Do you hope to find a good woman after 50? If so what particulars do you look for and what age range and are physical attributes important as what is in the heart of that person?
2007-07-31 11:08:37 · 3 answers · asked by sonja z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Almost 54 and single.
I looked for particulars and decided to throw out the age standards I had set for once.
I had it with near my age ladies with the most active events in their life was sitting around a patio table at a pool party and talking endlessly while a perfectly good pool went to waste. Evenings together were more like snuggling and watching a romantic movie for which I can't sit still for long or they put me to sleep.
I had looked for an active lady around my age and found none.
What I did find was a lady 14 years younger that likes to ski (snow), snorkel, scuba dive, dance, be creative, bicycle, beach, horse back ride, camp, and just my luck is also a knockout which I didn't expect or was looking for. It's also nice to know that even the younger ones have a hard time keeping up. :)
As far as her heart; she was in the same boat I was as being a trophy to phonies and thought her life was to be a lonely one as I did. Communication was also something I didn't expect as we can talk about anything and there is always curiosity in both of us as to what we mean and nothing is trivial or vulgar for discussion.
2007-07-31 11:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rickard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for a woman to be emotionally and mentally stable, and to be herself. She doesn't have to be skinny, but should be reasonably fit. A few extra pounds aren't a big deal, but a lot are. I want her to be active. I want her to be happy with who she is. I want her to like to make love and be reasonably good at it. Age is not a real issue. But I don't want to date a granny, but a grandma is okay. I want her to take care of herself and to dress nice and look as good as she can. But looks aren't the real issue. Style and grace are more important. I want a smile and a hug, but mostly I want a friend.
2007-07-31 18:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Single guy over 40...sorry...but I can tell you that while looks and the physical attraction have to be there, it is the person who is most important.
2007-07-31 18:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋