There's this guy who has asked me out. i've been seeing alot of him recentantly and i really like him.
The only thing is...his kinda a 'celebrity'.
I'm scared about what will happen and what will be said and everything.
what do you think i should do?
2007-07-19 08:57:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not married!
his only 21
i think the thing i'm most scared about is people selling stories about him/me or all of the rumours and that just to get money. i know it sounds stupid, but im scared of that more than girls throwing themselfs at him.
2007-07-19 09:28:29 · update #1
I worked for a record company when I was a young girl and went out with one or two rather famous people and snogged a very, very famous person. When they asked me, I told them right from the beginning that I wasn't interested in 'celebrity lifestyle' and so no going anywhere I could be seen, no pictures, no nonsense. The relationships didn't go on to be life long but they were long term and not one iota was in the press about it. It was exciting in some ways as you have to be inventive about where you go and how to get there without being seen! I did get caught on the TV one night walking into an awards ceremony with one of them but I just sauntered off in another direction as if I wasn't with him and we met up at our seats later and laughed like drains when we played it back - it was like a spy film! I think you should go out with him and enjoy yourself but make it clear that you are in it to be with him and that his celebrity bit will have to stay at home when he sees you.
2007-07-19 09:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should stop worrying about what other people think, do or say. It really doesn't matter what they think, as so long as you are happy, you like him and he likes you then I don't see a problem.
If everyone took into consideration what others might say nothing would ever be done.
And what ever you do don't wait too long because after a while he will give up as he will think you are not interested in him.
Hope this helps
2007-07-19 16:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by knights_in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has anyone said NO to you in the past ?...................If we all looked on the bad side all the time nothing would get done .... Go for it, If he say's NO move on Dont think just do it. It's worked for me and im.. OLD , HAPPY, You cant live on an IF just do it ......... I Would... And if he is a CELEBRITY sell the story and get some cash to help with the pain.......
2007-07-19 16:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by The Thing 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi i went ou with a pro footballer before for a couple of yrs ... be aware that some women have no shame and will throw themselves at him - in front of you no less. i dont think there is any more opf a trust issue than with anyone else though - you trust or you dont if someone wants to cheat they will.
as for what will be said about you, girls will be jealous and there will be bitching but if you really like him go for it - people that want to bring you down arent worth worrying about good luck x
2007-07-19 16:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jolene 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him! Don't worry about the other people, if they want to but in then they are a bunch of mother f*****s. Just forget them and have a good time!
2007-07-19 16:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hun its obvious he likes you cause he asked you out so if people start talking just say he asked you out and tell them to mind their own buisiness and keep out of it
hope you stay happy dont mind what people think or say good luck hun
2007-07-19 16:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by T D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. The good thing is, if he is kind of a celebrity you will be able to keep tabs on him!!! if he is single like you .......go for it!!
Any clues on who he is???
2007-07-19 16:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by m s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop being scared about what other people think. He should know what's true and what isn't. Conisder your self lucky and have fun with him.
2007-07-19 16:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not care what other people think your what counts, unless he married then back off.
2007-07-19 16:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl! and don't worry about what will be said, if they are talking about you two they are leaving someone else alone.
2007-07-19 16:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋