What Do You Think?

Question

I broke up with my girlfriend a week ago after us being together for a year. she said it was ok we needed time apart. Promised me we would get better. wiped my face off and she gave me a kiss told me to think about things. Then when it came time to talk she wouldnt say anything. for 3 days. then i listen to her voice mails and a guy said hey this *** call me back. She got over me in less than a week. Then I told her we learned from our mistakes and next b/f and g/f we can treat in a better way. she thought i meant she was just practice to me. Then said she hated me and hoped i burned in hell. So i wanted to make sure . i wanted to see if she really didn't care about me anymore so i made a my space account pick the girl she hated the most as a friend to see if it hurt her. maybe my conscience got in the way and i just thought she had a new b/f/ b/c it bothered her. I really love her and i want her back so bad.

Answer 1

Confess to her, your wasting your time talking to us about this. Also you can never say TO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!! It is so important to realize inorder for ANY human relationship to work you have to be able to, willing to, and able to speck as close to the honest truth as you understand. You playing these little kid games to know the truth only hurt both of you, wouldn't it had been better to man up and just ask? One way or another being able to confront a person about the way you feel is a social survival technique, work on that and miscommunications like this might not happen so much in the future. Its better to feel that you might of said to much, then not enough, trust me on that one..... every time to, yea, trust me on that one....