What are somethings I could do to let white guys know I'm open to dating them? I'd like to do something subtle because I don't want to get my feelings hurt if he's not interested. Any suggestions on how to flirt with guys outside my race? Any stories from girls in my situation would really help. Thanks!
p.s. I'm 28 years old and am attractive (people say I look like Kelis when I had an afro)...
2007-07-19 09:37:13 · 7 answers · asked by haitiangurL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um, guys are guys..
Just as a side note, Subtle does not work with guys.
Touching a guy is a surefire way to make him think you are into him. Even if you are not. a light touch on the arm... hand on his shoulder...
Guys are all the same regardless of color. Show a small amount of interest in them and if they are interested they will be all over you.
2007-07-19 09:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hun. I'm interracially dating right now. My bf is white and I'm Moroccan. Though, I was born in the U.S. my family is from Morocco. Anyway --- I can relate to you because I have always only been attracted to the opposite sex outside my own race. All you can do is be yourself. Guys of all races are attracted to a woman who is who she is, and doesn't try to be something she's not. If you know of a specific person you're into, just come right out and ask him. Not too blunt, but ask him if he'd every consider dating someone outside his race?
2007-07-19 09:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a fairly generic white guy who's dated black women I can't think of anything I can suggest to let us know you're open especially.
I always assume any black woman that isn't wearing a DON'T TRUST WHITEY t-shirt is at least willing to let me flirt with her a bit.
Contrariwise, as long as a guy isn't wearing a Confederate flag belt buckle, he's open to talking to and flirting with you. :-)
Good luck!
2007-07-19 09:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go to a place where more white guys hang than black guys and go from there. I find that if a white guy finds you attractive he will be more aggressive than a black guys will. If he's attracted, he'll let you know. Trust me.
2007-07-19 09:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him like hes black, or just a man. i'd like a taste of brown sugar myself. what do black girls find attractive in a white man. and where do you live?
2007-07-19 09:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by juicy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt and act available, it works for all women. Would you consider dating a Vulcan?
2007-07-19 09:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be flirtatious, it doesn't matter what race they are most men will respond, especially when you are attractive.
2007-07-19 09:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by sugaflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋