I'm in the Air Force, stationed in Germany, and I met this wonderful guy Ben. He's everything I ever wanted in a guy, and I have fallen deeply in love with him. I told him about it, and he replied with, "I can't love you. I'm not looking for love here." Both of us recently got out of bad relationships, but I'm ready to move on and really get on the move with this cat. Our relationship seemed good enough to me and I thought that we were getting really close, but he says that he still only considers me a buddy. He told me that relationships take time, and I know they do, and I'm willing to wait for it, but I don't know if he'll ever be ready to have a relationship with me, Yes, there's more than kissing involved, but I'm getting tired of the feeling that I'm being used. I love and I care about him, and he told me that he cares about me too...I just can't seem to be able to accept the fact that I won't find true love here. Help me!! I am truely heartbroken. :(
2007-07-19
09:09:45
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