Singles & Dating - 28 June 2007

I have been holding on to my virginity and saving it for a loving, committed relationship with a woman who shares the same feelings for me as I do for her. I wouldn't care if she wasn't a virgin, but I have high standards for myself. Unfortunately, I have never been fortunate enough to have been involved in such a relationship with a woman. I've dated off and on over the years, but without any luck. I'm not ugly or disfigured or anything like that, I'm average looking, tall, slim, I am healthy, and I exercise often. I live alone in an apartment, and I can function, cook clean, and care for myself just fine. IThe big issue is that I'll be turning 36 in August, and I am still a virgin. Sometimes I feel like I have cheated myself by continuing to do what I've felt in my heart was the 'right' thing to do. I feel like I am really, really not normal being as old as I am, and still as much a virgin as I was when I was born. Any thoughts?

2007-06-28 12:56:28 · 13 answers · asked by CAMERON S 3

I started dating a guy about a month ago. Things were going so well! We'd see each other 2-3 times a week, he'd talk about taking me on a road trip, or play guitar and sing to me, and said so many sweet things. He had me come over and hang out with his friends, you name it. All signs pointed towards the start of a relationship.

Then I mentioned the word "relationship". He hasn't called me or returned a message I wrote him a few days ago. In the message, I admitted that I might have rushed him, and that I didn't mean to, but it had felt right at the time. I let him know that I just look forward to us getting to know one another better, because I think he's a great guy. I said "You could be a player, but I don't get that feeling from you".

And he still won't respond. Why would he have gone from hot to cold, in an instant? I am thoroughly confused and hurt a bit.
What can I do now to repair this relationship, and let him know I never meant to rush him?

Thanks everyone!

2007-06-28 12:52:28 · 8 answers · asked by confused4589 1

I want to get revenge on a guy who used me. I did stuff with him and I liked him then but then his sister told me he just used me and I want to make him pay...really bad! Any suggestions?

2007-06-28 12:51:36 · 24 answers · asked by attica 1

Someone said the photo made me look scary (im not a scary person...) Someone els said it looked beautifull.

WHICH ONE IS IT??? can scary also be pretty? isnt that a little redundant? what do you think?

http://i182.photobucket.com/albums/x50/Blahboredom123/meghostlike.jpg

2007-06-28 12:50:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf is always constantly coming up with really cute surprises and I want to do the same for her, but I have no idea what to do. I don't wanna sound cheap but I need something where it doesnt cost much yet special and creative. Got any ideas please let me know. thank you sooo much!

2007-06-28 12:47:56 · 4 answers · asked by LoveStruckBoy18 2

My bf and I have been dating for a while now and currently live together. I recently completed graduate school and am working on getting myself established. My bf is a senior in college and will be graduating in May.

I am a few years older than him (I'm 28 and he's 25) and while I'm not ready to get married tomorrow, I do want to get married within the next 3-4 years. We've talked about marriage and he has told me he wants us to get married but school comes first before anything. He wants to get himself established first before marriage.

I realize that it will take him a while to get situated after graduation and I am trying to decide whether I should wait for him or not. Should I wait for him?

2007-06-28 12:45:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is causal sex for a women such a taboo, but such a norm for a man? I don’t personally have causal sex because I have a long term relationship, but I don’t personally feel it should be something women should be judged upon so harshly and men so indifferently. My boyfriend said that he wouldn’t want a long-term relationship with a girl who had been ‘ around the block’, why do men think that girls who have been ‘ around the block’ are not good enough for long-term relationships?

2007-06-28 12:36:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-28 12:19:12 · 10 answers · asked by britney g 1

2007-06-28 12:06:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-28 12:03:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-28 11:54:00 · 6 answers · asked by kimberly k 5

i am capable of taking care of myself, would never depend on a man for his money, yet men seem to love the golddigger type bitches. what gives?

2007-06-28 11:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by mon6ica8 1

do you use it loosely or do you reserve these words for someone special? do you mean it when you say it? why or why not?

2007-06-28 11:48:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have alot of anger,especially at work lately,because people are trying to mess with my head and i'm being treated like crap just because i'm a cleaner. I got humiliated at work today(and laughed at) but had to bite my tongue and remain calm even though it was eating away at me. Work really got me down today,how do i face tomorrow when i'm so worked up inside?how should i act?i find it hard to control myself?

2007-06-28 11:47:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

play fighting as in punching someone they barley know in a cutsey cutsey manner. is it flirty?

2007-06-28 11:43:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well my boyfriend is 24 and he has a female friend who messages him all the time she call him he calls her and they went out to lunch and he promised he wouldnt take her on the back of his bike and he did and he tryed to lie about it and i found out the truth we have been fighting over this and i told him to pick me or her and he said that theres nothing going on and i am just talking about something i dont know about and there just friends a couple months before he did something that made me distrust him he had some lady from work over they were drinking and watching a movie together and that is something you dont do when you are in a relationship i felt betrade backstabed it hurt what do i do about this?

2007-06-28 11:43:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son will be 18 in 2 months. He is out of school. He has not been coming home. He has kept in touch with me through phone calls and stops by though and lets me know where he is staying all night. This has been going on for a couple of weeks. Well I finally had enough of trying to talk him into not leaving every time I walk out the door and then just deciding not to come home and just texting and telling me where he is staying. The last couple days he has been avoiding me cause I have been putting more pressure on him to stay home. I have chased him around for 2 days and finally caught him at a friends house this morning. He refused to get in the car or come home and I tried to physically put him in the car but that did not work because he is bigger than me ! I was going to call the police on him but I really dont want to get him put in jail cause I dont believe he is out doing any harm, he is just running with all his friends and wanting to be a man and do what he wants

2007-06-28 11:42:10 · 17 answers · asked by JJ 5

the reason why i say this is because, a girl falls in love to fast ,than a guy.guys tend not to take it serios.why is that

2007-06-28 11:40:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf sometimes treats me like I'm his daughter. The age difference isnt that big, only 6 years. He said that he feels responsible for me as if I was his child.

He doesnt misstreat me or anything but its like he's tender and loving like I was really his daughter. I feel like I am sometimes. I like it but I think its a lil strange.

He says that he loves my childish side and says that he's amazed how childish yet lady like I can be!! He's very protective of me and he often just likes to sing me to sleep and stuff..

Does that mean he really loves me or does it mean he just thinks I'm childish!? Do you think this is a sign of love?

2007-06-28 11:38:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need help i really love him

2007-06-28 11:35:31 · 12 answers · asked by hot_blondie 1

2007-06-28 11:33:16 · 33 answers · asked by Imarobotx 1

Usually when I tell my man something that was really exiting for me he takes it like nothing. Another example whenevr we told his dad I was pregnant he just said "Well thats ur problem I'm not gonna support him u are" and that was that. So whenever I have something that is of importance to me I just tell the girls.Any experiences?

2007-06-28 11:32:51 · 4 answers · asked by babycakes 2

what does a guy want in a girl/girl friend?? thxs for ur help :)

2007-06-28 11:29:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

a couple weeks ago my friend and i went out to the courts to play sand vb there were a bunch of guys who were there and they were mainly older but there was one that is like barley 2 years older from me and my friend was like that guy is so checking you out. now i go every wesday and monday to play with them. yesterday the guy was playing around he kicked sand at me and so i kicked some back at him one of the older guys was like i sense some flirting. later when we were taking a break from playing he started throwing ice at me.later on like the last game we were playing i guess i seemed really mad b/c he kept asking me what was wrong when i said nothing he still insisted. he jokes around with me b/c last week i served to him and hurt his hand (not bad) but he teases me bout it and is like dont hurt me. but then when i dive for the ball he insits on helpin me up....what is going on?? please help me!

2007-06-28 11:27:12 · 9 answers · asked by Bobbie J 2

i have a boyfriend, who has been a close friend since i was a freshman in high school. well he moved and we stayed in touch and when he moved back which wasnt to long ago we got together. we've been together for almost 3 months. he sometimes gets on my nerves and says stupid things. but thats not the problem. in a few weeks im moving 2 1/2 hours away from our hometown to start college. i'm a big partier and i like to make the best of everything and meet new people. Now he is going to move back to where he was living which is an hour and 45 mins in the other direction to get a better job, more money whatever. He is real concerned with what i am doing all the time which annoys me. well we always said we'd be friends when we break up and we both believe we will. So should i break this off before it is too late or should i give it a little while with us apart and see how it is going to play out? PLS HELP!!

2007-06-28 11:26:58 · 3 answers · asked by dancin_countrygurl 2

What would a girl say to you that would make you really like her???

If you knew her a long time?

If you knew her a few weeks?

Please answer both honestly??

Thanks xx

2007-06-28 11:25:57 · 11 answers · asked by JuSmE 1

If a mutual crush who all of a sudden stopped calling will be at your job today to facilitate a workshop that you are required to attend, how would you act and deal with this person (and it's going to be a roundtable, so I will have to communicate and look at this person).

2007-06-28 11:22:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I catch a guy glancing at me often, could it mean that he likes me? Once he had this look on his face (I saw for just a split second) during church when he looked at me, and me sister said he was "checking me out" If not, what does it mean then, if anything?

And I can't imagine him being too embarassed to talk to me or say anything, because he is super friendly and outgoing. (He moved here recently from a city about 10-15 minutes away)

He's my neighbor, by the way...lives right across the street. We also work at the same place, but it's huge and we're in different departments so I don't see him much. We're both 15, and we'll be sophomores at the same school come the end of August (it'll be his first time going to that school...)

2007-06-28 11:21:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-28 11:19:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend we will call him s ive known him for only a year but it seems like forever! I can tell him everything except that i like him. Then he told me he is going out with my best friend j! im happy for her but im soo sad! they broke up! i was soo happy cause he was single but he keeps talking about her!
should i ask him out or shall i just wait for someone to ask me out!

2007-06-28 11:17:08 · 4 answers · asked by gossip gal 1