why do couples?

Question

i have never been in a relationship before

but some couple i look at the girl is so cute but those couples fight alot and i wonder what the guy is think when the girl is that cute...i feel like if i had one of those girl i would never fight and treat her right...and i would never get sick of her....is this because i have never been in a relationship?

Answer 1

That is very sweet and gentlemanly of you - don't lost that trait..however there is more to it than that. When we see a couple we never see the 'behind the scenes' of the relationship. Couples fight because of many different reasons...money, opinions, lack of interests, religion....etc a lot of different factors come into couple that argue. Just because she is cute doesn't always mean that you won't fight...trust me....my boyfriend says I'm cute - doesn't stop us fighting...though I do tend to give him the puppy dog eyes...sometimes it works lol...

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Answer 2

Yes it is, you're being naieve. Just because the girl is cute doesn't mean there aren't going to be problems. You sound like you'll end up being a total pushover which is going to cause you MORE problems than those couples you witness. Meaning there will be a bigger chance she'll cheat on you, or break up with you for someone else. So get in a relationship, grow a spine, treat her right but don't become a coat rack. Relationships are real, arguments are real, problems are real and there may be yelling and really bad days but it's those bad days that carry you on to the happy days.

Answer 3

Yeah its probably because you've never been in a relationship. Also.. no matter how attractive someone is, if their personality sucks then it just wont work out. Without a good personality you'll never remain in a relationship very long. Sometimes relationships where the girl or guy is very good looking is even more difficult because there can be jealousy problems or numerous problematic exes.

Answer 4

Every couple and every relationship has its issues and problems... It doesn't matter if they are cute... No matter what you will still have problems...Some more than others...

It is a good thing that you want to be good to a woman you are with, that is the right track to be on, but don't make yourself crazy in worrying that you must have this picture perfect relationship.. You do the best you can, and take it one step at a time...

Answer 5

Probably .... you dont realize that it isnt all about the beauty of the girl the "hot couples " also have problems like any others !! its normal no matter how cute the girl is you gise are bound to have problems because that is part of being in a relationship !! hope i helped !!

Answer 6

Jealousy is an evil green monster. It causes people to hurt the ones they love. It destroys relationships, and ruins friendships. Just don't participate in that type of immature behavior, and you will have a happy relationship regardless of whether she is cute or not.

Answer 7

It could be that he finds her so attractive that he thinks it'll attract other men and so when guys talk to her he gets jealous and or also paranoid that she might bump into someone better. So to prevent that, they become controlling. And by controlling them, it limits the girl's freedom of having to do anything they want to do even if they are innocent. And that in itself becomes into a squarrel.

Answer 8

You can't be healthy relationship without fighting at least some. You have to be in a relationship to understand. God bless.

Answer 9

Once you get into a relationship you will figure out that its not always fun.

Answer 10

It's either their differences, or it's the standard bad boy with the girl. I know what you mean though, they are gems.