Girls dont like virgin guys?

Question

I'm an older virgin guy aged 20. I've never had a girlfriend, but if I do have one will she have a problem with me being a virgin?

Girls expect guys to try to have sex with them right? If guys dont do this pretty soon wont a girl get bored and dump him? How do I handle this? How soon after I meet her do I have to make a move towards sex with her to prove that I like her? I've never done this before so I need help. I'm embarrassed.

Answer 1

some girls dont mind virgins its safer than some other dudes out there just try to talk to her and see how she feels about that maybe she dosent want to rush into sex as you think.

Answer 2

If a girl really cares about you then she won't judge you. Bringing this subject up early on may weird her out. But at the same time, don't plan it out. Don't think there is a time restriction on sex. When the mood is right and the two of you care about each other you will know, and the experience will be much more enjoyable. Just relax. You'll find a girl who is worth your time and this won't make a difference at all. She will probably be thrilled that she is the only person you have been with once you fall in love. Just don't stress it. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Babe, There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, and I completely respect your convictions to wait, In reality that is the right thing to do. Sex often confuses things, and due to the fact that it only takes one time to get pregnant and condoms are not 100% proof. Its a risk thats really not worth taking (in my opinion). Now you have to think about the world that we are living in right now and how Sexually explicit ads, movies, songs, even fast food commercials are bombarding us all of the time. So some people get their thinking twisted and they began to assume that if they are not in the(sex) club, that they are rejects. So they look for anyone to either make them a member by taking their virginity or someone to just continually add to their promiscuity. You sound like a young man that has his mind on tight, and has made a conscious decision to live out his morals. If these young ladies really had a brain they would realize that a Guy like you is a rare find!! Not because your a virgin, but because you care enough about yourself and others to not be ruled by society and teen pressure. You also have to remember how young minded and easily influenced these girls must be if they would actually break up with a guy for NOT having sex with them. What does that say about them and the content of their charachter as a teen. You don't need to be with anyone that is like that, For future reference maybe you can lay it on the line when you start dating girls that you are not interested in having sex until you are 18 or older, that might help weed out some of the Hoochies & heartbreakers that are only out for themselves. Which would allow you to hopefully find a more meaningful relationship with a young lady that has interests and convictions much like your own. Let them leave, remember its their insecurities not yours, so don't let yourself take the blame, Its not that they don't like you, in reality its that they don't like themselves and they feel that sex would somehow validate them or compensate the love that they are actually searching for, but little do they know that it can Only be found with God. Yeah this world is sad, and I just want you to know that I appreciate you sticking to your guns and staying true to yourself. I hope that this information was helpful to you and once Again keep doing what your doing, I'm proud of You!

Answer 4

Sex isn't proof that you like someone. Treating someone well and being thoughtful IS. When the time is right for you, it will happen... don't get so worked up over something that isn't an issue yet. The right woman for you will have no problem that you saved yourself for her, the wrong one probably would. Passion will develop and evolve between you and a partner, no need to move right into the big stuff.

Answer 5

There are alot of people who are virgins and I know I wouldn't dump a guy just because he didn't have sex with me, just seems so rude and so desperate ha. Also if she likes your company, she wouldn't be bored. Just go with the flow. Don't pressure yourself. You'll know when its the right time to make a move.

Answer 6

If any girl rejects you because of your lack of experience, she's probably not the kind of girl you want to date. Where do you think all her experience comes from? I'd much prefer a guy have no experience than a lot.

It depends on the type of girl you're dating, if she doesn't respect this about you, you can assume she is not the kind of girl you would want to have a relationship with. Hey, wait till you're married if you can! People should never pressure each other, and I think it would be great if you found a girl who thought similarly. Trust me, they're out there.

Answer 7

Think about it..someone has to. :) You're only 20...don't worry about it. Surely there's some reason why you haven't slept with anyone yet -- you haven't met the right person, your family/parents are always around, you don't have a car...whatever it is, it's quite OK, and I think a girl might in fact appreciate you haven't gotten it on with loads of girls. Surely you can show a girl you're dating you find them attractive through other means. As long as you're interested in the girl and would like to sleep with her someday, that should be no problem...I don't think many girls want to date a guy they can confuse with a hungry octopus. :)

Relax!

Answer 8

What you should do is tell your girlfriend right away that you are a virgin. Girls are impressed by men who ARE virgins--so you have nothing to worry about. If she really cares for you, she will respect you and your decision not to have sex. So don't feel obligated that you HAVE to have sex.

Answer 9

You don't need to have sex with her to prove you like her, and if she thinks that, then she is not worth your time. You should definitely tell her that you are a virgin though, I think that is kind of important

You're a virgin, you've made it this long, why not wait for love?

Answer 10

My current lover is 22 and I am 30

He was a virgin when I found him, and not really interested in sex. I un locked a fantasy he had and he has become the perfect male lover for me.

I don't know if I answered your question or not---