For the past couple months I've been regularly chatting with this guy at the gym, poolside or in the steamroom. He showed obvious interest because he gleeked water on me, spanked me on the butt,etc.
Well, one day I come into the steamroom and he's MASSAGING HIS GIRLFRIEND. I thought, wow what an ***, he completely played me.
A day later, I'm on the elliptical and someone spanks me on the butt with a towel...it was him.
Today I saw him, and he was with his girlfriend. YET, he was alone in the jacuzzi and she was in the steamroom (you'd think people who date would be together). Also, when I approached the jacuzzi he started flirting with me again!
I don't understand! Is he over his girlfriend and hoping I'll show interest so he can move on? Or do you think he's just a player? Honestly, who flirts with other girls when their girlfriend is practically right there?!
2007-07-31 19:26:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its simple, i know its a really confusing situation, but just ignore him, tell him that you find what he is doing to his girlfriend disgusting, and if he is interested in you its not the way to go about it.
would you really want to be on the other side of this if he dumps his girlfriend and starts dating you?
no guy thats worth dating will flirt with other girls so blatantly, i mean that verges on sexual harassment, if he just comes up and slaps your butt without a verbal communication first.
he sounds like someone you dont really want to know.
2007-07-31 19:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this guy is a flirt, and maybe he is interested in you -- the real question is, even if you could catch him, do you want to keep him?? Don't you think you might wind up being the next "girlfriend" who practically sits and watches him flirting with other girls?? Is that really what you want?? Maybe he is just a hopeless flirt who loves to see if he can get other girls to pay attention to him, you know, like build up his ego thinking "hey, i could have her if i really wanted her" I say, a little harmless flirting is always fun, but think twice before you get any more involved with this dude than just that -- you might regret it --
2007-07-31 19:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl's oldest daughter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... ask him. seriously. try a joking approach. "hey you, are you hitting on me?" in sort of a playful way next time he does something. try and find out what the deal is.
if he really likes you, and you want a relationship with him, just make sure he calls it quits with the other girl first. and find out his reasons as well. if he knows nothing of your personality, he's probly in it for the looks and won't stick around.
try and gauge the situation with your intuition. follow your instinct, and good luck with that!
2007-07-31 19:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hooo man have i been there... it depends... if he either has been dating her for way to long then he could be bored.. if hes been dating her for a short whlie maybe hes the kind that has to constantly have a gf..... if hes been doing that before hes had his girlfriend then id say uuhhh idfk.. but if he just started id say hes bored of his girl or whatever... but when it comes down to it he probably wont leave her.. its a delicate f'in situation... you should just be like wtf if i didnt know better youre f*cking flirting with me what do you want? make him say something.. and dont let him just brush it off cause thats a f*cking ***** i hate guys
2007-07-31 19:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_carofine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just likes the womanly attention you're giving him so cut his supply of attention whoreness off!
2007-07-31 19:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call u a midget of a midget if u are only 8 inches tall and 5.25 inches around. Imagine how small your willy is.
2016-05-19 21:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really do you need to ask this question - of course he is a player
2007-07-31 19:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Marilyn S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him like the plague, this guy is determined to cheat, and he's got some ba**s!!!
2007-07-31 19:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a wanka. Don't waste your time.
2007-07-31 19:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by biancajh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Player Alert!!!!!!
Move on
2007-07-31 19:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by redheadedgramma831 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋