My son is 14 years old and I was married to his father for 12 years at which time I was the one that worked and stayed home with the kids on the weekends. My husband was a serious drinker and drug user he would sometimes leave in the middle of the night and then we wouldnt see him for days. In our marriage I went out with my freinds about once a month and he stayed with the kids (I have 2 children 14&10). I filed for a divorce a year ago and six months ago I met someone. This guy is real good to me but we are just getting to know each other better. I am not comfortable bringing him around my children or my home yet. However most Friday and Saturday nights I stay at his house after we go out my children or either with thier dad (who is sober now), staying the night at a freinds house, or with my sister. In the morning I picki them up and we do things like the movies or park etc. My son wa mad the other day and said I should stay home even if they are not there. Am I wrong?
2007-07-10 03:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, your son is at a difficult age. He is probably upset b/c this is the first guy you've dated who is not his father. He probably also knows about sex and is having a hard time dealing with the fact that you might be doing this with someone who is not his father. He may also just be angry because he feels excluded from that part of your life.
Give him time. I'm sure he'll come around.
BTW- I applaud you for not springing this new man on your children. I actually have single parent relatives who parade man after man after man in and out of the house, in front of their children...the kids are SO confused and hurt. I'm glad you are not taking your relationship lightly. I think based on that fact, you truly care about your children and they will be find when the introductions finally do happen.
Good luck!
:-)
2007-07-10 03:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by YSIC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's not sturdy in any respect. there are various issues that could come out of this. This female is a information on a thank you to experienced for him. meaning she could desire to be into intercourse and has already had intercourse. your son could be uncovered to sexually transmitted illnesses and having somewhat one. that's not sturdy for a boy his age. positioned a end to it. She additionally could desire to pass to penitentiary if somebody informed the police or suggested it. it is unlawful for an 18/19 300 and sixty 5 days previous as much as now everyone below the age of 17 which you mustn't enable your son as much as now this female.
2016-11-08 21:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be this way for quite a long time, he isn't going to like anyone that you are with unless it's his dad. Too bad that the world doesn't work the way he wants it to. If you want to be happy, you are going to have to let him get mad. I ran into this problem with my children and decided that I was live my life and not let my children run it for me.
2007-07-10 03:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are entitled to your own life.....children tend to be jealous and possessive. It is something he will have to get over. My daughter was 21 and jealous of me dating !!!
2007-07-10 03:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, im 13 and if my mom started dating i would be crushed.
Put yourself in your sons shoes.
2007-07-10 03:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋