this girl, suddenly appeared back in my boyfriends life about a month ago and they said that her boyfreind wouldnt let them talk.
so last night she decided to pour her heart out about him and that the girl who broke his hearts will always have his heart and that he will never love me like her.
then decided to tell me three girls were planning on messing with us over the next few months
THEN and this is what made me angry, she said that when he gets angry he takes it out on the person he cares about most and made a point to say, oh He will take it all out on me so that will save you some steam!!!!
we have been on and off for about a year. and eveyrhting she said to me was rude... My boyfriend was like I would always go to you first before her baby...
So i dont wnat to start drama because she wants it but good God she obviously wants to start something... wat do i do?!?!?
2007-07-10 03:17:54 · 15 answers · asked by canthearu12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore her. Make your boyfriend ignore her, too. Nothing will make her look worse and nothing will get her out of your life faster than just ignoring her. It makes her irrelevant, and when she becomes irrelevant, she'll be high-tailing it out of your business. That said, it only works if your boyfriend backs you up. If he won't, then I'd wonder a little bit about him. Good luck!
2007-07-10 03:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I got a little lost but I found I can relate to this story in a way. You need to re-evaluate the situation, is this a big deal? Ask yourself WHY are you so angry? Is this logical? After I asked myself those questions, I spoke with my significant other about the situation...The conclusion was, there are 2 people in a relationship, NOT 3 or 4 or 5. If you love each other and have been with each other for that long, you must trust one another and leave the relationship to only 2 people.
2007-07-10 03:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anin003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's just jealous, she wants him back. But the good thing is you're not gonna let him slip away anytime soon! WHo cares if she makes rude comments, she's only saying them so you'll leave him and she can get back with him! Just ignore them!
2007-07-10 03:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Roberta 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her that ur from the slapaho tribe and u have ur own way of dealing with drama and smack her in the face!! who is she to say that he wont love u like he loved his ex's...im sorry but thats wiked f*cked up and u shouldnt stand for that..if she is really his friend than she should be treating u with respect since ur apart of his life now...she has no business saying those rude things to u!!
2007-07-10 03:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by jennybean7985 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date someone else! Perhaps someone over the age of 15. Sheesh.
2007-07-10 03:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like drama leave. Life is beautiful. Partake in the beauty of it and dont waste time dwelling in its gutter.
2007-07-10 03:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes trying to rattle you. don't let her see how much it pissed you off. don't react to her. she isn't a part of your relationship with your b/f. she admitted she has feelings for your b/f indirectly so any advice she gives you is biased and tainted. shes being catty and you are above that so i would say stay away from her.
2007-07-10 03:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lovelee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore her. She's just trying to start some crap, and she needs to chill out, leave you (and him) alone, and go get a life!
Tell her thanks SO MUCH for that information, and let her know that you'll give it all the consideration it deserves, and buh-bye.
2007-07-10 03:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥≈Safi≈♥ ☼of the Atheati☼ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow that's some crazy stuff. who is she like his frist love or something?? man i know how u feel. well this is kinda personal so feel free to email me about it...
fia1125@yahoo.com
2007-07-10 03:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her the truth and tell her too stop starting up drama
2007-07-10 03:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by helloooo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋