This should be determined by you and your doctor, but I would think ending the isolation would be a benefit with or without the meds. Sometimes just getting a part time job can be enough to get you "out there" without the actual pressure to socialize.
2006-09-11 09:33:06
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answered by theblackenedphoenix 4
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If you know what the trigger is for your depression and you know whats stopping you, the drugs aren't going to help you they can't get you friends they would just mask the problem. You have said you have a low mood from social isolation and i can identify with that. The only way to get out there is to set yourself a goal. Is there anything that you have always wanted to do? Why not enrole on a course? there maybe free onces in your area. Just research whats on offer near you. You don't even have to sign up if your not ready but at least your a step closer to meeting people. Hope this helps it did for me.
2006-09-15 04:19:46
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answered by Heather 5
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If your depression is acute and is preventing you doing anything else then anti-depressants may be invaluable in the short-term. Make sure you have regular checks with your doctor - good for getting you out of the house too - and an 'exit strategy' for reducing your medication while increasing other forms of support such as cognitive therapy or social activity.
Conquer your social isolation by joining groups but not just any group; find one that has an activity or a belief at its heart that appeals to you, be it music, nature conservation, football or whatever. This will sustain you even if individual relationships in the group ebb & flow, as they will do.
Just getting out of the house, noticing the world around you, is important. Start to build a routine - go to the corner shop, to post a letter, or just walk for 20 minutes each day - walk in any direction for 10 minutes, then return home. The internet is wonderful, but don't neglect face to face interaction with other people even if it's just going shopping.
If your home & lifestyle supports it, getting a dog can be a great boost. Dogs are great friends and exercising them gets you out of the house and is an excellent way to meet other dog owners. Talk to your local vet about a good breed of dog to suit you.
2006-09-13 12:59:43
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answered by Bridget F 3
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2016-11-07 03:05:12
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answered by ? 4
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To be frank, I was suffering from low morale and social isolation. I've never had THAT many friends, preferring quantity to quality but they all seemed to have their own lives and I started getting panic/anxiety attacks - or rather the thought I might have them. I got mildly agrophobic too but 6 weeks before Christmas last year I got myself a voluntary job I really liked for a local community project. they paid my travel expenses and supplied me with lunch but more than that, it got me out of the house, mixing with and talking to other people. I made more friends and although we didn't socialise that much outside of 'work', it really helped having something I enjoyed to look forward to each day. Of course having good friends on the computer really helped too. I found some friends I used to chat to on MSN and that really helped.
I was offered meds by my doctor but turned them down. That's the last avenue you want to look at. Most are HIGHLY addictive.
Anyway if you need a friend or someone to talk to, you only have to holla ok? I'm sure anyone here who truly cares would be here for you and you probably have friends near you who feel the same way. Please don't be afraid to talk to them if you can. A problem shared is a problem halved don't forget.
Take care and good luck. :)
2006-09-11 09:51:50
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answered by mancunian_nick 4
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Darling you need to get out more. Do you work? If not find a part-time job/take up a new hobby or part-time college course. Maybe go along to your local church and try an Alpha course, these are very safe and welcoming. I really don't think anti-depressants are a good idea as you will never conquer your isolation issues by hiding in pills.
Hope things work out. Give it a go and God bless.
xxx
2006-09-11 09:40:53
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answered by No_More_Drama 4
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It is better to get out and socialise if possible; join a group of neighbours who are into walking (walking is a gentle and important exercise, but can be very dull. If there is a group of you, you get the anti-depressant benefits that exercise and fresh air will give you, plus the socialising ... excellent way to rid yourself of the blues!)
If you are not into anything outdoor, a chess club or any other kind of club or class will help you. When you use your brain to learn something new, or to solve non-personally related problems, they boost your chemicals and overcome depression.
Get out and link with some of your own species. If that doesn't work, link with a cat or a dog or other pet. And then, if that doesn't work, see about taking antidepressants but be very careful, and do your research first!
2006-09-15 06:50:46
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answered by kiteeze 5
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Come on now you are on here, we are talking to you, you realise the problem so it is fixable. You need to get yourself prepared tonight. Have bath , do your hair, get your cloths ready, tomorrow you are going out.
Go out if it is only for a walk round the block, make a point of it.
Make a point to talk to people, or just smile at them,if you go in the stores even a chat with the person behind the counter can brighten your day.
Try to avoid the antidepressants, you know your problem, work towards solving it, hope it goes well for you , good luck !!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 09:45:05
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answered by Dolly Blue 6
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Apparently, exercise is excellent for depression, as your body releases the 'feel good' hormones (endorphins). I would say this may help to lift your mood a bit and maybe give you a bit more confidence and a lift, therefore making it easier for you to get out and socialise. Its just breaking the mould, once you start going out and socialising again, you will find it becomes easier each time.
2006-09-11 11:22:41
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answered by bannister_natalie 4
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definately not you need to find out what is causing the social isolation and work to deal with this. is it lack of self confidence/self esteem. I know it will be hard to motivate yourself but bite the bullet and join just one evening class, say an aerobics class and take it from there.
2006-09-11 09:39:26
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answered by Anonymous
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