Singles & Dating - 31 July 2007

Hi guys! I am a recent college graduate female who is in her early 20's. I have friends and knew some people who had nasty past (had many sexual partners and such) and now they are all getting married!! I saw who they are marrying to and they are pretty looking decent guys!

I have learned to respect my body from my brother, my cousins, and my friends who are around my age.. and that the consequences would be better than those girls with dirty past. Now, they are ended up with a lifetime partner while I am a single girl who is looking for one.

I just thought what guys think of these days now. Do you guys care about girl's past anymore?

2007-07-31 12:55:24 · 21 answers · asked by summer 2

I FOUND OUT THAT MY BOYFRIEND WAS CHEATING ON ME AND IM CRUSHED . HOW CAN I GET MY MIND OF IT?

2007-07-31 12:50:29 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Liz♥ 4

I want to study to different types of men out there. and write a book about it. who wants or would consider doing some thing like this for me?

2007-07-31 12:48:52 · 16 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4

im 18. and still a virgin.every guy i tell that i am a virgin leaves me.they say the dont want a virgin.this is my generation.i've dated over 50 guys and all of them say the same thing.my question is .How do guys expect a girl not to be a virgin if there not willing to have sex with one.we have to start from somewhere.Im tired of WAITING and i DONT want to wait until im MARRIED so leave those answer out because i dont want to hear it.Guys say im beautiful but when i tell them im a virgin its like im the ugly beast.What can i do? other than the two things i said not to tell me.Should i not tell the next guy im a virgin and deal with it.

2007-07-31 12:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by hola_kity2008 1

That one thing that is soemthing different and cute about a girl that just makes you......well. i dont know how to explain it but you know. haha!

2007-07-31 12:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since the beginning of time men have (in stories, lore and in real life) felt entitled or driven or whatever to cheat. Is it genetic? Is the idea of human loyalty to one person simply absurd? I am asking out of genuine curiosity and not trying to slam one side of the populace here.

2007-07-31 12:35:20 · 19 answers · asked by wickeywickey 2

I must have been crazy to have ever wanted to be an adult. everything was so much fun as a child. no worries, no obligations..just being young and free

2007-07-31 12:35:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want her to talk to me and tell me what is up. I do love very much. I am really hurting inside. Why can't she just talk to me and tell me what is going on? I care about her and the children on many levels. The kids are like my own and I miss them greatly. I miss just holding her and making sure she is happy and safe. We used to confide in each other. It is not there right now. All I can say she means a great deal to me and I do not want to see her hurt. I know I can not fix everything for her. I do not want this distance to cause us to lose each other. Some night right now I wake up crying or looking for her to talk to. I sense when she is happy and sad. She does the same with me I believe. I just wish i could spend some time with her.

2007-07-31 12:30:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

like i am 25 and have been with around 40 men (thats not including the women i have been with).... but i guess my question is, is how many is too many, im not married so its not like 1 of my current partners is going to be the only 1 forever, so i cant just stop now! out of all those men, i only was in a relatoinship with 2 of them ever!

2007-07-31 12:27:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i have been together for the past 6 years and we have never ever had sex. i have 2 kids from my previous relationship of 10 years. and his excuse is the kids might get up. i gave him oral sex a few times but thats abot it. now if i get anywhere near him he'll cross his legs. theres always a pillow between us when we sleep. if he feels me getting on the bed he instantly flips over onto his stomach. i asked him if he was gay and what his problem is. he simply responds with "because i just don't want to, i can say no if i want" he's now 32 and i'm 30. and i don't know if it bothers me anymore or thats why im so annoyed and stressed out all the time. i'm so sexually frustrated.

2007-07-31 12:20:47 · 45 answers · asked by stressed 1

I have know that my girlfriend has been doing online sexual role playing with a guy in California (we live in Georgia) she says that she has no emotional attachment to this guy, and the only reason they role play is because I'm not that good at it/ don't have time on a computer. so even though i didn't like it i decided that i could stand it because she liked it so much. well i come to find out (because she sent an return email between us to him on acasadent) that he didn't know she had a boyfriend or who i was. after i talked to her about it she said it was because she though us being together was none of his bisness and he would stop RPing with her if he knew. is is ok that I'm upset with her for not telling him that we are together ,or am i wrong for acting this way.

she has know way to see this guy being that she is 15.

2007-07-31 12:18:03 · 21 answers · asked by john m 2

does he say you agree on something when you know you did not? Do they get around making decisions and try to get you to make it for them.
justb pondering what is male/female diference in communication or is this a problem.
do men have walls go up and down, treat females like a yoyo?
all info appreciated

2007-07-31 11:54:00 · 2 answers · asked by ideame 3

Okay here's the deal..My name is Nicole & my boyfriend's name is Corey, We've been together for 8 months...And he has a BIG problem with me wearing Make-Up!! And I've been wearing make-up for like forever so I can't just stop and it makes me feel so incomplete with out it on...but he doesn't understand that he tells me im beautiful without it but I think he just says it so I won't wear it. But me and him were talking about one day and he basically said to me "Chose now me or the make-up" of course I said him. So I haven't worn any make-up since. I'm scared he'll brake up with me..And I love him very much. So now I wear make-up when I know I'm not going to see him a cetain day. But I really want to go back to wearing it again, its just me And I even told him umm hello when you first met me I wore make-up but he said thats not what made him like me he said he hated it back then to So I need to put up a good arguement but he always shuts me down when I try to by making a better argument.

2007-07-31 11:52:50 · 25 answers · asked by Nicole 1

Is it really true that guys only think about one thing? Am I doomed to a life of being someones lustful desire?

2007-07-31 11:41:14 · 6 answers · asked by cutest chick!!! 3

2007-07-31 11:38:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in 6th grade and a girl i like asked me how she should ask a guy out. i kno her pretty well and i think she likes me. after i told her she said how great i was. does this mean she likes me?? she asked how I would like a girl to ask ME out { this was all done through IM ing}

2007-07-31 11:29:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you prefer curvy or slim girls.

2007-07-31 11:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2

2 years ago i caught my x of a few years cheating so i left him,shortly after i ran into a mutual friend of his and we instantly clicked,i was still bitter about the cheating,he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and held me till slept,he was so sweet.I saw him a couple months after and he told me i was'killing him'my x was also there with him and was freaking out that we liked eachother.11/2 yrs went by and i called him to tell him he was'eating me alive'he said it was mutual and he had no idea and he thinks im the most beautiful girl,he said he wished he had known but he started seeing someone.so i let it go.then i saw him a couple weeks later and we had both been drinking and started kissing uncontrolably,i stopped him when i remembered his girlfriend,he again told me how he wished he had known how i felt and thinks im the cutest girl alive and how he felt so bad for me that night he held me.I have not talked to him since,it s been 3 months.will he ever come for me?

2007-07-31 11:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1

Do you think this guy looks better with a buzz cut or medium length hair? His hair is growing out again and he's trying to decide whether to buzz or not for his camping trip this friday....

buzz-
http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h108/johnanddennis2006/Picture1711-1.jpg

medium length-
http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h108/johnanddennis2006/london066-1.jpg

2007-07-31 11:25:49 · 43 answers · asked by Marissa 1

So I get a lot of looks from other women. I tend to ignore it, but I sometimes I get random smiles and so I'll smile back. My girlfriend hates it, but I'm like, aren't you happy knowing that you have a hot boyfriend? If she doesn't like this, then she should be with an ugly boyfriend. What do you girls think?

2007-07-31 11:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by Misterman 3

2007-07-31 11:18:43 · 35 answers · asked by The Chosen One 3

me and my guy friend hang out and he gets really drunk, if i ask him about his true feeling towards me will it come out?

2007-07-31 11:17:34 · 13 answers · asked by sarah c 1

how do you give a guy a *****? serious answers only i just wanna know what works for u cuz im getting tired of haveing to change and dress like a slut every time i want to have sex w/ my bf. any ideas?

2007-07-31 11:17:29 · 1 answers · asked by Caitlin M 1

2007-07-31 11:16:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been working out for about 9 years and I dress pretty normally. I wonder if I am doing anything wrong or is it that girls are less upfront about it. Thanks for any insight.

2007-07-31 11:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by Mav17 5

Do you hope to find a good woman after 50? If so what particulars do you look for and what age range and are physical attributes important as what is in the heart of that person?

2007-07-31 11:08:37 · 3 answers · asked by sonja z 2

hmm, has anyone ever wondered why women don't go out and buy the condoms? The majority of my girlfriends leave it to their men to buy the goods...

Is it really a guys job? Should we be a little more pro-active and buy them too?

What's your opinion? Do you think it's a guys job to get them or (if your a woman) are you one of those gals that totes them?

Just curious...

2007-07-31 11:04:10 · 44 answers · asked by Marissa 2

2007-07-31 11:03:22 · 6 answers · asked by sspence966 1

K so, my sister, Taylor, doesnt like to wear panties, shes a young adult (23) and she says shes not trying to be sexy, she just thinks panties are waaaay uncomfortable, and she has never worn them, as long as i can remember, but when she wears a skrit or dress she wears spandex short shorts. so, do u think its gross? also she sleeps in the nude, is this weird?? and its not like shes fat or anything, shes like, 112 lbs 5'4, so if u thought she was heavy than ya, that may be kinda gross, lol. She washes her pants right after she wears them so its not like she wears them again and they're all...... gross inside. and she wears bras and everything,, and also all u stupid judgemental people, it wud hardly be anydifferent if she wore a thong!

2007-07-31 11:02:59 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know him from seeing him out throughout the years and since i was always hooked on my x i never gave him the time of day,then i saw him out recently and i thought he was adorable.so i found him on myspace and asked him if he wanted to get together something,he replied right away with "owtay,hey,you do hair right?where do you work again?eh,just being nosey" so replied with "why, whats going on?you need a haircut?defintely no highlites,the brown is adorable."he received my message and had no reply,its been two days,why no reply? why does he wonder where i work?should i forget him?

2007-07-31 11:01:32 · 7 answers · asked by kelly k 1