Since the beginning of time men have (in stories, lore and in real life) felt entitled or driven or whatever to cheat. Is it genetic? Is the idea of human loyalty to one person simply absurd? I am asking out of genuine curiosity and not trying to slam one side of the populace here.
2007-07-31 12:35:20 · 19 answers · asked by wickeywickey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women don't cause male behavior. All people own their own behavior. I have cheated. I have been cheated on. I have been loyal. I will never know if I have been treated with loyalty. Wondering if it is a human possibility for men to be loyal when their hormones are involved.
2007-07-31 13:02:50 · update #1
It take one of each sex to cheat..... @
2007-07-31 12:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Genetics has nothing to do with cheating. I think double crossing human loyalty applies to both males and females evenly. I believe your perception comes from such sources like magazines, fictional books, movies, and personal - friends and yourself.
I think men tend to communicate less about being cheated on, as oppose to women who have a much greater support system and therefore it's acknowledge more.
In the end, cheating sucks for both sides.
2007-07-31 19:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat. I know that sometimes men will cheat on GF's because it's easier to do that then breakup with them. they do that so the girl will breakup with them. As for married men not all cheat either. People cheat because of the way the person they are cheating with makes them feel about themselves. They need an ego boost or maybe the female is more successful with the male and to feel better he cheats. Some of the most beautiful women have been cheated on with women less attractive them then. Their partners have low self esteem and need to make themselves feel better.
2007-07-31 19:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat.
Though it is genetically encoded to do so. We're wired to spread the seed around.
Women are wired to want the well built chest beating knuckle draggers for making babies, but the less masculine types for RAISING the babies.
It's evolutionary.
Oh.. and if you've cheated before, you're no good in my book.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-07-31 20:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry married almost 26 years and have never cheated, made my vows gave my word and have live by it. Have I been tempted yes but could not live with myself had I. Just for a side note many women cheat also
2007-07-31 19:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't, and I'm tall and dark(tanned, im not Black), but not handsome. so my faithfulness hardly matters. Here's a hint. arrogant men who think they're too good for anything. If you're in school they're the guys in the "cool group". they're most likely the people to cheat. Because they're cool, they think they can get whoever they want. Exceptions apply of course. Guys in the middle popularity range have a much lower tendency to change.
2007-07-31 19:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh ok Ill try to go wit this one...
YES IT ID GENETIC!!! BUUUUUT fort both human beings... men aaaaaand WOOOOMEN!!!! how does taht work??? It is the body.... thats it... we as human beings are in nedd of relating... the thing about women is that in order of their own hormon behavior, they need to WILL andf then feel.... with men... we rather feel first... little diference in the perpective point of view... NOWW if by doing it we are vheaters... ther would have to be a way to call girls that do not do it but are DYINg inside to.,..... u know???? I belive its a matter of views... wanna do it go ahead... u dont??? FINE!!!!!!
2007-07-31 19:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Paco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every guy cheats. some are afraid of commiting so they just go to someone else. Iti's not genentic. Some are players, and pimps and such... Mostly commiting when you have one girlfriend it restricts you from dating other women. They have to be real guy. and be commited. Some women are so clingy to men that they cause them to kinda drive them into other women they lose interest.
2007-07-31 19:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not agree with this, my thoughts are if your friends first and really get to know someone on the friendship level you will know if that person is the right person for you as a life partner, being married or not.
2007-07-31 19:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by Denise S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree with getsome. Not all men cheat.
All men look at other women, no doubt. It is in our genes to look at as many potential offspring bearing partners as possible.
It is literally out of my control, I do it subconciously by instinct.
Don't be jealous of your man, he probably can't help looking either.
2007-07-31 19:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of the questions i hate it makes me angry...
because if my bf ever cheated on me i would kill him or her or myself the strange thing about it in the back of my mind i think us women need to do everything in are will to saticfy are man so he doesnt feel the need to go to another women but things never go like that!! some women can do it!! but wot i also think men can get bored easily and i dunno how we can provent them from getting un bored.. us women its different we dont think about cheating all the time we dont i dont.. i want it to last with my bf im happy seeing just him i really really am! and i think men are ediots if they cheat! all women are beatiful! we are beatiful females! and we all are and they shouldnt cheat it really stresses me out the subject on cheating.. ive never been cheated on but i had a affair with a married man and ever since that happen ive hated my self and hated him! and never understood why he did it.. his wife is beatiful absolutly beatiful!!! like wow and im just normal and like he did use me just for sex but why when his wife is sexy and wants him i dnt get it hope it helped
2007-07-31 19:54:30 · answer #11 · answered by wowowow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋