i have this ex in which i am in love with,Back in Dec. he asked me if he should talk to this girl (we weren't together, just friends) and i told him he shouldn't ask me that question so in Mar. they end up getting together. All through Jan. & Feb. i was trying to be with him but he kept rejecting me because of our past together. (yeah, i cheated on him once) Well we were still friends but his new girl didnt like us talking so she confronted me, i got smart, she hit me and we fought. Well, he and i didnt talk for like 2 months after this but in may we strted tlkn again and he would say stuff like "Kiss me" and crap, i would deny him and say "No, you have a girl" but he would say "So, i want you" so like the end of may we were texting eachother and i asked him if he loved her but he avoided the quest. and never answerd me. She and i ended up getn into it again and he told me that we cant talk anymore, its been a month now but i still love him. is it worth a try to win him bak? if so how?
2007-07-31 18:20:23 · 15 answers · asked by sugarcookieprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i don't think it's worth it. jus move on sis
2007-07-31 18:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Deerich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the drama.. There is someone that you do not have to fight for! He should just want you and obviously.. he is confused. I am sure he loves you, but he is not fighting for you. Learn to avoid the both of them and he is probably playing games with her...the same way. It would always be a battle...
I have a sexy, sweet, compassionate bf. We have had our ups and downs, but we have stayed together or separated (a couple days) and worked out the issues. He is honestly just Great! We have been together over a year and have built an amazing relationship. I guarantee that no one in the world is Perfect, but find someone that wants you and happiness!
2007-08-01 01:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasnt left her n he always stops talking 2 u after ya fight then it aint worth it.. sometimes we need 2 understand that when we mess up theres nothing we can do 2 change it . so just b happy that he a tleast gives u the chance to b his friend dont loose that too. Let it go if its meant to b it'll happen .... good luck
2007-08-01 01:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, my motto is "once a cheater, always a cheater..." So, no, I don't think it's worth it cause you might get tempted into cheating on him again... Examine this over if you have to... but make sure it's a choice that you'll stick to and reflect good upon you...
2007-08-01 01:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by La da da... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You really shouldn't be in any kind of relationship until you mature. Not to mention you cheated on him which instantly throws all future trust out the window. Trust is what relationships should be based on. Not immature head games.
By the way, your spelling is terrible.
2007-08-01 01:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's worth it at all. Find someone who wants to be with you and only you. You don't need to deal with this drama s hit. Why do you want to "win him back??" He doesn't sound like that great of a prize!
2007-08-01 01:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Christine28L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because if he felt that way he would of not told you that he couldn't talk to you anymore you know he love his girlfriend because he couldn't lie to you so he avoided the question just find you someone else sound like your young and still able to find a guy....good luck
2007-08-01 01:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by thesource2007<<<my psn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... leave it alone. You dont love him either...or else you wouldnt have cheated on him. But then again...people like you deserve to be with someone like him. Your both as bad as eachother
2007-08-01 01:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by Dan M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow tht's a whole lotta drama
it seems like he has issues
dont try
get a new guy who appreciates you and doesnt get scared and runs off
he obviously didnt protect u when u got in a fight with tht chick
2007-08-01 01:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants you on the side. He has no intention of breaking up with her. Find someone who will put your first.
2007-08-01 01:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he'll always hold your past indescretion against you. Focus your energy on you - forget him.
2007-08-01 01:24:30 · answer #11 · answered by ms_stolli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋