I FOUND OUT THAT MY BOYFRIEND WAS CHEATING ON ME AND IM CRUSHED . HOW CAN I GET MY MIND OF IT?
2007-07-31 12:50:29 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Liz♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we broke up
2007-07-31 12:59:09 · update #1
Hie Liz. Well to me when you have found out your boyfriend is cheating in you then it is good that you should leave him but when you are heart broken then it is good that you should take a week or two for a time off for yourself and when during this time then it is good that you should try to hang out with your friends or go on vacation and when you in there then it is good that from there you can really relax yourself and from there you can at least try to forget him and when you have already forget him and after the two weeks then it is better for you to go on the things on what you are doing and from there it is good to forget him, because it is not good for you to sit at one side corner and just thinking about him and wasting your time. Try this and hope it miight help you..................
ALL THE BEST......................
2007-07-31 16:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 16:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go shopping or spend a night out or in with some girlfriends. I'm sorry to hear that. men can be dogs or worse sometimes. it wont be easy and is hard to stop thinking about, but at times like this you need a or a couple close friends to lean on. but you will find love again although it might seem like you never will you have to keep you head up and seem stronger around him like you don't care. like you can and will do better then that low life pieces of scum from the bottom of your shoe OK sweety.
2007-07-31 13:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Dakotah D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way and I'm sure you have already been told this.You go out and find yourself another boyfriend fast.I remember before i was married my boyfriend cheated then left me we were living together at the time.Well when he left me i lost 20lbs i only weighted 104 to start with ,i would'n go out or talk to anyone i was so broken hearted i didn't know how i was going to make it to the next day that's how down i was. My friends talked me in to going to a nite club so i went just to get them off my back. I was having a horrible time when someone ask me to dance when i looked up at him it was like magic my ex was out of my head just like that. I was going out with this other guy for over a week and when it got back to my ex that i was seeing someone he run back to me telling me how much he loved me and he ask me to marry him i did but it didn't last because what he did to me i thought if i married him my feelings would come back they didn't .You get what I'm telling you just be careful because when they brake your heart you just think you want them back.
2007-07-31 13:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard i went through the same thing and i think its still happening but anyways try and move on flirt get your mind off of him and think why do i need that i can have someone who actually cares about my feelings who needs him keep really busy, hang out with your girlfriends a lot it will be so hard at first i promise it will get better bc look how many ppl in this world thats happen to and we all got through and you can too good luck.
2007-07-31 12:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by ally k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant...
u just have to deal with it..
ive been through that too.. n it sucks
u just have to keep ur head up...
try to do things that will keep ur mind away from it.. like hangin out with friends.. as of now.. u should pretend u two never knew eachother.. n there... that way he will know that u are a strong girl and that u dont need him.. whatever u do.. dont go back to him.. he didnt respect you in the first place.. y should u.. if he cries.. let him cry.. he obviously didnt care when u did... just pretend u never knew him.. thats the best thing.. and time will cure the pain.. remember KARMA.. sweet KARMA!!
2007-07-31 12:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a long *** letter explaining your feelings, now you dont nessecarly have to give it to him, but just write down ALL of your feelings, no one will see it, but explain every single tiny little detail of how and what you are feeling, believe me everybody told me things to do and known worked not even listening to music and music is my life I mean I'm in like 4 bands so I acted like I was gonna give him this note and I wrote down EVERY little single thing down, just try it okay.
2007-07-31 12:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Morgan Massacre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still together, its gonna take time. Does he love you and do you love him? If so you will just have to work hard on building the trust back up. It won't be easy at all. But if you love each and want to make it work then give it your all.
2007-07-31 12:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Amy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your father up and tell him you need the comfort only a father can give. Have him come over and visit with you. spend some time with him.
2007-07-31 13:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) Break up with cheating boyfriend
b) Rebound relationship
2007-07-31 12:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋