About once a month my daughter wets her pants when she is laughing with her friends. She is a popular girl with nice friends but I am know they are goint to start teasing her. This happened again last night at a school dance. I have talked with her but it keeps happening. I want to show her that everyone can see that she has wet herself but I feel like that would just cause her more shame. But she won't stop and I don't know what to do.
2006-10-07 00:24:16 · 9 answers · asked by paint 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Boys are night time bed wetters Girls are daytime wetters. My second daughter had a similar problem. She had to know where every bathroom was where ever she went. The bladder is not growing as fast as the rest of her. Discuss the problem with her doctor. In the mean time you could have her wear pantie liners if she is not losing great volumes of urine each time. Don't try shaming her that doesn't work. Explain to her that it is a medical problem and that you understand. Encourage her to wear the protection that will prevent embarrassment for her.
2006-10-07 00:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by timex846 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
causes may be
1)Bladder size may be the cause.
2)Infection - an infection in the bladder or kidneys may be a trigger.
3)Constipation - this can lead to leakage of urine.
4)Antidiuretic hormone - children who wet the bed may have a lower level of a hormone called antidiuretic hormone, which suppresses the rate of urine production. This means they may make more urine than most people do at night.
5)Delayed growth and development - some children’s nervous system is not mature enough to be able to sense when the bladder is full.
6)Diet - dairy products, citrus fruits, chocolate and foods containing high levels of artificial colour and sweetener have been connected with it .
7)Psychological and social factors may be the cause .
It's best to talk openly to your child about the problem. Give reassurance that she is not ill and that this problem can be solved. Praise all signs of improvement and all your child's efforts to conquer the problem. Do not blame, criticise or punish your child or call them dirty or babyish
and you should go to doctor
2006-10-07 00:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by moni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has she ever been checked for kidney or bladder problems? I would take her to the doctor and let him know what is happening to her maybe she doesn't even know it herself. If the doctor gives the all clear then I would show her what you said. I don't think that it would cause her more shame just maybe make her see that everyone can see it. Maybe she waits to long to use the restroom and tries to hold it but can't. Good Luck and God Bless
2006-10-07 00:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 22:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is no doubt very uncomfortable about this, and talking about it is probably very hard. obviously she isn't doing it on purpose. talk to her honestly and urge her to see a doctor. this could be a physical problem or a mental health issue. i really hate to bring this up, but is it possible she could have been sexually abused? this is a sign of it.
2006-10-07 00:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wrote "she won't stop"...is she consciously doing this or is it an accident?...if she knows, and won't stop, think it is time to take her to the doctor...I mean a shrink doctor....if she can't help it, then to a medical doctor, cause that just doesn't seem right...
2006-10-07 00:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with her doctor.
2006-10-07 00:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult a urologist, she might have a bladder disorder.
2006-10-07 00:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to doctor .
2006-10-07 00:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by santhana k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋