Singles & Dating - 12 August 2007

I'm a divorced woman (no kids). I've been a co-worker & friends with a man (never married, no kids) for more than 6 years. He's very popular, funny, attractive... he's like an old "Rock" God -- musician/singer -- However, since I've known him he's dated very little -- even though girls like him a lot! I've always been attracted to his persona and since Feb. 2007 we've been dating on & off and gotten closer. We're always laughing & we can talk for hours about nothing in particular. We are very much alike & compatible. I am a smitten kitten! I know he's attracted to me and he's drunkenly told me how much he loves me...Problem: We have only kissed passionately a few times --we've literally slept together -- but, we haven't had sex!! I'm nervous, too - but he must have deep intimacy issues & maybe he's waiting for the "next best thing". Can I help him learn intimacy? Is it possible for an lonely old guy to stop looking for a greener grass .. and see the beauty that's in front of him?

2007-08-12 09:44:41 · 11 answers · asked by Claudia 1

do you like better?

1. Kyla(very popular singer in the Philippines/RnB princess of the Philippines)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fpmQwT9xiG8&mode=related&search=

2. 112(popular RnB group in U.S)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EIK68pSRMGo

click on the links.

2007-08-12 09:37:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I have noticed that my boyfriend that I have been with for 6 months has been spending A LOT more time with his friends than with me. I know he has known them longer but for example in the last 2 weeks I have seen him 4 times. The rest has been spent with his friends!!!! When he is with them, he rarely even calls me! I know he is busy but still... I am afraid to say anything to make him upset because I just want him to be happy. But sometimes I just want to spend some time with him too!!! Any suggestions on what I should do? I know he loves me and he loves me too so breaking up or taking a break is out of the question. Thanks!

2007-08-12 09:31:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a bad fall out with my ex. After we ended the women who he cheated on me with called and harassed me over things she was misinformed of and I ended up involving the police due to Harassment from both of them. I don’t’ care if he married her or what, so why inform me he knocked her up a second time and ‘married her’? It’s been over 2 1/2 years since the last I had seen him and the police were called that day to get him away from me.
A few months back I got another email from him out of the blue to inform me of the woman he cheated on me with he knocked up a second time. So why are you informing me?
I ended up deleting that email. I don't have time for there harassment, so I blocked there new email then that was the time I started to post information about my current relationship online, photos etc. happy things.
Then again today he or his 'wife' wrote me again at my myspace. Why now? Why the emails to inform me he’s so happy and she’s ‘better then I was’ so why bother?

2007-08-12 09:24:54 · 2 answers · asked by Juleette 6

2007-08-12 09:02:13 · 6 answers · asked by Sara007 5

2007-08-12 08:54:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, when it comes to sex what are the advantages & disadvantages of being married to a skinny/average/or flat chested women compared to a large/BBW/voluptuous women? how do the large/voluptuous women compare to skinny/average/flat chested women in bed physically and sexually?

since i've let myself become open to the idea, i think that i'm now more actually attracted to bigger/BBW/larger/voluptous ladies than skinny/average/flat chested women. However, I don't want to go out and use someone to satisfy my curiousity becasue I believe that would be wrong.

when I say large/BBW i don't mean obese! i mean those ladies who are overweight with large breasts, large buttocks and wide hips whose figure still resembles at least somewhat of an "hour glass" figure.

I'm not attracted to simply obese women (there's a difference between obese & overweight). neither am I physically attracted to ladies with larger/out-of proportion sized bellies.

Appreciate ur input, tnx
CuriousCat

2007-08-12 08:52:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's best friend's girlfriend's best friend has a crush on my boyfriend. I hate it when she's around and whenever she's over at the house I usually keep away from her and tell my boyfriend not to talk to her. I know I have nothing to worry about but I still can't help from not liking this girl because she likes my boyfriend. I trust my boyfriend but I DO NOT trust her. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half now. I know my boyfriend would never leave me for her. And I am more attractive than her. I just don't know what to do. Should I say something to her about it? How can get along with this girl and get the fact that she likes my boyfriend out of my mind whenever I'm around her or talking to her.

2007-08-12 08:51:24 · 27 answers · asked by Kace06 1

Shyness is ruining my life. I dont have many friends and no girlfriends (ever). I am moving away to college soon though. The idea of moving away from home is making me really nervous, but I think its the only way to get better. Will I just automatically get less shy in a new situation, or will I be the same?

I need to be outgoing, but how?

2007-08-12 08:49:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Blonde hair blue eyed guys?
Tall dark and handsome?
Blondes or redheads or brunettes?
big breasts or small?
lips or eyes?

2007-08-12 08:47:47 · 1 answers · asked by tater 2

a girl you think is so beautiful and she really liked you too, the problem is you are mutual friends with her brother and her ex(her x and brother are best friends)although her x cheated on her thats why the are not together.you are extremely attracted to her but cannot have her even though she wants you too.So over time you move on and begin a relationship with someone else.a year later she send you and email asking to get together for a drink,would you reply?even though you are with someone else?would most men take the chance?

2007-08-12 08:35:45 · 7 answers · asked by kelly k 1

2007-08-12 08:33:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm dating a guy who has a rep as a player. But he spends all his free time with me since we started dating and is very attentive and everything, the way a non-player would be. This has all the signs of a relationship but I'm being cautious because I'm scared to get any deeper with it. I don't want to get hurt if he really is just playing me. Can't stop thinking of that line "Players only love you when they're playing." Is is possible for people to change and get serious about someone who makes them want to change? I just don't want to be deluded.

2007-08-12 08:32:08 · 10 answers · asked by FallenBird 1

i like bounty hunting. its fun.

2007-08-12 08:27:56 · 11 answers · asked by Elle 5

still raising the kids, so u have nothing to do with them, other than be with the mom of course.

2007-08-12 08:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 2

this story goes back to two years ago when i caught my x cheating and left him,i ran into a mutual friend of his one night and he was so sweet by listening and understanding me being upset,he had drove me home that night and held me till i slept.i really liked him and he really liked me,but my x was so scary crazy over me so the timing was terrible.a year went by and i called this guy and told him he was'eating me alive'he said he had no idea and he wished he had known but he started seeing someone,so i let it go.then a couple weeks after i ran into him and he was all about me and we had kissed,i stopped him when i rememebred his girl,he continued to tell me im the most beatiful girl alive and he wished he had known how i felt.so here i am 5 months later and i sent him an email asking him to meet up for a drink,bad idea?I really dont even think he will reply..do you?

2007-08-12 08:24:11 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1

Ok well this guy that I really like keeps texting me. We talked for about 7 hours yesterday. We talked about things like what we want the person we will marry to be like, how old we want to be when we get married, and how many kids we want. We talked about school and lots of other things. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. If you need more details, just ask me for them. Thanks! This will help me a lot.

Additional Details

4 minutes ago
Well he has a girlfriend, but I don't think they're very close. He told my friend that he thinks I'm really pretty. He always tells me hi whenever he sees me, and makes a point to say it loud enough so that everyone around us hears him. For the past week we have talked almost every day. I'm just really confused, because why wouldn't he be talking to his girlfriend like he's talking to me?

2007-08-12 08:19:33 · 7 answers · asked by Aqueus 1

had the worst day ever today...i was at my bf's last nite..this morning his ex who he left me for came round to pick some more of her stuff up, my bf told her she couldnt come in and when she reliased i was there she put her hand through the glass to open the door and broke in..she started screaming she was going to kill me and started scratching my bf's face...i was upstairs so i called the police who came within 5 mins. both me and my bf were shaken but whats worse is hes lost faith in himself now and says hes not strong enough to be with me...i love him so much and i dont want to let this come between us. he says he shud go back to her and make her hate him so she will leave of her own according but i know that wont work. ive told him im going to stick by him and make this work but its hard to stay strong for the both of us when he has so much doubt...its like hes broken. i wish i could ease his pain and make him see she wont be like this forever. what else can i do?

2007-08-12 08:19:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

...do you wonder or think that something must be wrong with the girl?...or is it good that she doesn't have any baggage?...or do you even care about her past?

2007-08-12 08:17:54 · 20 answers · asked by Smiles 3

Ok, so yesterday I went to the mall with my friends just to hang out - nothing more. I was walking out of the store when this guy glanced at me and I glanced back. In a nanoscecond I recognized him. He is in my Spansih class. So, i thought, big deal - he's not that important., I mean, he is hot and all but i wasn't goignb to act like a 'bad girl'. anyways, he calls out my name and stops me and starts hugging me, He goes u look so nice andf pretty, wow, i've never seen u like this. this he hugs me agian and i hug him back - (i didn't want to reject him - it was just a hug).
then, as i was walking again in the mall, we saw him agian, this time, he really shows attraction. he goes u look so sexy and hot and i say thanks u do too and he hugs me and says i love you and i'll see you next week. he also gets my number.

Anyways, i was wonderign if this menas anything?? does he like me or is he just toying with my feelings??
What do u thinK>>>?

2007-08-12 08:15:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anne 2

me and my boyfriend been going out for a while now and he wants to do "you know what" over the phone i have a couple of times but i dont know if i should keep giving to him.what do you guys think?? and truthful and not pigs!!

2007-08-12 08:13:41 · 17 answers · asked by mimi 1

I have known some guys who would watch me from a distance and smile. I am always afraid to speak because I don't want to start anything if that is what they are thinking but I try to be nice to them.

2007-08-12 08:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3

I am 17 and i am sick of guys just using me or being not right for me. I have never dated anyone over a month long! I just want to settle down and find my "Soul mate" lol :) I am scared i know it sounds silly, but i would love to find him sooon :( :( ! What should i do :(

Thanks x

2007-08-12 08:02:25 · 6 answers · asked by Dont Look Back In Anger 1

Ok well this guy that I really like keeps texting me. We talked for about 7 hours yesterday. We talked about things like what we want the person we will marry to be like, how old we want to be when we get married, and how many kids we want. We talked about school and lots of other things. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. If you need more details, just ask me for them. Thanks! This will help me a lot.

2007-08-12 08:02:05 · 3 answers · asked by Aqueus 1

My ex and i are close friends. we are still into each other but he wants his feelings to grow more before we go back out. We hang out a lot. But sometimes i get to carried away and start texting and calling him non stop. He doesnt answer. But calls me back a while after for a little. He works, and his grandparents are down aswell as his cousins. No he is costa rica. I didnt get a chance to say buy to him because i had to work. he sais we will hang out when he gets back. But i feel like im crowding him. How do i make him chase me, and not seem so desperate.But hey i cant help it i love this guy and the tought of us going back out is what i have prayed for for a while. YES im a christian girl. So please dont use any sarcasm. Thanks for the advice!

2007-08-12 07:58:02 · 10 answers · asked by Mindy 2

I was seeing a guy for about 4 months and he was my first. he said i love you and was so sweet to me. after a while he started getting distant and all of a sudden stopped returning my calls. after 3 weeks i got a hold of his friend and his friend said that he said he didnt know how to tell me but he has a new g/f and he said hes sort of blowing me off. i dont understand how a person can do that to someone, after everything, just make them wonder and hurt them like this. i would of never known if it wasnt for his friend who told me. i didnt think he was like that at all and i feel stupid and i feel used and horrible about myself. it bothers me that im so hurt by this but hes already done and over it and has already forgotten about me like nothing happend. how do you get over something like this??

2007-08-12 07:49:28 · 15 answers · asked by LilyC 1

i've always wanted to fall in love... even at 15(i know im young)but i have my own little dream world. i always believe that there is such a thing as true love, but people tell me im dreaming. i believe this so much and that i dont have to have 100 boyfriends or sleep around to find a guy and that true love will come one day. am i crazy or will i hopefully someday be rewarded for my hope and belief.

2007-08-12 07:43:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, me and my ex have been together since feb 2007 and yes we did have a couple breakups here and there but i know he had real feelings because it just felt so right and i loved him so much. a week ago we broke up and now he has this different girl. now all weekend all he has been doin was calling/talking me asking me on the computer to call him and all yesterday i was unable to pick up the phone and he called me at least 14 times!! i texted him and he started calling me beautiful. he flirted with me alot!! telling me he got in fights with his gf and telling me how much better it was with me then her. IM SO CONFUSED HELP!?
also on his profile on myspace it says on how much he love his new gf. im just so confused please help!
thanks<33

2007-08-12 07:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by Angiee 2

What do you think of a 39 year old woman who wants to date a 22 year old guy?

2007-08-12 07:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 07:31:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous