im 19 year old and well i haven't had real sex but I am really want to but i scrared ....i need help dont know what to do from all
my friend well im the only virgin??
2007-08-12 18:37:23 · 13 answers · asked by Chanel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey hun, I am turning 19 on Tuesday. And I am STILL a virgin. A proud one too! - Listen Being a virgin is hard enough. But being a 19 year old virgin in a city like New York like me can be even harder. But you know what? I don't care about what people think! I know I am attractive and lets not even start to count the number of guys that want me. Do I care to loose my virginity now? Hell no, Imma hold on to it till I am good and ready. I know your friends may make you think that not having sex is not cool, but trust me its less things to worry about, don't feel pressured into having sex "just because the rest of your friends are doing it". If your not ready your not ready. Sex is a responsibility. In order to have sex you have to be ready for the possibilities of having a child and/or contracting a disease. If you want to have sex let it be because you want to not because your silly little friends are running around teasing you. (P.S. let me put you on to something, guys respect girls that keep their virginity's that long, even though they may make fun of you in the back of their minds they respect you, because you have shown them that you have will power and that your not like the rest of the girls.) Trust me I know, I have nothing but a bunch of male friends the good and the bad. Take your virginity serious, you don't want any regrets.... I know a lot of my friends that lost it and they wish they can get it back!
2007-08-12 18:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by JustaThought 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only 19 yr old virgin- stop thinking about it!
Find a girlfriend and after you are close, tell her! I'm sure she would be honored to help you out.
2007-08-13 01:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your scared then don't do it and wait until your ready... there is nothing wrong with you being a virgin at 19, your smarter then most to still have it and you should be proud of you for not just giving it away...
2007-08-13 01:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you are a ****** guy to tell you the truth it is a lot harder for a girl you cant really get pregnate and to tell you the truth i know guys who were twelve and lost their virginity just take a step out there use protection and have fun with it you are and adult now dont be afraid and try to be in a relationship too that can help a whole lot trust me:D
2007-08-13 01:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i was you at one point i was the only virgin and all my friends all had sex before me but i found someone and yea well im not anymore and it sucks cuz i dated a guy who was 21 and was still a virgin and if it wasnt for me i bet he would still be a virgin
2007-08-13 01:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real sex?, I don't even remember there being fake sex. If you want help, get a book on the subject, its detailed and wont cause you to get a virus.
2007-08-13 01:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if u cant get a girl for whatever reason, there are always hookers.... its funny but im serious. oh yeah the profesional name is an "escort". have all your friends chip in on yr birthday and hook u up with a hooker....lol
2007-08-13 01:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Marcelo F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOW YARDS,WASH CARS SAVE MONEY, BUY A 1/2 HR WITH A GOOD HOOKER.
CONTINUE TO DO SO FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. FORGET RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGE. YOU WILL BE FAR HAPPIER, AND PROBABLY STILL HAVE MORE MONEY.
2007-08-13 01:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE! RELAX. it's just sex. you want to have it, you're old enough to get into the strip club. go in, ask for a dance in the back, and go from there, but remember-----NO SEX IN THE CHAMPAGNE ROOM!
2007-08-13 01:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by jswllms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get with someone and do it cuz if u dun get any practice in u might suk
2007-08-13 01:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by kyle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋