Singles & Dating - 27 August 2007

ive been in a long relatioship before and after that my relationships has been short term..And right now i want a serious relationship but all i can see right now is how i can sleep with them..And i dont like giving effort and talking to them too much but before i can do that like know the girl what she like first and fall in love....you know..but right now i dated some girls but nothing still same thing just physical..is there something wrong with me?

2007-08-27 19:46:51 · 4 answers · asked by Jamsky 1

2007-08-27 19:31:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a guy. Me & my g/f fell in love. Both REALLY REALLY deeply. 9 mos later, in the end, I realized I had wasted a lot of time when I could've been single! It DIDN'T seem that way at first, but let me explain. FYI, she was my 1st g/f, 1st sex, 1st lot of things, and i had never 'planned' on a relationship at that point in my life. I really DID love her tho.

1st, i realized that deep down, she could not be my long-term mate or g/f or wife. Too many problems and personality conflicts. 2nd, maybe she realized the same in me b/c our breakup was 'mutual' we said. At this point I feel a little off track with this love stuff, cuz as I said, I had 'planned' on being single the whole time.

A few weeks pass. I call her just to see how things are going, and she goes psycho on me, acting like a major bioch, calling me names, etc. That's when I start to feel like WOW not only did I miss out on being single, but she's got major problems too (in ADDITION to what I already knew about). ct'd...

2007-08-27 19:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous 2

Why wont anyone love me??

2007-08-27 19:19:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been goin on with my guy for past 2yrs. we had ups n downs in the relation. but always patched up. we love each other n decided to get married. its time to tell our parents. i am ready to tell anytime but y is it takin a long time for my guy to tell his parents. m sure his parents will never oppose. i used to feel that boys are brave. then y is he takin so much time. he says he'll gradually tell.

2007-08-27 19:18:07 · 15 answers · asked by lilydals 1

2007-08-27 19:10:15 · 9 answers · asked by Jerry R 1

Ok so, my friend met this guy in college and all three of us and sometimes some of our other friends, all hang out together. My friend told me that he said to her that he likes me, But he wouldn't want to go out with my because of the way I dress (which is kinda offbeat and eccentric). Anyway, he's always nice to me, But for the past few weeks we've been emailing eachother back and forth but it's been mostly sexual talk or sexual innuendos. I'm 19 & I've never had a boyfriend or been ona date or anything. So, I'm kind of new to all of this. I would like to find someone who really respects me but in this day and age, It's really hard to find someone you can really trust. Do you think he's just looking for something physical or does he want something more and this is just how he starts out? Maybe this is all to make fun of me somehow? Just hoping for some good answers. Thanks!

2007-08-27 19:04:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-27 18:57:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-08-27 18:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by placid_princess 2

For any of you to give me advice you have to understand the background first. I have been dating this guy named Steven. I really love him. We started going out back in april 05 but then we broke up that sept cuz my parents thought i was too young. So it was mutual even though he said that he might start seeing someone else. That broke my heart a bit. Then all in 06 Steven and I stayed together(not as BF and GF)but as friends who really loved each other. and he said that he really would not have wanted to see someone else. So then we planned on getting back together in that December for my 16t Birthday. But that sept also there was bad news he said that he loved another girl. And that we can't get together. That broke my heart again. Then he admitted he was wrong and wanted me back. But i made him wait until Feb 07. So now i am falling in love with him againand I don't want to because i'm afraid that he may break my heart agian and he said he won't but i really don't know! I know he isn't In love with me but I am starting to fall for him! Should I tell him how i feel, should I break up with him or should I just see how it goes?

2007-08-27 18:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

She is 28 years old, I am 32. We have been to dinner/drinks 3 times now. Where should I take her for the fourth date that is fun? Comedy club? Movie?

2007-08-27 18:44:34 · 32 answers · asked by Arnaz_Los_Angeles 3

I asked if I was one of his best friends. He said I was his Road Dog.

2007-08-27 18:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6

ive been out with heaps of guys bot ive never told my dad. i want to tell him that want to start dating this guy i like. but what do i say???

2007-08-27 18:44:02 · 14 answers · asked by breannah 1

i have never been in a relationship before

but some couple i look at the girl is so cute but those couples fight alot and i wonder what the guy is think when the girl is that cute...i feel like if i had one of those girl i would never fight and treat her right...and i would never get sick of her....is this because i have never been in a relationship?

2007-08-27 18:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is nothing to do..
any ideas?

2007-08-27 18:41:49 · 27 answers · asked by eeeeeeeeerin. 2

this girl was so beautiful and i was talking to her for a split seccond but i knew she liked me and didnt get her number or sadly even her name.. and she left my work and i probably wont ever see her again i cant stop thinkin of her wat should i do..?

2007-08-27 18:41:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-27 18:40:12 · 2 answers · asked by cant take heat?get the f%&k out! 4

2007-08-27 18:36:11 · 1 answers · asked by matthews_antonio 1

tired to join an organization not too long ago, an organization I had longed to be a part of,and got accepted, but didn't go on to fully become a member :( I know bummer.Well anyways, so a few months go by and I meet this guy, I mean he's handome, smart, a prominent leader, but he was three years younger than I plus he happened to be the brother and best friend of one of the members of the the organiztion I almost joined. We started talking, and there was some chemistry, but not enough to feel like I wanted to be in a relationship with him,(if you catch my drift)so he starts calling me late hours of the night, he invited me over, we got drunk, and had sex, I felt some guilt but we talked it over and he assured me that there was nothing to feel guilty about, he wasn't involved with anyone in the organization and everything between us would be only between us, so a few months go by, and we really didn't talk that much but we hooked up again, and I called him, he called me afterwards

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(sorry for the long details) but yeah we were talking and I told him that I didn't want anyone to know about our sexual realtionship, I told him this because I didn't want people to think that I was a **** and put me in that category, and plus I told him that I might want to one day try to rejoin again, and he was like well, we do have a relationship, and in the midst of everything he was accusing me of playing on his phone, and all this stuff, but yet we got intimate, and we talked that night and he told me he thought I try to hard, and he started playing footsies, but then a few weeks goes by and I call to see if I left something at his house and he gets upset and tells me to never call him again and he'll tell everyone about our relationship, so now when I run into him, he doesn't speak, and the members sort of shun me as well,my question did I do anything wrong in your opinion and should I rejoin even though I might run into the same people, and why do you think he acted the way?

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What was really crazy...is the fact that after he threatened me and told me not too call him anymore, his best friend calls me out the clear blue asking me to come to one of his events..and I'm thinking oh yeah" somthing is up..

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2007-08-27 18:35:38 · 3 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1

2007-08-27 18:35:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

wear makeup to school and wear nice clothes because he says its to attract all the guys and get attention, i wear makeup for my own self estem..its not to get the guys attention and i told him that but he doesnt believe me...i have been with him for a year now and i love him..i want him to understand that its not to get guys attention...im scared that this is going to cause us to breakup!! we argue about it to much and im getting scared now. HELP

2007-08-27 18:19:44 · 18 answers · asked by Realist of the Real 1

What does it mean when your girlfriend says F*ck me harder and how would you do this?

2007-08-27 18:14:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

These boys were at the park and they kepped talking about sex to me and other gross stuff to me in front of my 5 year old brother. I was at the park. and i was 10. they were either a little older or the same age.why did they say this. I was only one of the three guys. I gave a look at one of the guys and he shroged his sholders. please help. i am so scared to go back to my grandma's house, near the park. it is a good thing my grandma is in asisant living. so that i don't have to go there anymore. but my grand ma is sick. that is the sad part

2007-08-27 18:13:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i happen to know a man, he's handsome, he's rich, he's tall, he's nice and very caring, he's also an athlete, has a great sense of humor, and is very charming. i'm very sure he's not gay. then, why is he still single? he's 39. i'm 26.
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he likes me and we've been going out for 4 months now. i think i'm attracted to him, and i enjoy his company a lot. but i am thinking and wondering why is he still single when in fact he can make any woman fall for him?
i heard from friends, his ex girlfriends always leave him- 10 years ago, 1st ex girlfriend, ended up with his best friend. next ex girlfriend, migrated to another country-so they're long dstance,when he followed,he found out she already have a bf.his last gf cheated on him after 2 years into the relationship. this happened 6 years ago.many wmen firts w/him but he ignores them. then we met and he started dating me.i'm thinking why these women chose to leave him?when in fact,i found a great guy in him.enlighten me pls

2007-08-27 18:11:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-27 18:09:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We live in a joint family system..My uncle & aunt by marrige live with us. due to less space in house when ever there is a guest staying at our place we have to do some make shift arrangement for sleeping. My aunt ussually come to share bed with me. During the night ! day she touched my d.i.c.k & hold it. I started touching her boobs & kissing her but when i moved further down she turned her back on me ...& since then every time this happens she let me touch her boobs & kiss her but never let me do any thing further .....she starts moving or turns away if i try to touch her else where .....I m bit confused what she wants from me ??? does she want to have sex with me???

2007-08-27 18:06:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

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Pornography Industry Statistics
Size of the Industry $57.0 billion world-wide - $12.0 billion US
Adult Videos $20.0 billion
Escort Services $11.0 billion
Magazines $7.5 billion
Sex Clubs $5.0 billion
Phone Sex $4.5 billion
Cable & Pay Per View $2.5 billion
Internet $2.5 billion
CD-ROM $1.5 billion
Novelties $1.0 billion
Other $1.5 billion



Porn revenue is larger than all combined revenues of all professional football, baseball, and basketball franchises.

US porn revenue exceeds the combined revenues of ABC, CBS, & NBC (6.2 billion).

Child pornography generates $3 billion annually.
Internet Porn Statistics
Pornographic Website's 4.2 million (12% of total website's)
Pornographic Pages 372 million
Daily Pornographic Search Engine Requests 68 million (25% of total search engine requests)
Daily Pornographics Emails 2.5 billion (8% of total emails)
Avg. Daily Pornographic Emails/User 4.5 per internet user
Monthly Pornographic downloads (Peer-to-peer) 1.5 billion (35% of all downloads)
Daily Gnutella "child pornography" requests 116 thousand
Website's offering illegal child pornography 100 thousand
Sexual solicitations of youth made in chat rooms 89%
Youths who received sexual solicitation 20%
Worldwide visitors to pornographic web sites 72 million annually



Children's Exposure to Pornography
Average age of first Internet exposure to pornography 11 years old
Largest Consumer of Internet Pornography 12-17 age group
15-17 year olds having multiple hardcore exposures 80%
8-16 year olds having viewed porn online 90% (most while doing homework)
7-17 year olds who would freely give out home address 29%
7-17 year olds who would freely give out email addresses 14%
Children's characters linked to thousands of porn links 26 (including Pokeman and Action Man)



Adult Internet Porn Statistics
Men admitting to accessing porn at work 20%
US adults who regularly visit internet porn sites 40 million
Promise Keepers men who viewed porn in the last week 53%
Christians who say porn is a major problem in the home 47%
Adults admitting to internet sexual addiction 10%
Breakdown of male/female visitors to porn sites 72% male - 28% female



Women & Pornography
13% of Women admit to accessing porn at work.
70% of women keep their cyber activities secret.
17% of all women struggle with pornography addiction.
Women, far more than men, are likely to act out their behaviors in real life, such as having multiple partners, casual sex, or affairs.
Women favor chat rooms 2X's more than men.
1 out of 3 visitors to adult website's are women.
9.4 million women access adult website's each month.

2007-08-27 17:59:06 · 9 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1

i feel like im n love but i dnt want 2 say it n he dnt say it bck

2007-08-27 17:56:45 · 14 answers · asked by robin g 1

i was at my bf's house today and while he was checking his e-mail i saw he's been on porn sites because he had lots of e-mails from adultfriendfinder.com...(some porn site) and he was rushing through them to erase them before i saw them.. he probably doesn't know i did though.. how bad is that.. it really seems like he's a member of the website....
I know lots of peolpe look at porn and i'm not saying i'm a puritan but i never thought that i would encounter something like that.. i was shocked.. but i didn't say a word.. should i confront him or be worried??

2007-08-27 17:56:36 · 50 answers · asked by Bee 4

The reason i ask is because one yahoo member stated that, and this is kind of how i was feeling, but i hate to believe it because i have invested time and taken so much crap from this relationship from his daughter becasue he is truly kind to me. Do u think he is just using me as a substitue until his daughter gets older. I just wonder what kind of relationship him and his daughter really have without sound presumptuious

2007-08-27 17:49:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous