The reason why I ask, is because when people have problems in life, & come to me, I try to understand their situation fully so I can truly give my best advice to them. I think the best way to truly communicate your ideas to someone, is to really understand them first. But I see that many people don't do this.
When one feels they should kill themselves, people usually get angry at them, & don't try to understand them at all.
They say thing like, "your crazy, get lost", or "your a stupid coward, pathetic", but they don't offer any real help, they only bash them.
Maybe they do this out of fear of dealing with something bad in their own life that they avoided to face, because by facing it, they would have to briefly question suicide themselves because some problems are that difficult to figure out. They're reminded of they're own pain because of these people?
Or maybe it's the arrogant, "I overcame my problems, so your dumb if you don't know how overcome yours?"
Thoughts?
2006-09-11
08:34:05
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