my boyfriend. what should i do?

2006-10-06 20:56:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive had one rough month and everything just really stacked up tonight. i could really use someone to talk to but tonight just feels like the end of the line. i know its selfish to take my own life, buti feel it would be better for alot of other people and i hve noone i can really talk to. please if i could talk to anyone email me at supra4512@yahoo.com. i would really appreciate it

2006-10-06 20:18:16 · 28 answers · asked by Rob 1

2006-10-06 19:46:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't begin to tell you how humiliating it is to find myself qualified for nothing more than menial labor. I was tested (as a young child) and found to be very intelligent-no genius mind you. In any event, this set of circumstances has completely crushed my spirit and things are only getting worse. The fact that my checking acct may be seized as well as an impending foreclosure do nothing more for me than make me feel worse rather than inspire me to take action before I land hard on rock bottom. Anyone who has faced such predicaments like this but resolved the issue successfully are encouraged to impart upon me the wisdom that you gained, or at least some positive advice would also be greatly appreciated. Thx!!

2006-10-06 19:43:38 · 13 answers · asked by D_Lucky1 1

i'm 20 years old, female. don't have a boyfriend. i do have a sex buddy though.

2006-10-06 19:24:08 · 13 answers · asked by RN806 3

2006-10-06 19:11:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-06 19:09:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i'm on hydrocortisone, I feel so clear headed and happy and free of stress- but all studies relate cortisol to stress... i dont understand this

2006-10-06 19:01:57 · 3 answers · asked by angela 2

Early diagnostic label either psychotic depression/anxiety or more likely schizo-affective disorder. I have been on Stelazine 5mg/day for 14 years, and recently on Seruquel 350mg/day to replace Stelazine. I also have been on a daily anti-depressive for 14 years currently Cipramil/Cipram. Initial psychosis disappeared weeks after treatment began and has never reappeared. Clinical depression has disappeared and anxiety with psychological features e.g. significant phobia - penis envy/fear & general anxiety is now normal . Clinical severity and symptoms have disappeared and any residual effects are gone. I am now clear thinking and feeling, and am no longer obsessive. I now consider myself healthy yet attempts to come off my meds cold turkey as recent as March 2006 did not last long term - 10 days at the most. Throughout the summer 2006 I gradually tapered myself down to taking 'crumbs' of all the different meds. But when teaching began, Ist week in September I panicked and resumed in full

2006-10-06 18:49:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't even get out of bed on time; and I have THREE alarm clocks! When I tell people I will be there at a certain time, add a few hours and that will be closer. On my second time to a job, I was an hour late! (but of course they still like me). It may be important to note that procrastination runs in my family. I can usually get away with it due to the impressive exuse-making skills I have developed, but I know I need to change before it is too late!

2006-10-06 18:28:26 · 15 answers · asked by bobada 1

Since the year 2000 i've been plauged with bad luck,first i had an etopic preganacy (i have 1 fallopian tube)may never have children,my oh so wonderful boyfriend gave me herpes, depressed over that got married and divorced in one year time, and just recently had to file bankruptcy,got evicted,lost my job had to take a job $5,000 a year less and move in with my friend and her husband.Oh and during a recent storm a tree fell down on my car and broke my winsheld( how will i pay for that), and i've gained 30 pounds. i stop talking to my family ,friends because i feel like a failure and dating HA!!!. i'm just tired of living, i honestly don't know what keeps my hanging on. I tried talking to a therapist, i just get angrier. I really want to kill myself but i'm chicken. Should i just take some pills and get it over with?

2006-10-06 18:20:57 · 27 answers · asked by pos 2

the problem isn't that i can't sleep. it's that i don't want to. i feel as if i would be missing out on the living world if i spent too much time dreaming. I know about insomnia but this just seems a little different.

2006-10-06 18:11:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-06 17:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by hapi 2

2006-10-06 17:47:55 · 7 answers · asked by doeboiyakno 1