I am rather introverted and want to be fun and happy, but not overly so like one of my friends. I just want to be able to do things without thinking of them much or at all before doing them. Can I do things like these without getting in trouble at the same time?
2007-07-31 19:16:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But vinnie, I don't like how I am. I don't have any friends this way and I feel very alone most times. It sounds like you're telling me I can never have friends.
2007-07-31 19:20:43 · update #1
@ bw: how can being introverted bring me happiness? All I feel is lonely and angry with who I am. All of the extroverts look like they're having fun, and I want to too.
2007-07-31 19:27:49 · update #2
@ tebazilebaby: your answer is good but for one thing...I don't have anyone to be next to. I'm alone, remember? How am I going to get out of this stupid rut when it takes being out of it to get out of it?
2007-07-31 19:30:06 · update #3
ofcourse you can! Me, and my friends are spontaneous... and its not really hard
try to relax and calm down.. life is all about the fun.. live like there is no tomorow....of course there is a point where you over do it, but a little trouble isn't bad...... just kick back, and enjoy the moments, take chances! I hope that helped! =]
2007-07-31 19:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being too spontaneous can be a problem. Sometimes we need structure in our lives. You are probably just more mature than your friends. Adults tend not to be as spontaneous because we have learned to think before we act in order not to do the wrong thing.
On the other hand, in insignificant situations such as a last minute dinner plan or such, spontaneity can be a pleasant change from the mundane. Just be discerning about when it is appropriate and when it is not!! Take care!!
2007-08-01 02:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are doing..if someone brings up an idea and you like it..go do it...dont plan it..just do it...if its something you know you should avoid..avoid it and do something else...You should never force yourself to be or do anything you are not. Just go with the flow and you will be happy in the end.
2007-08-01 02:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waoe my good guy friend says im not spontaneous either so I ....acted myself and sometimes let a day go how it would go...its not organized but its fun..just have the right person next to you ;)
2007-08-01 02:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy with who you are. Try to be someone else and you won't be happy. Being introverted can be happy too.
2007-08-01 02:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by lm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope its a personality thing either its there or its not if you force it your not being spontaneous.
2007-08-01 02:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah man, girls love guys who are spontaneous and funny because girls aren't spontaneous or funny themselves.
2007-08-01 02:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋