Singles & Dating - 10 July 2007

It seems like i just can't have a successful healthy relationship!
I am getting so depressed. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend right now but I don't think either of us are happy. I know i'm not. I hate feeling like i can't please him and feeling like he doesn't really want me.

Its so hard to know how much of it is real and how much of it is just in my head. I am 20 years old and never been in a relationship longer than 5 months!! =(
Also i'm saving myself for marriage so that makes it a bit tougher to keep a guy around! I'm so depressed and can't stop crying!

please help!

2007-07-10 06:26:10 · 8 answers · asked by starryeyed 5

im dating my step half cousin by marrige. i didnt kno till the other night now we're confused if we should still go out or not.

2007-07-10 06:25:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is s kid at work that i only see once a week i think he like me but i dont no... guys how would u act around me if u liked me and only saw mw once a week?

2007-07-10 06:22:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

btw i'm a nerd. :-D

2007-07-10 06:22:12 · 15 answers · asked by sophia Grace 4

2007-07-10 06:18:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met someone really great, he seems very into me and invited me to go to the lake with him and his friends this weekend. He said as far as he is concerned he doesn't need to see anyone else because he likes me a lot. But I just saw that he invited a girl and some of her friends too.. I don't know if I should be concerned about it. Do I have a reason to be jealous do you think? Or do you think its just a friendly thing since he asked me to go too. I'm confused.

2007-07-10 06:18:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok men i want you to be real honest!! Would you or would you not date a 23 year old divorced single mom with two kids?? I mean actually consider having a long term relationship with her not just friends or anything else.. You know what i mean...

2007-07-10 06:08:35 · 41 answers · asked by ~So Over It~ 2

wat is you i deal girl to a T
describe wat she looks like and everything!

2007-07-10 06:08:22 · 7 answers · asked by uroxmysox32 1

2007-07-10 05:56:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Only answers plezz,no question,as it's a question you have to put answers only!

2007-07-10 05:51:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my girlfriend a week ago after us being together for a year. she said it was ok we needed time apart. Promised me we would get better. wiped my face off and she gave me a kiss told me to think about things. Then when it came time to talk she wouldnt say anything. for 3 days. then i listen to her voice mails and a guy said hey this *** call me back. She got over me in less than a week. Then I told her we learned from our mistakes and next b/f and g/f we can treat in a better way. she thought i meant she was just practice to me. Then said she hated me and hoped i burned in hell. So i wanted to make sure . i wanted to see if she really didn't care about me anymore so i made a my space account pick the girl she hated the most as a friend to see if it hurt her. maybe my conscience got in the way and i just thought she had a new b/f/ b/c it bothered her. I really love her and i want her back so bad.

2007-07-10 05:45:10 · 1 answers · asked by Ty W 1

This guy I liked doesn't like me, but his best friend is still trying to get him to like me. I'm saving my dignity and moving on, is that the right thing to do??

2007-07-10 05:45:07 · 25 answers · asked by lovepink8080 2

The relationship is pretty good otherwise (conversation, etc), with the exception of a few very off-putting idiosyncracies. There's no 'spark' at all...but there never has been. Does this mean I should be with someone else?

2007-07-10 05:44:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a very very odd situation. It's really hard to explain, but I've been involved on and off with this guy. He needed a place to stay for a few months because he's trying to save his money. I felt sorry for him and told him that he could stay with me. He definitely made it clear to me that he's not interested in a future romantic relationship with me. Just friendship. Now, to make it more complicated, about three months ago, he started converting to orthodox judaism and tells me that there no touching of any kind. He sleeps on the couch in the living room, closes my bedroom door at night, changes his clothes in the bathroom, and wants nothing to do with me. Honestly, he's been unfront with me, but I just assumed that he would "want" me. I want to ask him to leave but I feel bad because he has no place to go right now. The tables sure are turned in this one, and I feel humiliated, insulted, uncomfortable, and rejected. Any suggestions?

2007-07-10 05:38:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-10 05:34:14 · 14 answers · asked by Rob M 2

2007-07-10 05:31:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-10 05:30:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and my 3 year anniversary is on monday. I think he has this big date planned, and I don't know if I should just get it over with or wait until afterwards. It seems to me that either way he will be wasting his money.

2007-07-10 05:20:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can a man and woman who have sex, (but is not married) have made a commitment to each other?

2007-07-10 05:17:01 · 10 answers · asked by plumprump26 4

pulls you without knowing your name (pull= make out) and then when you leave, tells everyone 'it would have been better if she'd shut her mouth more'
Do i ignore him now or what? Because I dont think he did it spitefully but it still upset me that he told everybody...

2007-07-10 05:16:09 · 13 answers · asked by Jess. 4

if u wanted 2 be a striper in high school and u have a bf wat do u think

2007-07-10 05:14:58 · 13 answers · asked by Fumbelina 1

I've always wondered. =\

2007-07-10 05:12:13 · 18 answers · asked by adriana_00000 2

2007-07-10 05:11:44 · 7 answers · asked by spreadds 1

Friday & Saturday night he stayed out until after 3 am.
Sunday he was upset with me because I wasn't upset with him for coming in late?
How crazy is that?

2007-07-10 05:10:48 · 41 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4

i live in england essex thank you

2007-07-10 05:05:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is kind of off the subject but I heard the other night that you love me. The thing is I have to be honest with you; we only knew each other for 2 1/2 months while I was down there, and I know I'm not in love with you now, but it doesn't mean that it's not possible in the future. I'm being honest and I don't want to lead you on or give you the wrong idea, I'm not trying to break any hearts here.

2007-07-10 05:04:49 · 7 answers · asked by white trash 2

My ex said that he loved me so much that he hated me
What the hell does that mean?

2007-07-10 04:53:56 · 7 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4

Im 18 yrs old
Ive been in a relationship for about 4 months already. and because my parents are really strict i only get to see my boyfriend 1 a week. and yesturday was our 4 month anniversary. and he didnt call me. It kinda frustrates me because we barely see each other and he sould call me. and get this if he does call me he calls me 1 a day unless i dont agree with him in something that he calls me until everything is fine.
...i dunt know what to do....some help?

2007-07-10 04:53:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK SO IM 20 YEARS OLD AND I'VE BEEN TALKING 2 THIS GUY THAT'S 17 (HE WILL B 18 IN ONE MONTH) BUT HE SEEMS TO LIKE ME AND WELL I SEEM TO LIKE HIM. HE IS INTO CLUBS AND ALL THAT BECAUSE HE WORKS AT ONE SO MOSTLY WE ALL WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT IS NIGHTLIFE AND WE'RE STARTING TO GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER. THERE IS ONE THING THAT HE DOESN'T KNOW ABOUT ME, I HAVE 2 CHILDREN!!! NOW I THINK IT'S TIME TO BRING IT UP BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO START?? MOSTLY I'VE BEEN CHATTING WITH HIM ON MYSPACE SO I THINK I'LL DO IT THROUGH THERE. I LOVE MY KIDS AND WANT HIM TO KNOW ABOUT THEM. (NOT THAT HE'S GONNA BE AROUND THEM) STRICTLY BECAUSE I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. BUT I'VE BEEN SEPERATED FROM THEIR DAD FOR OVER A YEAR NOW SO.....ANY SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO BRING THIS UP
AND NO IMMATURE COMMENTS ON HOW I NEED TO FOCUS ON MY KIDS BECAUSE I TAKE CARE OF THEM AND AM VERY RESPONSIBLE. SO IF YOU DON'T WANNA HELP DON'T BOTHER. FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT DO......THANX

2007-07-10 04:48:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so how curvy is too curvy...
I'm seventeen .
I'm about 5'6 to maybe 5'6 1/2
and I'm 124 pounds
usually 122 it depends it goes up and down
but yeah,
do you think thats too curvy
or would i look better to lose weight!
be honest with me!

thanks

2007-07-10 04:40:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous