he always likes to finger me wether we are in the car riding with his friends or just sitting on the couch.it's not that i don't like it at all it's just that he does it ALL the time every time that we are alone. and thats not what i want to do i want to be able to just sit there and watch a movie but he just can't seem to do that? what do i tell him????
2007-07-19 09:05:49 · 22 answers · asked by west_highsophmore_2009 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummmm.....stop
2007-07-19 09:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I don't even know you yet and I know you can do better than him.
What he's thinking is, "I'll try and keep her horny all the time so she'll want to have sex a lot." Yes, teenage boys are that dumb.
Go get a guy who'll know when to just hold your hand, or put an arm around you.
2007-07-19 09:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to chill out with the finger stuff or to eat you out. he might be programed that way. y'know alone on a couch with a girl..... finger pop time!!! tell him there are other things to do to get you in the mood. you can also keep asking him to wash his hands and stuff cause you got a yeast infection or some vagina problem that men don't understand so he'll leave you alone.
2007-07-19 09:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by von99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him how you feel about it. If he disagrees then hes not worth your time. I hate it when guys do that. Or you can tell him that you want your relationship to be alittle more serious and that your getting tired of the fingering.
2007-07-19 09:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Becca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move his hand when you see it heading that way and give him a look to say not now, if you dont feel comfortable actually saying it.
the thing is if you've let him all this time without saying anything he probably thinks you like it! or sit in a position where it is impossible for him to reach you, there has to be some boundarys!
2007-07-19 09:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea. Tell him to stop.
Maybe his fingers get cold easily.
2007-07-19 09:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by The Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...well, since this particular relationship consists of two parties, yourself and your boyfriend, there should be two voices that are allowed to express their feelings. So, you could easily just tell him no, stop, not now. It really isn't that hard.
2007-07-19 09:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by No Know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know im not a guy but if hes only interested in action kick him to the curb and find a man that respects u!
2007-07-19 09:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a chastity belt, its comes with an instruction manual on how to say NO!
2007-07-19 09:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by chris d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back Off!
You are being disrespectful.
Then inform him that this is not all you want to do. That you want to do other things and you are not a sex toy.
2007-07-19 10:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rawbert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋