Singles & Dating - 10 July 2007

OK pretend you are my boyfriend.
-You and I have danced really closely at school dances and other times.
-You have hugged me in public so you arent too shy.
-I was the one who asked you out, so you are a little shy.
-You and I have been going out for 3 1/2 months.
-I don't know if you are ready to kiss or not.

What do you want me to do? Why won't you kiss me? How can I show you I am ready? Should I just kiss you first?

Thanks for the help!!

2007-07-10 04:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together a yr. We love eachother and are moving to a new apt. (we have lived together for 6 months). We are not easily mad about stupid things like "the toilet seat being left up" or my panties being left on his bed. But lately one thing annoys me so much!!
HE IS SOOO QUIET.
I love a good convo, about anything really. I will talk and talk and hope he will jump in, but he never does and then playfully teases me about talking so much. I am an actor and so I guess I am used to thinking a lot and sharing complex convos with other artists and thinkers of that nature. I want to be able to have a bf I can stay up till 3 am talking and never get bored. But he is not one to talk much! He is nice, caring, and very sweet and drop dead hot though. Is this enough to move on and leave him, or is it something I will get over? I just hate noticing when guys who are cute at work, flirt and talk to me, they are sooo interesting and talk about a wide range of topics.

2007-07-10 04:31:33 · 15 answers · asked by vada 4

race, looks, assests, personality(intr, extr),age, etc.?

2007-07-10 04:30:37 · 7 answers · asked by jane 2

...what would it be?

The "shy" guy-type...?
The "bad-boy" guy-type...?
The "funny" guy-type...?
Etc, etc...?

Please feel free to make-up your own " " guy-type.......

2007-07-10 04:22:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

or am i just being stupid\?

2007-07-10 04:12:05 · 25 answers · asked by random.princess 4

I had an ex that cheated on me and started acting mean to me, so I dumped him. Not long after, we got into this huge argument & started insulting each other. I made a cheap jab about how he was still a virgin, & he responded with some story about having a 2-yr-old son. In reality the "son" he spoke of is really his girlfriend's nephew(I have a lot more facts/proof about this than he realizes). So he lied about having a kid that he doesn't have, to spite me. What do you think of this? By the way he's 19 yrs old.

2007-07-10 04:11:11 · 1 answers · asked by I Hate my haters 1

2007-07-10 04:07:16 · 4 answers · asked by Marry J 1

2007-07-10 04:05:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have let a few guys touch my breasts and they always want to go further but I never let them. For me I am very able to handle my urges. since I have so many other outlets for t hose kinds of feelings. I think guys need to touch and even put their mouth and face against breasts for intamacy. so is it ok to let someone you are dating to have that intamacy with you?

I would never have sexual intercourse or oral or manual stimulation with a guy without being married, but kissing and letting him touch my breasts seems to be good enough to him, and something to tide us over until marriage.

I wouldn't advise this for girls who can't control themselves though. I think breasts are a more inocent form of intamacy whereas sexual encounters bring you into a whole other world of issues and that only belongs in marriage.

So what do you other christians out their think about this?

Just curious.

2007-07-10 04:02:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-10 04:00:05 · 12 answers · asked by Love2beLoved 1

Ok I need both the male and female perspective (which I kinda know which way this might go)

Long story short, I have been seeing this boy (and I say boy, he is 26, I am in my 30s.) We have a ton of laughs and the physical side is wonderful. However, due to his lagging, just showing up late (now granted we did not "agree" to a meeting time, but cmon you talk to the person and say see you soon and show up three hours later????) I basically got turned off and told him we could only be friends as I could not see myself being intimate with someone who totally disrespects my time.

He gave every excuse under the book (it is mostly his family holding him up, yes, he still lives with his family, I KNOW!) but last night I was fed up and told him what a loser he his and he is going nowhere. Now I am NOT materialistic, I just see he is basically dependant on his family for everything (works with his dad) and is just YOUNG! But he is a VERY nice person and he has a good heart.

2007-07-10 03:59:01 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Trying to find out which cologne the women like the most

2007-07-10 03:57:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not too long ago, I dated a guy that was a virgin. We had a messy break-up(he cheated on me, so I broke up w/ him), & during one of our many immature post break-up arguments(we would call each other post break-up to mock or curse out the other person), he made up a story about having a 2-yr-old son that was, in reality, his new girlfriend's NEPHEW. (he isn't fully aware that I'm on to him, but I have my proof) It was some dumb story he made up to anger me & to falsely "justify" why he cheated on me & left me for another girl.

Is it wrong to lie about having a kid when you don't have one? Was he immature for doing this?

A friend suggested that I should tell him that during our time dating, I got "pregnant"(not true) w/ another guy's kid(remember, my ex is/was a virgin), as payback for him pretending to have a kid. Is this wrong, or would this be simply giving him a taste of his own medicine? (I'm NOT saying I agree w/ this idea) But then again, a friend said it'd be "unforgivable

2007-07-10 03:55:24 · 17 answers · asked by I Hate my haters 1

would you like to have more than 1 relationship?would you like to spend your life time with different partners?

2007-07-10 03:52:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i really like this guy and we r both in highschool and i know he likes me back but he said he has never come close to having a girlfriend until me.....is that a bad thing?

2007-07-10 03:51:50 · 16 answers · asked by screw this life 1

If you're a good looking, talented, kind, intelligent, funny, caring, sweet, fun, sexy and interesting woman and an incredibly good friend to a man, and he knows this and tells you it, why would he sleep with you then get back together with his ex who had annoyed him and left him for another man two weeks later and tell you he was never attracted to you?

2007-07-10 03:45:13 · 43 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

2007-07-10 03:44:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean im curvy but not fat and im healthy weight but it seems like guy go for the model like skinny.what do you go for? and what does curves in the rite place mean?

2007-07-10 03:42:13 · 19 answers · asked by HAIDAIYYABISBIKARO 1

2007-07-10 03:40:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do men do this all the time even my girlsfriends complain about what men do after sex. You pay all the attention in the whole world before having sex and then no attention after zex not even an eye contact. If that happens is because you don't love her or it's plainly sex. I know guys are not emotional ppl but darn that's cold.

2007-07-10 03:37:26 · 7 answers · asked by jane 2

I am just wondering are there any boys out there who like girls for their personality and not thier looks? cuz the only guys that i know that like girls for thier personality are.... wait i dont know anyone who are like that. i just wana know if any of u guys feel the same or are personality likers!

2007-07-10 03:35:53 · 38 answers · asked by wierdchick_11 1

70's. Are there any such bars in Manhattan or Brooklyn?

2007-07-10 03:29:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 14 years old and I was married to his father for 12 years at which time I was the one that worked and stayed home with the kids on the weekends. My husband was a serious drinker and drug user he would sometimes leave in the middle of the night and then we wouldnt see him for days. In our marriage I went out with my freinds about once a month and he stayed with the kids (I have 2 children 14&10). I filed for a divorce a year ago and six months ago I met someone. This guy is real good to me but we are just getting to know each other better. I am not comfortable bringing him around my children or my home yet. However most Friday and Saturday nights I stay at his house after we go out my children or either with thier dad (who is sober now), staying the night at a freinds house, or with my sister. In the morning I picki them up and we do things like the movies or park etc. My son wa mad the other day and said I should stay home even if they are not there. Am I wrong?

2007-07-10 03:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by Angel 2

It's happened on more than one occasion, twice with 2 different teachers, and I'm in the 10th grade. Another that wasn't a teacher but works with my mom...

2007-07-10 03:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by Zac 1

Girls if your man left the country after 2 years of dating and said he was coming back. Then stopped calling all of a sudden. would you still wait for him to come back? would u ever be able to fall out of love?

2007-07-10 03:22:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl, suddenly appeared back in my boyfriends life about a month ago and they said that her boyfreind wouldnt let them talk.

so last night she decided to pour her heart out about him and that the girl who broke his hearts will always have his heart and that he will never love me like her.

then decided to tell me three girls were planning on messing with us over the next few months

THEN and this is what made me angry, she said that when he gets angry he takes it out on the person he cares about most and made a point to say, oh He will take it all out on me so that will save you some steam!!!!

we have been on and off for about a year. and eveyrhting she said to me was rude... My boyfriend was like I would always go to you first before her baby...

So i dont wnat to start drama because she wants it but good God she obviously wants to start something... wat do i do?!?!?

2007-07-10 03:17:54 · 15 answers · asked by canthearu12 1

have curves or do they like girls who are skinny...or both?

2007-07-10 03:09:15 · 15 answers · asked by helloooo 3

weve dated for a year i was his first love as well as he was mine..he was completly inlove with me then things got rough and we hurt eachother alot and i ended up on cheating while we were on and off..we tried to put things back together but it wouldnt work we were both hurt and i told him we need a big break to let things cool off..he cried thuaght of suicide for lke two months and all but things just ddnt work between us well enough to get back together even if we still loved eachother...then we got into a fight and just stoped talking. after three months we talked again and i told him i love him and he ddnt want to hear it..i know oviousli i have hurt him ALOT and ****** things up alot. anyways so now we try not to see eachother or talk alot he is being very mean comes to my house wants sex ( i was his first and only one apparenlty and he was my first) i told him many times i love him but he just wont listen and tells me he dsnt want to be hurt like this again and then has a new gf?

2007-07-10 03:08:57 · 2 answers · asked by PureInnocence 2

go to this link and my bf relates to ALL of those. i really love him and i have chatted with his ex's and they say he is really loyal and would never cheat. what are your thoughts??

2007-07-10 03:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not talking about the ones you get from your mom or dad. I mean a romantic type.

2007-07-10 02:55:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous