Singles & Dating - 12 August 2007

I've asked this before and it's pretty much rhetorical, but it helps me exorcise my extreme exasperation:

Is it possible for a woman to EVER get over being cheated on? I've admitted it, I've apologized until I'm blue in the face, and yes, I know it's been more than one time, but I can't go back and change the past, can I?

Whenever we fight, why is this always the first accusation thrown in my face? It's like those times I've cheated in the 9 years we've been together totally makes anything I ever do that she doesn't agree with my fault, whether there's merit to her feelings or not.

Right now, she's mad at me for some trivial thing, but does she yell at me for that? No, I get yelled at by her for cheating. I'll admit, her life would be better if she'd never met me, but what's done is done, so why can't she move on and let us concentrate on the future?

I don't really expect any sympathy here, but it would be nice. Does anyone agree with me on this?

2007-08-12 19:09:33 · 18 answers · asked by Jack B, sinistral 5

2007-08-12 18:56:42 · 5 answers · asked by always4him 1

Should i purchase a pokemon game, or have fun with my girlfriend?

2007-08-12 18:50:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend does not want me to talk to any other girls, at all. Including girls that i was friends with before we got together (girls that told me i should be with her). i have no interest in anyone else, and i would never cheat on her. she has no reason to be so jealous. i just want to keep my friends. she would freak out and throw a fit if i ever talked to another girl. Do you think it's okay for someone to be this jealous?

2007-08-12 18:46:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 18:44:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 18:41:24 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly K 2

im 19 year old and well i haven't had real sex but I am really want to but i scrared ....i need help dont know what to do from all
my friend well im the only virgin??

2007-08-12 18:37:23 · 13 answers · asked by Chanel 1

he said guys use a girl either for sex, money etc...are all men predators then? and are we unsuspecting victims.

2007-08-12 18:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you rather date someone you've seen but havent talked to or talked to but haven't seen?

2007-08-12 18:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to get back with my ex. I feel so miserable without him and really alone and insecure. He lives in Texas, I live in California, both of us are high school sophomores. I really miss him and care about him. I can't imagine losing him. I've been really depressed since and can't stop crying or thinking of him... He's always been there for me and I want to be with him so bad.
HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-08-12 18:08:17 · 1 answers · asked by jenniprncss 3

and is it considered rape

2007-08-12 18:03:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 18:02:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends say i'm a bad girlfriend, but my boyfriend always tells me how good of one i am. they say this because i worry about my boyfriend when i dont see him or talk to him for a day, but i thought thats a good thing, it shows i care about him. i'm 14 and all my girl friends say that, that is a bad sign in a relationship. are they right? am i wrong to worry about him?

2007-08-12 17:59:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm Asian (South Eastern) and the only guys (2) whom I've had relationships with are both Caucasian. I am attracted to them, but I do have crushed on Asian male actors. Anyway, lately I started to look at this as weird. I heard they call Asian girls who date Whites as sell-outs, and the Whites as having Asian fetish. Now I'm all paranoid and thinking that whenever I go out with my man, people have negative thoughts about us.

In all honesty, I like the person for who he is, he's sweet and thoughtful and really cares for me, and I'm not some "whitewashed" asian as I stick to my roots and proud of who I am and where I come from. My guy seems decent and has good intentions. He met my family.

Am I just being silly here?? Is it normal that I'm attracted to white guys and them to me as well? I've had some Asian guys hitting on me too, but I always somehow end up liking the white guy more.

I don't know, I just got really paranoid over this interracial dating thing.

2007-08-12 17:47:20 · 13 answers · asked by __@__ 2

2007-08-12 17:46:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 19 (almost 20) and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Despite the odds, we have not had sex. I am a virgin. My family is strangely obsessed with my virginity. They tell me I will never marry if I have sex b4 marriage that every1 will think Im a slut, etc. When my bro wants 2 get me in trouble he will say Im having sex w/ my bf. My parents told me the only way they'll trust me is if I go to a gynecologist and have her tell them Im a virgin to prove it. This is not a cultural or religious thing, they are just very weird. I dont think I should have 2 c a doc 2 prove Im a virgin. How should i handle this and will I ever sexually be normal?

2007-08-12 17:46:07 · 2 answers · asked by marm212 5

2007-08-12 17:43:57 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous

Got an email from a guy friend asking to hang out some time alone, which we usually aren't (our mutual friends come together to watch DVDs a lot). He flirts lightly with all of his female friends, but I've been getting some 'likes me' vibes. Should I say yes? And would it be wrong to invite my other female pal along if I did?

Don't ask me of I like him, I have no idea. I choose my partners for instant attraction factor, and I didn't have that with him, but I have been thinking about him. I'm worried that I might be using him unwittingly, purely cos of the deprivation of having no one in my life for almost a year. So should I steer clear or be open to the possibilities?

2007-08-12 17:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by Lee 4

My girlfriend smoked marijuana for the first time a few months ago. She really liked it and has done it about 4 times. I found out and got really mad. She has done it maybe once or twice since and i made her promise she wasnt going to do it again. I found a light in her purse a few days ago and she admitted that she was planning on smoking again. I got mad again. I dont know what to do, should i breakup with her over it? I tried to make her stop but she says it helps her get away from things. Shes the type of girl that wants it non-stop aswell. She sees nothing wrong with it and doesnt think its a big deal.

2007-08-12 17:35:29 · 5 answers · asked by d b 1

I'm going to college soon and my BF Danny recently told me that he's worried - it's very easy to get me drunk, and he said he's afraid that some guy will hit on me when I'm drunk (because he thinks if I'm drunk, I might lower my inhibitions and make out with the guy or something)

Should I be offended or is it normal for him to feel that way? How can I erase that fear?!

2007-08-12 17:34:29 · 74 answers · asked by Anonymous

something you should'nt miss my friends ,here on Yahoo Q&A?

2007-08-12 17:30:41 · 7 answers · asked by nanna 5

I'm an intelligent, slightly above average looking, sixteen year old girl. I fix my hair and wear make up everyday. I'm a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. When I have on my favorite jeans and a nice, plain, fitted t-shirt is when I feel the most confident. Then I see all these guys going after the "trendy girls". So I wear the "trendy clothes". The only problem is that when I wear these clothes I feel like I'm not being myself and lose my confidence.

My question is, would a guy rather go out with a confident girl that dresses kind of plain or an unconfident girl who takes the time to dress up everyday?

I'm clearly a bit confused. Any help is welcome.

2007-08-12 17:25:26 · 35 answers · asked by pretty little liar 6

How many guys out there like butts more than boobs? My boyfriend definitely does. He'll take any opportunity to grab my butt, even when we're at the movie theater, sitting down and watching the movie. It's kinda amusing. No rude comments please.

2007-08-12 17:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

The U.S. embassy in our country is strict. For a person to be able to immigrate to the U.S., he has to have someone who would petition him there. He cannot apply for immigration as an independent applicant, unlike for Canada. That someone could either be fiance or close relative.

I don't have fiance or close relative to petition me to become a U.S. immigrant. I'm an accountant. I've tried applying at U.S. auditing firms but all my applications have been unsuccessful.

It has been my dream since I was a kid to live in the U.S.

Can anyone make some suggestions?

I live in the Philippines, btw.

2007-08-12 17:09:11 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3

I am a white male and I find it offensive to hear the "N word" blasted all over the place. What is it about rap music that it always has to be offensive and aggressive. And why does it exploit women, drugs, money, power..etc. Rock, alternative, blues..etc do not typically have this brash attitude. I really believe the message it transmits in todays youth is quite detrimental.

2007-08-12 17:06:10 · 5 answers · asked by Seamus 3

she also walks by and looks at me after school but we never talk what is going on and what do i do.

2007-08-12 17:05:30 · 20 answers · asked by Gabinol 3

Thats my name and I absolutely love it. I find nothing sexier than when it comes out of a girl's mouth. What do you think? Is it unique? When you think of the name Brandon what type of guy pops into your head?

2007-08-12 16:57:52 · 2 answers · asked by *** 2

2007-08-12 16:56:12 · 42 answers · asked by Heartbreak kid 5

what should i gif 4 she b'day....

2007-08-12 16:50:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, how?

2007-08-12 16:45:56 · 5 answers · asked by black_nemesis03 1