So I get a lot of looks from other women. I tend to ignore it, but I sometimes I get random smiles and so I'll smile back. My girlfriend hates it, but I'm like, aren't you happy knowing that you have a hot boyfriend? If she doesn't like this, then she should be with an ugly boyfriend. What do you girls think?
2007-07-31 11:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by Misterman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me? I don't even notice it.
You might want to think why does she feel that she needs to worry... Sounds like you're teasing her with how good you look and how many women are checking you out.
2007-07-31 11:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how secure she is in the relationship. If he has the knowledge that you would never stray from her then it shouldn't bother her that you get looks. She should be flattered that others find her man attractive. But if she has that shadow of a doubt then it could bother her.
To help with that situation when you see her get upset that another woman is looking at you then be sure to tell her how much you care for her, and that she has nothing to ever worry about, that she is so much more than you would ever need, that you think she is the most beautiful person etc. Build her up and let her know she has nothing to worry about.
Make sure you tell her all those things not only when some other girls smiles at you but when ever, out of the blue.
2007-07-31 11:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by vancie121 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you should understand her. try to put yourself on her shoes. what if every guy checks her out in front of you? would you be jealous too? i understand where your coming from when you said your girl should be happy that girls look at you because it means your good looking and she should be happy being with a handsome boyfriend. but it sounds conceded of you too at the same time.
many girls tend to be insecure and seeing that other girls r checking out their boyfriend is the worst thing. you have to understand that. sometimes a smile can be flirting. many girls have different views on it, but when it happens just tell your girl that you love her and that you dont care if those girls are looking at you. tell her she's the lucky one.
2007-07-31 11:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are not making the first smile, and staying really close to me, lol.
if you really don't want anyone but her, tell her that so that she will feel more secure, if the smile is just being polite then thats being polite, but if your polite and look at the rest of her, its not being polite, lol
but if you just gave quick smile, then hug you girlfriend even more, or get closer to her, if you were ever gonna turn your head turn it to your girl friend, or to a friend thats a girl to have a conversation, but if its a waitress that your giving smiles to and shes getting touchy, uh, watch that one episode of the Fresh Prince of Bel Air, lol
Good Luck
2007-07-31 11:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I love it... gives me a big ol' smile and more reason for PDA... lol... I know my man isn't going anywhere and when other girls check him out or try to talk to him or hit on him it makes me feel like I'm on cloud 9 becuase I have something that many other women wish they could have...
2007-07-31 11:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by corakay0829 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frequently I fairly have discovered this to be so. My husband says that adult males choose to look and he in basic terms does it discretely. i comprehend that i'm no longer likely drawn to finding at adult males and don't think of of intercourse with regard to different adult males (i think of intercourse whilst i glance at or think of roughly my husband). I human beings watch, yet that's a very diverse ingredient. i'm an artist and paint human beings as my subjects the main, so i glance at anybody as skill artwork.
2016-10-08 22:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I LOVE it. I just smile back and know that he's mine and not going anywhere. LOL.
**Revenge is a dish best served cold**
2007-07-31 11:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It does not bother me, But if my boyfriend starts flirting and he seems interested in her, then we have a problem
2007-07-31 11:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by Keisha M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind...just as long as he doesnt respond too encouragingly,he can smile back or watever,say hi...but,I'm kool with it
2007-07-31 11:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Just Lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes kinda right... i mean i know youd think its polite to smile back but it could kinda hurt the other person...
2007-07-31 11:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋