My boyfriend gets mad at me when i?

Question

wear makeup to school and wear nice clothes because he says its to attract all the guys and get attention, i wear makeup for my own self estem..its not to get the guys attention and i told him that but he doesnt believe me...i have been with him for a year now and i love him..i want him to understand that its not to get guys attention...im scared that this is going to cause us to breakup!! we argue about it to much and im getting scared now. HELP

Answer 1

He sounds insecure. Listen, if he ends the relationship because he cannot control what you choose to wear then he is no good and not the one for you.

Answer 2

Tell him to grow up....He should be proud that other men think you are attractive. It's a complement to you and they probably envy him.

He is just insecure that he will lose you, but it seems he is already doing that with his insecurity.

Just tell him straight out that you are no different than when the two of you were 1st going out and your not gonna change because he said so. ( if you do your stupid ) He just needs to accept the fact that he has a hot gf and guys are gonna look.

He also needs to know that he is your guy and no other guy matters to you but it will not change the way you dress or put on make -up......If he still continues to argue over it he isn't worth your time. Love or not his immaturity is shining through and it won't change !!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Like it or not, it sounds like this guy is on a power trip and is jealous. It sounds like he likes telling you what to wear and what not to wear because he is unsure of himself. Why is he so worried that another guy will pay attention to you? I think most guys would feel great knowing they have what other guys want, but can't have.

If you like to wear makeup for your self esteem, then your boyfriend should support you, not tear you down over it. I would think twice about the relationship you have with your boyfriend. If he can't support you over something as simple as makeup, where will he stand when it comes to something bigger???

Answer 4

Only you know what your true motivation is. Some girls are very flirtatious and dress to attract a lot of attention from guys. But most just want to feel attractive accortding to their own taste. If you know that your look is within reasonn, then your boyfriend is unreasonably jealous. If after a year he has serous trust issues, I think you should really think carefully -- is he really the guy for you? Because each person in a realationship has to be able to be themself, without being criticized for it. Jealously without reason is very hurtful.

Answer 5

Save him the trouble. Break up with this man who obviously has control issues, You may not see it but All I can see is disaster. Wake up and smell the coffee. If you are not allowed to look nice for your own self esteem,? you need to say good bye fast and get over him. No man should have that kind of power, Living with him would be like a living Hell

Answer 6

These are sings of a man who will grow up to become one the lunatic men who like to control everything about their partner. This will not change but will get worse as he ages. Sweetheart, it doesn't matter why you do make up. You are an individual with rights to choose what you want to wear or do with you life. I know you care about him and love him but you cannot give in. if you give in now, it will only get worse in the future. Simply tell him that you are mature enough to make your decisions. If he loves you, he will have to respect you decisions. And if he cannot respect you and your choices, he has to leave. As a woman, you will face these kinds of decision all the time. If you give in once and let him decide what you wear and how you behave, you will become imprisoned to his commands. Best thing to do right now is break up with him!

Answer 7

Maybe if you go with the flow and let somethings that are argued about go, Moments in your life may actually seem so easy like this one you said here. I hope the world that this helps you out. Good Luck.

Oh one other this I wanna tell you.
"If love is meant to be then Love will find away."

If you dont know what that means You will in life.

(Good Luck)

Answer 8

it is not your fault that he has security issues, assure him that is not what you are doing and point on that you were wearing makeup and nice cloths before you two met why should you stop now and also point out that you want to look beautiful for him so all the other guys are jelous that he has such a hottie and they dont ..... stroke his ego a little that always helps

Answer 9

I think you should talk to him. Explain, EVERYTHING. Just tell him, basically what you just told people on Yahoo. Tell him how much you care about him, and how you don't want this to separate you too. Just don't lose yourself. Tell him, that even though you care about him, that you do what makes you feel better, and you just hope that he cares about you as much as you care about him. See how it works out, and if he doesn't supply honesty to your relationship, then just tell him that you need to think. Then he never really loved you. One day, i promise that you will find a guy who will love and respect you. But this guy might not be worth it, don't let yourself be hidden and manipulated.
--Go Talk To Him--

Answer 10

hes possessive, he lacks confidence, and suffers from low low low self esteem.



Hes pretty much not sure of himself, thats why he acts like this. Hes afraid hes going to lose you.


Needless to say: theres nothing a man can do or say that will stop a woman from straying. Its all in her character.



so lets hope us guys dont get stuck with closet whores.