Singles & Dating - 31 July 2007

i want to tell my boyfriend that i'm not happy in our relationship but i dont want to end it. he gets really jealous and selfish at times and i can't stand it. i love him though and no matter how much he hurts me i always love him. i want to tell him this but i dont want him to get mean or angry about it because whenever i bring something like this up he does. what would be some ways to tell him this without making it sound like i'm breaking up with him and how to keep him calm while i'm talking? thanks!

2007-07-31 19:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most of my friends have done it already and say it is amazing. My bf keeps telling me how great it feels and that he loves me. I have thought of it but I am scared of something going wrong like a unwanted baby or an STD. I don't know what i should do. Id love some advice cause i really need it.

2007-07-31 19:47:37 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had to stop taking birth control for health reasons so I asked my BF to start wearing a condom from now on and he refused. He called me selfish and either I get back on the pill or we won't have sex. What gives?

2007-07-31 19:47:15 · 29 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

Here's the blunt truth. I can't get it up or hard like I used to and I leave her feeling unsatisfied. What are some good tips?

2007-07-31 19:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the past couple months I've been regularly chatting with this guy at the gym, poolside or in the steamroom. He showed obvious interest because he gleeked water on me, spanked me on the butt,etc.

Well, one day I come into the steamroom and he's MASSAGING HIS GIRLFRIEND. I thought, wow what an ***, he completely played me.

A day later, I'm on the elliptical and someone spanks me on the butt with a towel...it was him.

Today I saw him, and he was with his girlfriend. YET, he was alone in the jacuzzi and she was in the steamroom (you'd think people who date would be together). Also, when I approached the jacuzzi he started flirting with me again!

I don't understand! Is he over his girlfriend and hoping I'll show interest so he can move on? Or do you think he's just a player? Honestly, who flirts with other girls when their girlfriend is practically right there?!

2007-07-31 19:26:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am rather introverted and want to be fun and happy, but not overly so like one of my friends. I just want to be able to do things without thinking of them much or at all before doing them. Can I do things like these without getting in trouble at the same time?

2007-07-31 19:16:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

girls what do u wear under u skirts or mini skirts or dresses?
i wear nothing
and for the men
what do u like a girl to wear under her skirts or dresses

2007-07-31 19:14:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like i read somewhere guys think about sex every 5minutes.I was wondering if that was true.Me and my friend Asked a guy about that the other day he said its more every 3!Yeah i was just wonderin!!!!

2007-07-31 19:11:53 · 23 answers · asked by Sexy Lady 1

there is this girl i've been with for over 2 years, and we are exclusive, but i feel like she is taking me for granted, though she calls me everyday 3-4 times, we dont go out that much and are only intimate like once every 4-6 weeks. She is the one that always calls me, because she has a busy schedule with school, her kids, work, and her household duties. I'm always there for her when she calls, but i just feel like i'm not appreciated. I'm just wondering about the idea of not being as available like the quote above, and if absence does make the heart grow fonder? But if i do that it means i have to ignore her calls. is that a good idea? i'm just tired being in this rutt, it doesnt seem to be moving anywhere. I've been romantic before, sent her romantic text messages, etc. Any Advice? Should i cut down talking to her, and not pick up. but then i dont want her to get upset either. She may think i'm trying to break up which i'm not. please help.

2007-07-31 19:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by jack a 1

I really like this guy, and sometimes I think he likes me too, because he smiles and laughs when we play around together. How can I tell he likes me. He know I like him, and I don't think it bothers him, but I don't know what to do, or how to tell if he likes me back...Can anyone help???

2007-07-31 18:58:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this woman that I like. We went to the movies once and it seemed a little awkward because we're both shy, but when we talked about it later we both agreed that we would give it another shot. Well, we talk regularly and this week (we haven't had another date yet) she told me she is planning on moving to California (from Omaha) in a few months to follow her dreams of being an actress. We seem to click, she says that she likes me, but we don't really know eachother that well. I would like to see what develops out of this and of course I'm not going to try and stop her from leaving but how can I stay in the picture? I mean she is super sweet, smart, classy, beautiful, and not a manipulative witch like I am normally attracted to, so I don't want to just let her walk out of my life. Is it possible to start a relationship with somebody as their moving away or should I just give it up and move on? I just feel like I would be missing out on something great if I let her go. Please help!

2007-07-31 18:53:18 · 21 answers · asked by Patrick E 6

Okayyyy... my best friend is sweet and cute, and just really great. We've held hands and hugged before. He is 2 years younger than me though and his big brother is my age. He is a really wonderful guy too. He is humorous, nice, good at sweet talking, and just an all around great guy like his little brother, but, I am really worried about my friend though because, he has the usual sibling rivalry thing going on and he also seems to have a crush on me. I have a crush on his brother. Should I talk to my friend about it and see how he feels about it? Or should I just go for it and ask his brother out? Help!

2007-07-31 18:52:42 · 3 answers · asked by Reading Queen 1

Ive been thinking about him a lot! Damn it...

2007-07-31 18:37:42 · 6 answers · asked by sunshine 2

Ok i've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and it seems like he dosent seem interested in me anymore. He used to be all lovey dovey and now i can hardly keep his attention. I love him more than anyone could ever imagine and now i dont know what to do. I dont want to lose him. I hate feeling like this so much. Its really only been for the last couple of days but omg does it hurt. Its like he's ignoring me. Ok, we argue ALOT. And its like if we dont argue one day then he has to like ignore me all day and watch tv or something. He gets off of work comes and gets me then we go to his house so i can watch him play video games or sleep. He used to be so different and now its like he dosent even care. I miss him in a sence that i can only understand. But does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do or what i should say to him? It will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

2007-07-31 18:36:58 · 4 answers · asked by Heidi 2

ok i liked this guy for 3 years hes scared of relationships but he loves me. hes always been there for me. and now theres this guy i knew for a year i recently just say guy #2 and he was showing me affect which #1 doesnt. i feelt like we had a connection. but the thing is there best friends! & guy #1 we know everything about each other and #2 we dont have that mouch in common but hes so sweet and will act like a real bf which #1 doesnt. i have no idea what to do. i dated #1 3 times and he always found a reason to break up. and he gets jealous and beats up guys who come near me. and were not dating but he calls non stop. what should i do. idk?!

2007-07-31 18:34:14 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2

My lady always tells me I must have been a girl in a previous life, cause I even think like a girl sometimes. Ladies, do you think this is "Hot, Wimpy, or an Admirable trait in men?

2007-07-31 18:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by Spark of Insanity 7

Assume your a somewhat easy highschool girl With very strict parents. You have lots of enemys. Which would suck worse?

1. Your very very old school parents recieve a package of condoms with an anonomouys note saying that there daughter should learn how to put one on a man as she already has some stds.

2.Have someone put your phone number on an over 35 year old phone sex website.

*Please note all posts saying that revenge dosent work will be ignored.

2007-07-31 18:31:03 · 35 answers · asked by Mike M 4

I am 55 yrs old 5 ft 100lbs dark complection dark eyes dark hair. I am 36 24 30 . I consider myself attractive my problem is most of the men I meet are 28yrs old .Is there a thing these days for younger men to want older woman. I don't take them seriously but they are vey persistant . What to do?

2007-07-31 18:29:58 · 14 answers · asked by jusayg 2

i dated this guy a few years ago and we were young and very immature and it was a sucky relationship...over the past 2 years that we havent been together we have developed a great friendship and i am very happy with it. but this past week we have talked a lot and about everything. i get so happy everytime i hear from him. we are going to a concert for my bday on friday i cant wait. also i just found out that his favorite song by my favorite artist is the one that reminds me of him. "teardrops on my guitar" by taylor swift. which is really weird cause its the one i listen to whenever he talks to me about other girls. my feelings for him have really come back and idk what to do. im so happy with our friendship but i also wonder what would happen if we tried again now that we are older. i dont feel like i can talk to him about it though cause it could get awkward. maybe something will happen at the concert? i need advice

2007-07-31 18:29:18 · 3 answers · asked by kelly s 2

Ive dated him once and never really got over him. Hes 2 years older than me and goes to a different school.

2007-07-31 18:24:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this ex in which i am in love with,Back in Dec. he asked me if he should talk to this girl (we weren't together, just friends) and i told him he shouldn't ask me that question so in Mar. they end up getting together. All through Jan. & Feb. i was trying to be with him but he kept rejecting me because of our past together. (yeah, i cheated on him once) Well we were still friends but his new girl didnt like us talking so she confronted me, i got smart, she hit me and we fought. Well, he and i didnt talk for like 2 months after this but in may we strted tlkn again and he would say stuff like "Kiss me" and crap, i would deny him and say "No, you have a girl" but he would say "So, i want you" so like the end of may we were texting eachother and i asked him if he loved her but he avoided the quest. and never answerd me. She and i ended up getn into it again and he told me that we cant talk anymore, its been a month now but i still love him. is it worth a try to win him bak? if so how?

2007-07-31 18:20:23 · 15 answers · asked by sugarcookieprincess 1

as older men are ceaselessly checking out younger girls..

2007-07-31 18:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by MeLovesYou 3

I had always had great skin until about 6 months ago when I suddenly started getting acne. It seemed like every breakout scarred. Most of the scarring is on my chin area with a little on my forehead.

It's not like craters...its just pinkish marks. But I'm really self conscious about it and sometimes I won't even do stuff with my friends because I feel so bad about it.

Mostly, makeup disguises it but I feel like its robbed me of my natural beauty...now I have to wear makeup...it sucks.

But my real question is...
Would you date a girl with acne scars?(guys only plz)

I'm so worried that guys will find that gross or ugly.

I have tried treatments but so far...its not any better.

Please be honest. Other than that I think I'm okay. People say I'm pretty...but the acne has destroyed my self confidence.

2007-07-31 17:53:42 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do they do all day? My BF is in the airforce doing his mandatory 16 months of military boot camp. Not for his job the guys here all need to serve. Anybody know what they do everyday? He doesn't say much about it...

2007-07-31 17:53:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do u like shorter or taller girls? Do u like girls with curves or no curves? Pretty face or pretty body and can't be both? thin lips or full lips?

2007-07-31 17:42:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is a guy who is 46 or 50 too old for a 37 year old woman to date?

2007-07-31 17:33:29 · 11 answers · asked by D Michelle 1

Me and my wife have been married for 3 years and our sex life is total crap. I'm tired of all the excuses she gives. I cater to her all the time. Massages, gourmet meals, singing to her no talk or metion of sex whatsoever and just settling for kissing and hugging,,,, but there is still excuses. She says You care more about having an orgasm instead of me. I only want you to love me. wahh freakin waahhhhhh. I'm tired tired tireeed. I've done everything to prove that I love her and sex is just icing on the cake between us. If things don't change I truly don't lknow what I'll do. Am I wrong for feeling that way? Am I just tripping or what?

2007-07-31 17:29:08 · 30 answers · asked by DEREK B 2

Some guys just go with easier girls when demure girls don't give in. I am worried if I insist on not sleeping with guys until we have developed a relationship I won't be able to get any guy as they all go for easier catches.

2007-07-31 17:26:42 · 24 answers · asked by prettyinpink 1

2007-07-31 17:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by loveseat 2

do guys think that dumb blonds are hot? the ones at my school do but i just find it annoying soo what is your opinion and yes i know not all blonds are dumb and shouldnt judge but seriously!!

2007-07-31 17:23:11 · 14 answers · asked by *Josie* 4