Singles & Dating - 14 August 2007

im african american...and guys within my race find me very attractive..
however i remember when i was in middle school...i went to a school that didnt have alot of "black" people and was made up of caucasions and hispanics and i felt as if i didnt have a chance with any guys at all because of my race...

no matter how hard i tried the boys just didnt give me the time of day....

but i just graduated from a highschool that had alot of "black" guys and i had no problem hooking up wit them...


why was this?

2007-08-14 11:00:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

That he gets once a week at around 12 or 1am. He never answers them but he also will fight me if i try to grab it before he gets to ignore it...?

2007-08-14 10:57:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw him at a fair and i said the only reason i broke up with you is because my dad died and i asked him back out again but he said he really doesnt know. And i really love him. But since the fair he wont return my calls, wont answer the phone, and laughs in the backround when one of his family members says hes not here but i really want him back and i wont give up. Please help me!!!

2007-08-14 10:25:18 · 5 answers · asked by Kayla 1

Ok well last night I had a huge party and I invited my friend who I like!We all got wasted and when I went into my room to lay down for a few minutes he came in and striped his clothes and mine.I gave him head and we did it for like ever.It was soooooo nice.But he has a girlfriend!Does he really like me?because he is always flirting with me and when we swim together alone he always chases me and grabs my butt and pulls my swimsuit off!

2007-08-14 10:21:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

this freind of mines likes me more than a freind and i dont
today she told me and i dont know what to tell her tommorow
i donw want to break her feelkings what should i tell her

2007-08-14 10:21:28 · 10 answers · asked by Sunflower 2

so i've been talking to this guy who is going to my college via online for awhile. So we finally meet up and we hang out and end up making out. I didn't want to get anymore physical than that for now. But that was Sunday night and he hasn't really tried to talk to me since then...I saw him at a dance they had for the freshman and he was dancing with another girl and I just turned my back towards him because he knew that I had seen him. Now I'm getting the feeling that it's awkward. What do you think could be going on?

2007-08-14 10:13:44 · 28 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

What are some physial things u find intriguing in girls. For example:
Heavey eyeliner
Tattoos
Big eyes
Long hair
Tall
etc etc

2007-08-14 10:12:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

and what should i wear to pickup chicks or just regularly

2007-08-14 10:11:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my girlfriend but somethings she does in bed are well they range from unpleasant to down right painful.
Whats the best way to tell her without hurting her too much or better yet at all

2007-08-14 10:09:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does your girlfriend do that turns you on?

2007-08-14 10:06:28 · 27 answers · asked by Amanda O 2

" and ron got mad at me for choosing harry of over him
mum" hermione voice a little higher than she would of
liked it to be, she had just gotten back a few hours
ago from getting her parents and restoring there
memories and was explaining what had happend but as
she finished her last sentence a realisation had come
to her.
She quickly ran upstairs in her room and closed the
door but not before casting silencing spell around her
door. What she was going to be talking about was
private and didnt want anyone to here, she sat down on
her bed and began talking to herself because she felt
that she was the only one she could talk to about this
"god im such a git talking to my self if only ron
could see me now he could really call me mental". She
got up from her bed and began to pace her room before
talking to herself again "honestly hermione for beging
the smartes witch from my age it sure take me along
time to come to this thought".
Hermione felt sad and grabbed her favorite teddy bear
from her bed the she called harmony and hugged it as
she paced her room again "i would choose harry over
ron wont i?. I mean i did do it when ron asked me
whether i was going with him and i choose harry"
hermione stoped pacing and had the most confused look
on her face "well of cource i choose harry i said i
would help him, i couldnt just leave him there all
alone while me and ronald went back to the burrow, but
why do i feel like if i had to choose between harry
and ron for good i would choose harry"
Hermone began to realise that she was crying and wasnt
sure why she whiped the tears of her face and began to
talk again "i should choose ron he's my boyfriend
after all and harry just my friend my best friend i
can talk to him about things i would never tell ron
because i know ron would just get mad and start a
fight , i hate ron for always fighting with me harry
on the other hand has never really gotten mad at me
let alone made me cry like all the times ron has, i
love harry like a brother rite? but why do i feel like
it something more than that?"
With out knowing it she began to pace again but this
time it was twice as fast "i would love to just tell
harry that i care for him more than i do ron, i could
see myself being with harry instead of ron but what
happends if our relationship didnt work out and we
broke up we would have this awkwardness between us and
things will never go back to being the same again, i
would rather loose harry than not have the
relationship like we have now" hermione grabbed her
bag opened her door and walked down stairs.
"mum, where are you" hermoine yelled as she walked
down stairs
hermione looked around from the stairs and could see
that her mom wasnt in the living room or the bathroom
and walked down the last few stair before she heard
her mother's voice "hermione sweetheart im in the
kitchen" hermione walked down the hallway
"mum i just came to tell you that im going back to the
burrow now to see ron and harry and i'll be back
tonight" hermione look at her mother and saw her
mother looking into her eyes hermione quickly turn
away
"hermione is something wrong sweetheart you look like
you were crying , is everything okay" hermione nooded
and walked away
At the burrow harry potter was helping ginny with
dinner he had bragged about his cooking skills and
landed himself in hot water. When ginny told him if he
thinks hes so good with cooking then he could make the
meatloaf while she made the mashpotatoes and wished he
had keeped quit.
"harry please hurry up hermione will be her soon and
you havent even but the meatloaf in the oven yet i
thought you knew how to cook" spat ginny and harry
could see that she regreted having him cook as soon as
he was afraid to but his hands in the bowl of meat
Harry looked at her trying not to laugh at the fact
the she look like ron the time when hermione had beat
him at a muggle game of chess " ginny i said i could
cook but not not fast ,im not like you i cant just
point my wand at something ans have it be one, i never
cooked with a wand before i dont know the spells to
use because i had to cook the muggle way and it takes
along time to cut and chop by hand" harry knew that
wasnt good enough of an excuse for her.
"i really don..." ginny words were drawn out by the
loud pop that told them that someone had just
apperated out side and seconds later they could see a
mass of brown hair walk by the window " hermione"
ginny said as she ran to her friend and gave her a
hug.
" hi ginny" hermione smiled and tryed not to make eye
contact with harry out of fear that he would see that
she had been crying "wow something smells really good
what is it?'
Ginny beamed at hermione "thanks hermione what you
smell are my mashpotatoes and if harry and finished
sooner you would also be smelling a meatloaf but im a
good cook over there is slower that ron trying to
figure out how to use a cd player"
All three at them laughed and hermione felt happy for
that microsecond before harry spoke "is
everything okay hermione you look upset" harry doing
the exsact same thing that hermione didnt want him to
do he was staring into her wet eyes
"yea everythings fine harry you dont have to ask me
that if something wasnt you would know , i just got
some dirt in my eye when i apperated out side is all ,
but all the same thanks for asking tho" she smiled at
harry and her and ginny left the room to find ron
harry just stood there "there is something wrong with
her and you know she lieing" harry thought "yea but
she obviously didnt want to tell you tho so just stay
out of it" " but i cant i hate to see her hurt it
drive me mad i cant stand see someone i care about
crying" harry smile at the thought of hermione smiling
at him "she is just the best and she doesnt deserve to
shed one tear"
There was a big boom over harry's head and he realised
that was ron room and that the girls must of scared
the sh!t out of ron to make him jump like that. Turned
his thought to ron " do i really show how much i care
for hermione so much that ron could tell? i mean when
he saved me and went to distroy that horcrux his fear
was harry and hermione kissing could he tell that i
like hermione ?" harry attention was brought back to
the world around him he felt a shape pain on his
finger and realised that he had cute his finger with
the knife in is other hand.
Harry grabed a rag and rapped his finger and started
to think again about hermione " i do care for hermione
and i lied to ron when i told him it was just like a
brother loves a sister its more than that and there
friendship will never be more than it was now, what if
he had asked hermione out or told her how i felt about
her that i liked her more than a friend what if she
didnt feel the same way then i would loose hermione
and she would tell ron and ron would tell ginny" harry
looked sad if that happends ron and ginny would never
forgive him and he would loose the people he cared
about so much and he couldnt loose hermione and
decited to keep quite.
Dinner rolled around and after alot of complain about
the time it took for dinner to be ready this mainly
coming from ron the hole weasly family and harry and
hermione sat down for dinner. after all the compiments
on a job well done and ron saying that he would love
to wait this long if harry food comes out this good
everything he cooked. Harry looked at ginny who looked
so pretty to night and how he wished she was hermione
but knew he would would have to settle for ginny the
next best thing and he was okay with that as long as
he still had hermione.
Hermione started at harry and could help but think
about how lucky she was , she was surrounded by people
that loved her and even tho the one person she would
had prefered to love her im a different way, but she
decited no to dewell on something that would never
happen and reached out and took rons hand and held it,
ron was no harry but ron loved her like the way she
wished harry would but she would settle with ron the
next best thing.
Harry hermione looked at eachother and for that moment
they thought the same exact thing "even if i
would to break up with ron" " and if i were to break
up with ginny" " at least harry and me ' "hermione and
me " "WILL STILL HAVE EACHOTHER"

2007-08-14 10:03:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

As the question says - drunken cheating: still cheating, no matter what, or a forgivable mistake whilst under the influence?

2007-08-14 10:01:18 · 71 answers · asked by Libra ♎ 4

haha sorry about adding it to my last question as just a detail.. i'm asking again..

2007-08-14 09:56:17 · 59 answers · asked by (Changed my name) 3

Please don't assume he's some psycho that's going to rape me. We've been talking for months now and have a pretty good connection. He's a great guy and we tell each other a lot-I think that in person things would be even better. We talked on the phone once as well. He lives an hour away but I don't know if he should come to my house or I go to his or we meet somewhere in between? Any ideas or people who've done this before?

2007-08-14 09:56:10 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

shy until you get to know them
sweet
loves to laugh
likes sports
loves travel
wants you to go away sometimes so they can miss you
physically fit
intelligent and career minded
caring

2007-08-14 09:55:56 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

2007-08-14 09:46:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-14 09:46:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday I woke up sick mostly with a sore throat. I spoke with (could barely talk) and emailed my man during the day letting him know how horrible I felt. I decided to go to the Emergency Room/hospital because I couldn't eat or swallow anything.

My man never even offered to go with me. He did however call me and text me to check on me and see how I was doing. I found out later that night that he was hanging out at the park with his cousin.

Men if your woman was sick and at the hospital by herself would you offer to go with her or not?

I'm not upset with him but haven't returned any of his calls today because (1) my throat is still sore (can't talk) and (2) I figure if he really cared he would've come to see me instead of calling.

Should I tell him how I feel or just treat him the way he treats me?

2007-08-14 09:46:06 · 22 answers · asked by Heaven26 3

We're supposed to get married on October 21, 2007. We didn't send out the invatations yet though. A few days ago, my cousin came over and I hadn't seen him in 5 years so I was so happy to see him. I hugged him and then my fiancee showed up and he assumed I was cheating on him. He never saw my cousin before but he didn't even talk to me!! I keep thinking about what if we're married and he assumes I'm cheating on him with another person which I'd never do!!!! I know how it feels because my dad cheated on my mom and I saw her in pain all the time. I know it's wrong but he thinks I'm cheating! I've tried calling and he didn't pick up. I tried going to his house but he wasn't home. I'm really confused. It's making me so sad and I keep crying. Should I dump him?

2007-08-14 09:35:55 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

a guy that i already dated 3 times asked me out again saying he misses me and he is sorry fr the stuff he did to me and i said yes cuz i miss him ssssssooooooooooooo much wat do i do

2007-08-14 09:32:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy. After several encounters and small chit chat I tell him I'm available. He gives me his number and tells me to call him when I get into his area. Twice I went to his town because I have friends who live there, and both times I called and said I was in town. It just so happened he would have something else going on but said he'd call me back and just never does. One night I called him, and explained that I really wanted to get to know him better and asked him if we connect on any level. He said he didn't know because he has not gotten the chance to hang out with me but was flattered by what I had to say. The conversation went very well, but I still have not gotten a call from him since. It's only been 4 days but I need to know. He said he didn't want a relationship and I told him that I didn't either. I told him just a casual thing and he agreed. I guess my big question is, do I make one last attempt or do I wait for him to make the next move??

2007-08-14 09:32:43 · 18 answers · asked by ALABLUEYES 1

He is a good man. Do I hang in there? If so, for how long?

2007-08-14 09:25:57 · 7 answers · asked by Kimberly 1

I really like this guy and he talkes to me but i am not sure if he is into me?? I flirt but i am not sure what he is thinking.

2007-08-14 09:20:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok listen i am wit my guy right and he gets up and goes 2 da restroom and leaves his fone its starts ringing i didnt answer bcuz its his i just tell him "hun ur fones ringing" he says answer it so i do and when i pick up a females says hey daddy i enjoyed last night maybe we can do it again......now im restraining from killing right now so pleeeze help...

2007-08-14 09:18:58 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have to know the date today. its tuesday. once its wednesday the questions no good.

thank you

2007-08-14 09:10:04 · 12 answers · asked by Coolchick3323 3

I'm taking a woman to our first date, but I don't want to pay a lot. Assuming we just got a few burgers, fries, and cokes, would McDonalds or Wendy's be cheaper for a first date?

2007-08-14 09:08:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got back last night after visiting my dad and brother all weekend. I happened to notice that the KY lubricant was sitting out (not in the medicine cabinet where it’s normally kept). I decided to ask my boyfriend about it. He said it was leaking and was always getting all over the shelves of the cabinet and he was planning on just throwing it out. Well, I checked the bottle and it was completely dry and not leaking at all. The only way for it to leak would be for the lid to be open and for it to be turned on its side. This probably sounds silly, but instantly I assumed the worse…that he was sleeping with someone else and forgot to put it away before I got back. We do not have sex nearly as much as he’d like to (I am depressed and usually not up for it) so I know he has been feeling sexually frustrated for awhile. I also noticed that he bought me my favorite drink and offered to pick up my favorite burger for take-out today on his way home from work. Could this be because he feels guilty? Am I just being paranoid? If not, how do I find out if he’s being unfaithful? Should I confront him about this? I didn’t want to kiss him goodbye this morning in case he really was cheating on me. He most likely knows I am upset about something.

2007-08-14 09:05:46 · 71 answers · asked by Aeryn Sun 2

SERIOUSLY? FOR example...if u wanna hook up with someone and u know theyre in a relationship...are u really just going to walk away??

2007-08-14 09:05:18 · 26 answers · asked by chi_south_kid1 1

that is the most unattractice quality in any girl i know. i just absolutely hate it! why? who started this and how do we stop it?

2007-08-14 08:58:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

huh?

2007-08-14 08:54:34 · 37 answers · asked by Breaking News 1