Ok i've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and it seems like he dosent seem interested in me anymore. He used to be all lovey dovey and now i can hardly keep his attention. I love him more than anyone could ever imagine and now i dont know what to do. I dont want to lose him. I hate feeling like this so much. Its really only been for the last couple of days but omg does it hurt. Its like he's ignoring me. Ok, we argue ALOT. And its like if we dont argue one day then he has to like ignore me all day and watch tv or something. He gets off of work comes and gets me then we go to his house so i can watch him play video games or sleep. He used to be so different and now its like he dosent even care. I miss him in a sence that i can only understand. But does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do or what i should say to him? It will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
2007-07-31 18:36:58 · 4 answers · asked by Heidi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and by the way its not my fault that we get into arguments. He has a very short temper and he get mad over spilled milk if you see what im getting at.
2007-07-31 18:48:02 · update #1
find ways for him to miss you too. i think it's not healthy for a relationship that you see each other every second and minute of the day. don't ya think it's good to feel that your bf comes and get you to his house and say he missed you? i mean, it's pretty boring sometimes that you only see your bf's face the entire day!
2007-07-31 18:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by remmbr_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why you would argue A LOT with someone you love "more than anyone could ever imagine."
Do you not love him enough to stop arguing?
Most people will get sick of arguing day after day. Perhaps he's sick of it and you should consider the nature of your arguments, whether they are worth having, and if you can make a difference.
Something to keep in mind is its one thing to say you love someone more than anything, but it's another thing entirely to SHOW it. (act like it, prove it, etc.)
2007-08-01 01:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initiate conversation or activity... ask him if he wants to do something (something that both of you like)... or you can try to get into what he likes... although, he probably won't give back the effort you did... Just try to do something fun with im that both of you like (no theaters)... something active... Also, distance is good when you both don't have things to do with each other... give it a couple days (two to three weeks if you have to) then talk to each other... you'll be surprised how much you two could talk about after those few days/weeks...
2007-08-01 01:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by La da da... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay at your house a couple of days so he'll miss you.
2007-08-01 01:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋