I broke up with my bf of 9 monthes in March. Shortly after the break-up (gotta love the timing) I came down with gential warts. Considering my sexual history and the typical time frame for HPV to present itself, he is almost certainly the source. My question is, even though it was a messy and painful breakup, should I tell him? I'm afraid of hateful "You didn't get that from me, you dirty ho," kind of backlash, and also I still have alot of resentment which I'm trying not to indulge. On the other hand, it seems to be the conscionable thing to do. Should I do it? Also: it may seem petty, I won't say anything that doesn't make it clear that I got it from him and not vice versa. The relationship is too far degraded for any neutral, "I broke out with this, you might have it, let's not worry about who had it first" kind of thing. And yes, I know it's possible, though very, very unlikely, that it didn't come from him. Should I just stay away? Or should and how should I tell him?
2006-06-22
17:42:25
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