Shyness is ruining my life. I dont have many friends and no girlfriends (ever). I am moving away to college soon though. The idea of moving away from home is making me really nervous, but I think its the only way to get better. Will I just automatically get less shy in a new situation, or will I be the same?
I need to be outgoing, but how?
2007-08-12 08:49:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u my friend are getting a fresh start
yes, thats exactly what i did, i jumped right into what i feared most, and it helped a lot
look what u think is the best way for urself, probably is... so just do what u think is right, but don't be shy, no matter what u do, ppl. will understand
2007-08-12 09:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by WTF!? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, yes. Try walking up to people that you don't know and strike up a conversation. Once you talked to several different people in different situations, then you will realize that talking to strangers isn't so bad after all.
If that is hard for you, then try this: next time you are at the store or restaurant getting a burger, ask the person who is waiting on you how their day is going so far. This will get you used to talking to strangers, and it will make their day.
2007-08-13 07:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried chatting with service women? Like say the food market cashier, waitress or clothing save revenues associate? attempt to have interplay in some communique/small talk with those women and prepare to maintain eye touch, those women each physique is meant to serve you so there could be little to no concern of rejection (and in the event that they're impolite you are able to purely blame their poor shopper help). as quickly as you get comfortable with chatting with those women human beings your self assurance could strengthen and it would be much less complicated to talk to the girl you're attracted to. you additionally can techniques-set random women human beings and purely be your self and talk approximately something, even attempt to get their quantity. you will get rejected a lot (and it is common), yet you will quickly exchange into numb to rejection and your self assurance will pass up.
2016-10-02 04:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong!
Dont stress yourself aiming to get out of your shyness control ... just gradually and slowly ... the time you took to be shy wont vanish within a blink of an eye .. needs some equivalent time to conquer it all.
2007-08-12 08:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋